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Dating: Help and advice

Why does my ex keeping popping into my head all the time when I don't want to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Please help, I am in turmoil. I was with my ex-boyfriend on and off for 7 years. We got together when I was 17 and split up when I was 24. I ended our relationship because I had slept with someone else. I then immediately started a relationship with ...

He's too immature for me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a dilemma, I've recently started seeing a guy who is 4 years younger than me (he's 21 and I'm 25). Although I don't mind the age gap I'm just finding him a little immature and I don't know whether I should continue seeing him and ...

Diet advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles, I have quite an embarrassing question and I'm after a bit of diet advice? if thats right? I'm 16 and I'm 5 foot 4, size 10/12 clothes but I'm 12 stone, I have manly muscles in my arms and a four pack which really creeps me out, ...

I have trust issues but feel I am too controlling if I restrict him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 1/2 years. We are at different colleges, me in Florida and him in New York but he lives in Florida and comes home for breaks. We spent most of last year broken up trying to figure things out since it was ...

Suddenly she wants to use condoms... is she cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - i think my girlfriend is cheating on me. we have been going out for just over 3 months and because she is on the pill, we dont use condoms. however, over the last couple of weeks, she has insisted that we use condoms. we are at different univer...

Get out of his life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - hey guys, just wanted some advice... I've been together with my bf for 5 months now but we got together pretty soon after he finished with his ex of 5 years... to be honest we were kinda going on while he was still with his ex but i wasnt aware of ...

What's the best way to meet up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Hi guys, quick question, not immedialtely love related, but close enough. Only UK residents need answer due to obvious reasons Two people want to meet. One lives in Colchester, Essex one lives in Cannock, West Midlands. What's the best place a...

What could I do to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I just want to know what I can do to make my guy go crazy sexually. I don't feel like Im satisfying him well enough and would like to get more of a reaction out of him. All the things I do to him: I give him oral sex which I love doing, but the l...

What can I do to be less needy and not want her time all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Hey, I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16. She's the kind of girl that doesn't have to see me for a whole day to call it spending time and I'm the exact opposite and so I need help to find a way to where I can become the same way so I'm not so (needy - I ...

We have been getting intimate at the cinema. I don't mind, but I don't want to get caught!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - hello, im 18 and my gf is 19, we both go to the cinema to get some alone time because we can never anywhere else, and we want to go farther, weve started to get a little more intimate at the cinema, shes given me a handjob already, she ...

Do I really like him even though I don't know him personally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - i have met a boy 2 years older than me on an online game. we have been talking dirty to each other qiute a lot and i like it. the problem is that i really like him but i dont no whether i should ask him if he likes me and if we should be together as ...

My ex slept with me and his new girlfriend is sleeping with her ex!

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30 October 2008 (F) - hi, last nite i had sex with my ex bf of about 2 weeks he left me to go bk to his ex but there having problams, they are not together but there trying to work it out the thing is she doesnt trust him, Anyway, shes been having her ex round to stay ...

Does he hug me just to get me to shut up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - hello my boyfriend allways when we talk he stares at me smiling, and hugging me, does this mean that he doesn't give a crap of what I am speaking? does he hugg me for me to shut up? Guys please opinions...

I miss my ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Last summer, I met a guy that completely stole my heart. Although at first I didn't notice him, when we started hanging out my attraction to him was undeniable. The more time I spent with him, the more I fell for him. Eventually I told him how I ...

We should be close to the same stage in life now, right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I never saw it as a problem but everytime we have an argument my gf says it is because or ages are different and we are in a different stage in our life as i am looking to settle down whereas she is not yet ready to settle down, we have been ...

What should I do when I see him? Should I say Hi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - A couple of months ago, i decided to get a friend to ask a boy out for me, because i really liked him and i was too busy crying because it was the last day of school lol, and we were both going to different schools to each other after that. My ...

I want to get to know him, but I'm really shy around boys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I am really shy around boys. when i talk to my girlfriends i cant stop chatting but when it comes to boys I cant speak like for example the other day a guy i fancied said " hello how are you " All i could say is " fine and u? " and he says " fine " ...

My fiancee isnt affectionate at home, just when we are out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 6 months. He is very sweet. I love him and I know he loves me. We are getting married nov2208. He isn't very affectionate. Well to me he still holds my hand and puts his arm around me. He wants me to go everywhere ...

What are signs that he 's falling out of love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for a year now and just recently moved into a beautiful place. Everything is going great just that since moving in together we've been having less sex. We went from having sex together everyday, to only once a ...

How do I tell him that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hi there is this lad that i really fancy and i can't stop thinking about him. He is really good looking and got a lovely personality and i would love to go out with him. My friends all say that he fancies me too n whenever we are together we alway...

I like two completely different guys. Who should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - i like two guys , i cant decide unless i make a mistake The first guy i like is the lead singer in a populare local band, hes allright looking, got a great sense of style.. but he can act like an idiot sometimes which embarrases me, he is soo sk...

Things are moving so slowly... does she just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I've been getting close to a girl for the pst three months. Started off emailing and texting with the old paranoia of 'does she like me?'. then we started hanging out- cinema- meals etc. eventually i told her i liked her- she reciprocated. Then i ...

He liked me when I was underage... now I'm 24 and he wants to go out with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have a question. I met this guy when I was 14 and he was 25, just once and he said he liked me then. Obviously,nothing happened then since i was underage. I never saw him again till last year, I'm 24 now and he likes me now too. Obviously the age ...

Is he just with her to make me jealous???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I think he wants me back but playing mind games! I split with ex of 2 an half year 3 month ago because he drank to the extent he became a horrible person, I asked him to quit and he said he couldn't. Since then he got a new lass who he's been with ...

I'm really beginning to HATE his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - The girl that my ex dumped me for has put pics of him and her on her facebook page and I found them this morning. I feel so bitter I keep going to write her a nasty message but then stop half way through cos I know it will make me look bad. But It ...

Dating a friend's ex equals insecurity

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I'm dating a fantastic girl right now. We've been good friends for years, we absolutely head over heels for each other, sex life is great, etc. etc. There's just one thing that's causing me a bit of a hangup: she's the ex of a really good friend of ...

What is it like to have a significant other who can't get over your past.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - There are a lot of questions on this site from guys who couldn't deal with their girlfriend's pasts. I'd like to know what it is like for the girl that has had a boyfriend or husband like this. What happened in your case? Did he ever get over it...

We get on great but lately I've been feeling this distance from him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now. We always have had a great time together, I make him laugh and I thought that he might be the one. Lately however, I have been feeling this distance from him. Intitally it was just him not ...

A question to those who broke up with their first love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - A little question for whoever fits this category. Has a lad ever split up with their first love, hung on and not known what's going on for about 5 months and then been told that you can't get back together by her, that she wants a fresh start at u...

Do I continue to tell him how much I love him or do I just let him go and figure this out by himself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Me and this guy have been dating for about 5 months and in this 5 months we have only spent about 2 weeks apart! He is different from anyother guy I have ever dated. Well his wife in which they have been split for 2 years has started causing us ...

Did I push him too far by putting him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have beein in a relationship for twelve years, and have children. My boyfriend and I were having problems and we broke up because of his flirting and he moved out. However we were back sleeping together soon after he moved out and I really ...

I love her so much but am not totally happy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I love me girlfriend very much and I feel she loves me, but there are things in life that I want that she doesn't share, she doesn't share my ambitions in life and doesn't see our future as I see it. Is this something that we can get over or is i...

Is he losing interest already?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 or 3 months and I'm having the time of my life. It seemed that he was too, but over the last 2 weeks or so he hasn't been sending me the cute little messages he used to or giving me compliments when we're together. ...

How can I let him know I would like to date him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5549 days ago

30 October 2008 (?) - i really like this guy named brian who works in the grocery store in my town. he's only 18 and i'm 15. i know he notices me because my mom says he will look at me when i'm pretending to ignore him. also when i go by myself he will flirt. and when i ...

Could his stalling mean his love has faded?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Quick question Mybfriend of a year said he wanted to move in with me (his idea) this year but now says its too soon and he has so much to sort with his house/mortgage. He is still being the same with me as before but does go distant some tim...

I have become insanely jealous! I know this isnt normal!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - The fact is, I've never loved anyone before - but I am most definetly in love now with my amazing boyfriend. He's lived in my street for a few years and from the moment I laid eyes on him I knew I had to be with him. He was gorgeous; tall, dark and ...

She seems to have lost her confidence and I don't want to lose her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - (I'VE ADDED MORE TO THIS PREVIOUS QUESTIONS AFTER BEING ASKED FOR ADDITIONAL INFORMATION) I've been getting close to a girl for the pst three months. Started off emailing and texting with the old paranoia of 'does she like me?'. then we started ...

He says hello to me. How can I get to know him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Theres this guy at my uni who I see around campus lots. I havent seen him in any of my classes, but he always looks me right in the eye, smiles and says hello everytime I see him (which is frequently). I smile and say hello back, but we never ac...

How can I make my girlfriend get back with me after I slapped her and beat my friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - How can I make my girlfriend get back with me after I slapped her and beat my friends coz I was drunk and I dont know what took me that night. I was always the one against women getting hit or violence period and I'm the one involved in it so please ...

Do guys like having their nipples sucked?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Ok I need as much deatil as possible please A time or two I have had guys lick/nibble my ear and I really liked it, but I have never done it to someone else, and I would like to try it out, areas to avoid _________, certain areas only get _______...

Guys opinions.... does he mean what he says or does he want more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - So i have recently stopped things with someone i was seeing for a few years, and i have had feelings for someone in his circle of friends, hes not good mates with him but knows him... This guy has made it known that he is keen on me, but has also ...

Should you tell if you were with someone else whilst on a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - So i have been with this guy for 2 years and i love him completely, but im really confused because lately i have had Major feelings for somone he knows. he isnt really mates with him. He is on his new footy team. I have spoken to him more than my ...

Is it normal for a girl to be REALLY tight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I was just wondering. Is it normal to be really really tight. People have tried to finger me but it just hurts way too much so we stop. The other night my boyfriend and I were talking about it and we thought maybe if we just went straight into ...

We broke up, now she's dating my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I'm 17 years old me and my fiance were engaged for 6 months, we broke up a few weeks ago but I still love her with all my heart. She still talks to me sometimes she told me when we broke up she wouldn't date no one else that she would wait on me ...

16 and still never been out on a date...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I was just wondering... When is the age when you're a little old to not have had any kind of relationship with a girl? I'm 16 I'm good looking (I get that a lot not making it up) I'm a regular person with a regular life (I'm not wierd or crazy LOL) ...

My friend hates my ex, now I'm back with him... do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Me and my ex were together for a while then I broke it off then we were just on off like most teenagers do. Well my best friend hates him, and he and I talked and took a few weeks and worked out all of our problems... i really love him... I'm scared ...

She freaked out and doesn't want to have sex with me any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - My fiancee and I just had sex for the first time. Well, some of you might not really call it that. I'll spare you the details. We were both virgins. She was even my first kiss. Basically we went slowly but once it was all the way in she started ...

He hasn't called after 2 months so I've told him I'm seeing someone else (which I'm not) have I done the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - So, I told him I was seeing someone else because 1. I wanted to let him know that while he was gone, I wasn't stuck on him and 2. that I am worthy of meeting someone who wants to be consistent with me. Thing is, that statement is only half-true. ...

This is more of a vent than anything... your opinions are appreciated.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I've read a number of posts on here about loving devoted men who are struggling with sexual frustration stemming from their loving partner's lack of interest in sex. So many people say do this, do that and be patient yet most of the questions se...

We're having a lot of arguments about the way she dresses.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I love this girl we are dating for a year and a half now she is soooooo sweet adorable lovely caring beatiful hot everything a man would want in a girl but lately we have been fighting a looooooot about the way she dressses... now I know it's silly ...

I'm not sure if he wants to take this further or not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5546 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have known this guy for almost two months and have been on couple of dates. The thing is that I'm not sure if he wants to take this further or not.. A couple days ago we were texting and he said he didn't want to be kissing me if I wasn't his ...

3 years together and she doesn't even think she's ever been in love with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Hello, My girlfriend moved out of state and asked me to join her which I did recently. She lives with her family and I live alone. We have been together for 3 years and a few months. She has been going to school full time and working a few ni...

Is there anything else I can try as in my state with anorexia I am unlikely to last longer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I'm 20 years old, I have an ok life with a boyfriend who suffers from depression and sometimes lashes out due to alcohol and drug problems. I missed out on my teenage years due to being thrown out by my mum who left the country when I was 15 I lived ...

In a relationship and I am not happy...should I break it off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and now I've become unhappy in my relationship. He's a great guy but we haven't had sex yet and yes we had the talk but he is paranoid about pregnancy. I'm on birth control but he can't help being scared. He ...

How do you get past 'just friends' into a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - So I have not had much luck with 'dating' girls, so therefore haven't really had a girlfriend. I think it is about time since I have been through 4 years of University, and still have not seemed to figure it out. How do you get past 'just frien...