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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What strategies can I use next, to re-kindle our love again? Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Today was the day i actually spoke to my ex-boyfriend in person during break (like I mentioned in my previous question). When he met me there my friend unexpectedly showed up, and started telling me about this other dude emailing me and such and so ...

I'm just so confused...do I stick it out or forget it? Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I'm 30 my partner 35 we have been together for a year. Basically I've been living with my parents which hasn't been ideal and not in a position to move out. I'm at my partner's most days and asked about living together, he said he wasn't ready this ...

Is what I'm doing illegal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and i are both 14, and we often just lie together snogging, and sometimes i put my hand in her bra... is this illegal?...

I'm in a mess, and don't know what to do, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hey I need help. I know that this is going to be kinda confusing but keep in mind I'm really confused anyway. I love my boyfriend to death... or at least I did when we started going out. Please don't think bad of me, but we hadn't gone out for a ...

I'm a 28 yr old woman for goodness sake! What's going on? Am I in denial of something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - My best guy friend, George* and I have been best friends for about fifteen years, and we have actually been living together for close to six months (to save on rent). Recently, I've caught him staring at me a few times and then as soon as I DO catch ...

It seems that all the guys round me want the dumb, loud, big-chested girls and I get over-looked...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (?) - Hi. I'm 15, female. I think I'm an average looking girl, not UGLY but not exactly beautiful either. Lots of folk tell me I'm funny, got a good sense of humour, that kind of stuff. I reckon I'm quite a nice person and pretty smart [without meaning to ...

Where can my friend and I go so we can meet 'good guys'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Where is a good place for me and my best friend to go to meet good guys? We are both in high school and don't go to crazy parties. We work together and have met a few, but they give us mixed signals, and since the job is seasonal it ends in a few...

I really like him, but I'm afraid my moodiness will scare him away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hey everyone... i think i have a really weird problem... i recently got together with this guy and i love being with him. hes everything to me and i am to him (so he says). But the thing is i get really moody sometimes with him over nothing in ...

Does the ex still have feelings for me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Recently my ex and I have been going up and down. We haven't talked or seen each other in three weeks. The last time we talked we had arranged to hang out. But he called and told me he didn't want me to like him anymore, he didn't want me to need ...

My girlfriend does not like to have her vagina touched or for me to give her oral sex. What is wrong with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend does not like to have her vagina touched or for me to give her oral sex. What is wrong with her?...

I need some help... I have just split from my fiance of 8 years.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I need some help... I have just split from my fiance of 8 years. Things got bad really quickly.. He became distant and didnt want to spend time with me as much. But what made the split final is as we both planned to start a family together next ...

He has a lot of girls who are friends, and there are plenty of girls who like him so why me? Or maybe not...I can't figure him out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - He always smiles when he's around me. He teases me a lot, but in a nice way. He comes up to me and talks to me now, which he never used to do (or at least not as often - I usually had to start the conversation). But I'm still unsure if he likes ...

Will I ever get to meet up with him or shall I just quit now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Will I ever get to meet up with him or shall I just quit now? I am in love with this guy who says he has a partner that he doesn't get on too well with but knows I am interested in him and keeps phoning me! - We have arranged to meet up as long ...

Things are great between us, then suddenly he just cuts me off. How do I deal with this ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - So i've been talking to this guy for about two months and things have been going great. we decided from the beginning that we weren't going to put titles to anything and just let whatever happens, happen. however, when we would go out, he would be ...

He really hurt me 'down there', how can I stop him from doing this again next time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I really like my new boyfriend, and hes one of the best kissers i've ever been with, but last night when we were together, he started fingering me really hard and rough. It was much too painful to be enjoyable, and today i'm bruised and swollen ...

We love each other, but I feel like the world is against us. Will he miss me and come back to me in time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - I will try to cram it all in here! so bare with me. I'm 20, gay and have had 2 serious relationships, this being my second. The first one left me pretty bruised and torn up, but I came out alive. My current (ex) B/F I have been with for 2 years...

I'm so freakin' confused right now. Is this guy for real?! I mean WOW, I don't even know what I'm asking anymore after re-reading this!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Ok where to start. I met this really great guy, and everyday I learn something new about him. I kind of had an idea in the beginning something wasn't right with him. But you know the old saying you try not to judge the book by its cover. Well he ...

I need help in working out what to do when I know these people so well, and when I'm involved.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - my two friends have started not getting along at all. one friend (lets call her A) has started going out with B's (my other friend) ex bf. B is with someone else but still winds A up by meeting with A's bf (her ex). i dont want to take sides, but ...

My boyfriend is lovely but too soft and I still think about my ex - should I marry my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my ex for 8 years. My new boyfriend of 2 years (previously divorced within a year of marraige) now fiance is a lovely caring guy. My ex the opposite bad boy kind of a guy although I heard rumours about him cheating on ...

Is there anything that might be stopping him from saying anything to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - So i really like this guy. and im pretty sure he likes me too! like ultra positive he likes me, he shows all the signs.... he gets red in front of me he shows off. he does things to try to make me notice him. i guess im just being a bitch by not noti...

Stressed about choosing the right guy without hurting the others that are interested in me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - im so stressed about boys, I have a few that i think are nice and they are intrested in me, but i need to see who i like by meeting them, and that makes me feel really bad cause il kiss them and then il have to hurt the rest i dont want to be ...

...but if I move on, I risk being alone forever, and hurting him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We were planning on getting married and having kids, etc. He is a great guy, and he loves me a lot. I love him to, but I think no more as a friend. He is just too passive. And don't say I should h...

I feel we should split up before University. Good idea???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I'm having a huge problem right now about my relationship with my bf. We were together for almost 2 years but split up for 5 monthS. We got back together about a month and a half ago and things have been ok. Hes deffinetly more loving and carring in ...

Can casual turn into an exclusive relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I've recently got together with this guy - I knew him a long time ago when I was a teenager, just as a name and a face. Got talking recently and we got on really well. Then he instigated flirting and it kinda went from there and he invited himself ...

Her parents have grounded her and taken her phone away...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - Ok so I'm sure you all have heard this story a billion times, but I never thought it would happen to me. Last night I ordered some pizza to this girl's house that I don't like as a joke, and now my girlfriend tells me her parents said she is ...

How can I find a boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Ok i am a girl and i have not had a real relationship ever. My sister try to help me find a guy but he liked her so he used me. My things is i feel like i my never find a guy because when i try it ends up blowing up in my face i cry at night now so ...

Why did he suddenly change? He seemed to be really in to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Im currently 19 and 38 weeks pregnant. Me and the babys father are not together, he doesnt want anything to do with the baby. About a month ago, me and a boy (also 19) i have known for about 3 years and met twice before started SMS texting each...

Was this an innocent flirt? Or should I follow up on it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hi About 4 months ago I ended things with a guy because he just seemed too casual, I'd see him for an evening and then I wouldn't hear anything for a week or two. I really liked him but I couldn't cope with not seing him as often as I wanted.It e...

How do I send out the right signals to members of the opposite sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I'm 23 years old and I've never been on a first date and thus no first kiss either. People have told me I'm pretty and model-like cuz I'm tall (about 5'8"ish). I try to go out and meet guys. But I've never had a guy approach me. They usually ...

Should I suggest meeting for a coffee, or continue to wait for him to initiate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I wrote a few weeks ago about a guy I had met at the end of july. We met out one night and then began dating, during this time his mum was very ill and she eventually died in september. As I didnt know him very well we muddled through this and I su...

The man I'm dating says I shouldn't be jealous because we are not committed, so should I hide how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - The man i'm dating says to me that since there isn't a commitment between us, i shouldn't be jealous. Although i try to hide this feeling, sometimes it is obvious especially when he provokes me. Should i make him to realize that i don't like some ...

I feel that now I am older, no one wants a man with no money and no looks, feel left out and it's frustrating.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - I am 43 years old male, I have been in four major relationships in my life that OCCURRED on their own and the same way they ended. I have never been able to meet the woman I want, so I have to accommodate whatever comes my way on its own. It is ...

We are having problems because she takes my appetite for sex as wanting just that but I love her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - Ok, so I had a girlfriend, the only one i have ever loved, dated for a year and a half. We broke up for about 5 months. Then she started coming back into my life when she decided to start texting me. She left me because she felt things were too ...

I'm beginning to resent him, as he doesn't see himself settling for marriage and a family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hi all, I have a concern that maybe some of you can help me with. I've been with my boyfriend for four years, but it's weird because he tells me he doesn't see himself getting married or raising a family. the problem is I do, and I had been hopi...

Do many guys lie about cumming?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2606 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I had unprotected sex about 3 days ago (Oct 21) and I start my period at the end of the month. So anyday now it should come. Anyhow, He said that he didnt come in me during sex but I am sure that he lied because he did jurk some and couldnt get up r...

I called my ex after 2 months! it went well - is he in to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Me and my ex-boyfriend has been apart for nearly 2 months and I figured since i was happy enough (meaning not as frantic or depressed as I used to) that I could break the ice and call him. So tonight I finally called him. It actually went very ...

Am I falling for my best friend ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - My best male mate and I are both twenty-one years old and have been best friends since we were two! We grew up together and share absolutely everything! I feel like he's the only person in the world I can really open up to and trust. I've seen him ...

I can't get passed his relationship with his cousin. I want to go back to my ex but I am engaged. Who do I choose ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I met this guy about 3 years ago and we dated for a long time, i found out he was cheating on me with his cousin 4 months into the relationship. I was furious and broke it off. I got back with him, but in between i met this wonderful man. Hes older ...

How important is sex in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - Opinions sought -- how important is the sexual portion of a relationship?...

He doesn't satisfy me sexually.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - I have been in a loving committed relationship with my boyfriend for over four years but the intimacy and sex has been insufficient (for me) for the past two plus years. We have talked about it a number of times but eventually after all is said and ...

Bouncing from ex to ex...who do I choose ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Okay. so I've been indecisive for the longest time over this issue and it's really starting to stress me out. I have two ex boyfriends that I really love and I just can't pick between them. Ex #1 and I were together for about 2.5 years. He's my high ...

We've only been dating for a month and now he is suddenly distant. Do I worry too much ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - he and i have only been seeing each other for a month. i feel a little silly for being so concerned by this; but i have the habit of being a worried girlfriend. apart from me trying to break this habit i would appreciate advice on if maybe my ...

How do I help someone that can really only help herself ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - ok i have a problem with a friend of mine. she is 22 and almost acts and dresses like a 13 year old girl. she has never had a relationship, but really wants one, but she can't talk to guys or even flirt. i've tried to match make her with some guys, ...