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What should I do with this great connection we have?

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Question - (22 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *mbermclallen08 writes:

i have a really big crush on someone who has a girlfriend. me and him go to school together but she lives like 2 hours away at college he always flirts with me and alot of people see it, he even went as far as taking my phone and getting my number out of it, so hes making an effort i just feel wrong cause if i was that girl i wouldnt be to happy if i found out he was flirting with another girl. he texts me all day and like sends cute little things to me! we have a really good connection. what should i do?

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A female reader, Miss Potter United Kingdom +, writes (23 October 2008):

Miss Potter agony auntIf that was my boyfriend, and I am in a serious long distance relationship, I would consider this cheating. Maybe those two guys arent serious about their relationship or hes just the type of guy that thinks its ok to be flirting with another girl whilst involved with someone else. If you do get together just be aware that he isnt exactly the most faithful guy, so it seems like anyway. I know, i know hes just holding your hand, but if hes in a relationship with someone else he shouldnt be!

Best of luck x

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A female reader, ambermclallen08 United States +, writes (22 October 2008):

ambermclallen08 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ya thats true but i know they are still dating idk hes always like grabbing my hand and cute lil stuff you know that sends butterflies in your stomach :]

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A female reader, Miss Potter United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2008):

Miss Potter agony auntAsk him about his girlfriend. In a friendly non-pushy manner. Maybe they have decided to take time out. That would explain his flirting. In any case its best to ask him now before things get more complicated, so that you wont have things to regret later on.

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