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*mybaby
writes:my boyfriend hates giving me oral sex and thats the only way i'm able to orgasm, i have vibrators and other various things. has anyone got any suggestions
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reader, hany  +, writes (7 November 2008):
 he did what ?unbelievablelook i do not have a girlfriend yet and i did not have any sex before with anyone .. but i know this feeling is amazingso you have speak with him about that and start it step by step like showering together first then you start to give him a bj then he must do iti wish u gets it soon
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (23 October 2008):
If he's off sex all together then it could be a sign that your relationship is winding down.
Tell him he has to talk to you about it, as it's not a problem that's going to fix itself.
Don't be afraid to end things before they get too bad though, go out on a high and stay friends rather than waiting for the horrible part that comes around the 3 to 4 year mark.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (23 October 2008):
 Generally I agree with the others - What is good for the goose is good for the gander.
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reader, Cherriepie +, writes (23 October 2008):
 Drop him, hun. You got to do the likkin before you do the stikkin.... If he cant do that then I am sure you can find a lot of other guys who will not only do it, but do it good. You are basically incompatible.
Drop him, hun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): I have exactly the same issue with a guy I'm seeing right now! It's the one thing he refuses to do, and it would only seem fair that he returns the favour. Maybe your guy is just unaware of what to do, if so perhaps give him a few pointers and make sure you seem 'presentable' down there.
If nothing works just refuse to have sex until he at least tries it!
good luck with it all xx
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reader, Miss Potter +, writes (22 October 2008):
 Totally agree with previous poster about the fairness! No pussy licking - no cock sucking. My god, did I just really type that?? Hehehhe!
Yes, just ask him what is it exactly that puts him off - the hair, the smell or what hes seeing? If its the latter one I don't think theres much you can do about it...
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reader, amybaby +, writes (22 October 2008):
amybaby is verified as being by the original poster of the question we've been together for 4 years and he's only gave me oral ONCE! im always waxed and clean. i have asked him why he dont want to give me it but he always is like "i will do one day". he's gone off sex aswell though, i try to initiate it but he pushes me away
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 October 2008):
He may hate it but he could put up with it for you every now and then. Find out what he hates about it... would it be easier for him if there was less hair or if he did it when you were fresh from the shower?
Also, fair is fair and if he doesn't give then he doesn't receive.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): That really sucks. You've a collection of vibrators "and other things" so I'm guessing you have a very adventurous mind, so the last thing you want is to waste your time with some bloke who doesn't even want to go down on you. You're wasted, honey.
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reader, PillsburysGirl +, writes (22 October 2008):
 my boyfriend doesnt give me oral either, but I am okay with it, sometimes I cant handle when I a guy gives me oral, so its cool.. but for me to orgasm, he uses his fingers or just gives me the best sex ever! my question is, do you give him oral, if so, dont give him any til he gives you any. or is there a reason he wont give you oral...
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