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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Help me lose the party animal in me... I want to settle down!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Hello there Im newly single women, mid thirties how would love to settle down and have children. I worry that with my clock ticking that im running out of time to have children. Im an outgoing person and love to have fun.... but sometimes I worr...

I don't know how to make him appreciate me and put more effort into our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. He is the first guy I've ever had sex with. He told me he loved me pretty soon after we started dating. And we both sort of agree on not saying it often because we want it to be special. But the ...

I am a virgin, how can I tell him I am not ready for sex, without losing him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - There's a guy at my school who I want to be my first. People have said that he only wants me b/c im a virgin that's very "blessed" in the way im shaped, front and back. I know for a fact that he doesn't act the same towards me as he did the other ...

As her fiance, am I wrong in asking her to break ties with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - My fiancee (we're getting married next spring), and I have been dating almost 3 years now. My problem is, she insists on keeping in touch with an ex-boyfriend that she dated for about 4 years. I believe that people (even married ones) can have ...

How can I spice things up in the bedroom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Hey all. Just looking for some advice. basically I need some help on spicing up my sex life! I can't believe I am asking this at 20 years old!!! We have been together 3 years, he is 30. Recently we have gone through a rocky time, I just lost someone ...

I feel slightly inexperienced compared to his ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I'm currently in a relationship with a totally awesome guy, he treats me right, spoils me, and he loves me as much as I love him... He is also a really attentive lover, but that's not the point, he's the same age as me, but I found out his ex was an ...

Am I losing my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Am I losing my mind? I'm in a long distance relationship, and recently my boyfriend and I had an "air clearing" session so to speak. He's told me how he really doesn't like it when he can't get through to my phone and it really pisses him off when...

Do I tell my boyfriend I was raped?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Do I tell my boyfriend I was raped? I have been dating a guy for 3 months now and I have not told him that I was raped 8 years ago and that is also the only time I have had sex, not sure what happened as I was unconcious most of the night so I also ...

She enjoys sex in public!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - She likes the thrill of having sex in public and won't have sex with me in the comfort of our own home I get a thrill as well but sometimes I love to be at home so we can cuddle and lay with each other after sex.... I'm not asking for too much am ...

What can I say when I meet her for the first time to give a better impression of myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - Dear all, I am going to be meeting this girl for the first time in the near future. Background: Found her a few weeks before I started university on Facebook. She was starting at the same time as me and we had some similar interests. I start...

I WANT to cheat on my girlfriend...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - We've been together for 3 years and I love her... but the love could be "stronger." I have a great emotional relationship with my girlfriend and she rocks my world when it comes to physical sex. She gives me everything I desire in bed and we love ...

Boy "A" doesn't know a thing about boy "B"... who should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I've got myself in a dilemma I never thought I'd really dump myself in, but I'm stuck and need encouraging words and advice to help me out..! I met two guys on holiday earlier this year, one I was with on holiday and got to know a bit (b...

Why am I with a man I hate?

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19 October 2008 (F) - How can I be with a man I HATE so much? I am on pills because of him, all we do is fight every day and all he does is call me names or hit me, I have been with him for 6 years and he has never talked to me about getting married or having kids. I ...

How do I explain I love his looks and personality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - hey! basically i've been going out with this guy for just over a week now and it's going really well. trouble is, his last relationship ended really badly and consquently he has some self esteem issues. he asked me the other day if i find him ...

I feel so alone

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19 October 2008 (F) - I'm feeling so alone right now. It's been several months now since I broke it off with my ex boyfriend, he was heavily into drink and drugs, emotionally abusive and once physically abusive. I stayed with him because of the good times - he could...

Feeling like the cause of her divorce is making me feel guilty

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - I'm in a situation that is tearing me apart. I've fallen in love with a friend of 5 years. During our friendship, she was there for me and helped me deal with my divorce 3 years ago. It was very traumatic. I didn't even realize how close we were ...

I ran into my old college crush and we finally exchanged contact info...will he call me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - So it started off when I used to go to college with this guy. We were in a class one semester, and I could tell that he had a MAJOR crush on me because he was always staring at me and finding the most idiotic, stupid excuses to speak to me. I could ...

I keep dreaming about him. Is it Love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - i have been having dreams about this boy for months now, i get them every night. He is always hugging me and telling me he loves me. Sometimes i wake up crying because ive realised it was just a dream. I Really dont know how i feel about this ...

I broke up with my boyfriend and the ex says he still likes me, should I give it a try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - well a in february this year i started going with this guy he was awesome but we broke up due to exams and too much happening! we didnt talk for ages an started going with another guy an he was amazing but my ex hated me not replying to him but i ...

I love my girlfriend but don't really enjoy having sex with her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - I love my girlfriend and find her very attractive, but for some reason I don't really enjoy having sex with her. I can orgasm when she gives me a handjob or oral, but I never have been able to orgasm from sex with her or any girlfriend I've ...

Is it wrong for me to want a sugar daddy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I'm 25 and not interested in men my age or a few years older- I have dated them but it's just not a turn on. I keep falling for men in their 40's. I want a sugar-daddy and I'm so attracted to divorced men with children who have a high powered job ...

Why did he break it off with me? It doesn't make sense.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I was seeing someone for 3 months, at first he was very attentive, calling texting every day/night. We worked together and he never wanted anyone to know we were seeing each other and he said he liked to keep his personal life private. He never in...

Long time for a response or just shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - Guys would you go out with a girl who called you back for a date a month after you initially asked her out? ...

Good friends or something more, I can't tell anymore?

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19 October 2008 (M) - So I work with this girl. I originally got her number to text her a bit when I was bored.So we started texting each other a bit. Then we would text all day long. Then we ended up talking every single night and became really good friends. I started...

Innocent lunch or something more. I need help to know the difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - What does it mean when a man asks a woman out for lunch instead of dinner? is this just a sign of being friendly or could it also mean romantic interest?...

Why a play instead of out to dinner? Does he not want to talk face to face?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Hi this guy im interested in didnt want to go for dinner/ lunch with me but instead invited me to a play. I find it quite strange, does he find it uncomfortable to sit and talk with me face to face? do you think he's just being polite or he likes me ...

Would you still go out with this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Hi this question is for the guys but girls you can give your input too. If you asked a girl out but she responded by saying she is busy for the next week and will call you after a week but actually only calls you after a month, what would you think ...

Why does he make up excuses for not seeing me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 weeks now. at first he was very attentive and always all over me. but about 2 weeks later he changed and hardly talked to me anymore. i recently just saw and spent time with him after not seeing him for 4 ...

Everything happens for a reason?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - Hey you guys well me writing this question is proof that i'm still here!!! LOL!!! well i know everything happens for a reason. well the day i met the str8 guy was like destiny. well a new kid just transferred to my class and he took my seat, me ...

I slept with the guy I like's roomate! How do I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - like a year ago (nov), i met B, who i worked with at a pub, i was very shy at first and i liked him, i used to hang out with him and his two roomates and party at there apartment after work, now i always had a thing for ben, but i befriended his ...

Should I move on even though I love her with all my heart?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - Well for starters i am 20 years old and I live in Minnnesota. I have seen the same girl for 2 years and 22 days alright... so I play college football but am also very musical. both singing and playing the piano, in fact thats how i met my girlfriend ...

I want to tell her that I love her but am afraid she won't say it back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for only a week but i know from all my past relationships that this one is really special and i can honestly say i love her, but i dont know if i should tell her yet. I really want to tell her that i do but im...

My friends tell me I'm a bad friend when I go out with my boyfriend instead of them...

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19 October 2008 (F) - ok so i have a new boyfriend. and it's going really good. he asks me to hang out all the time and i love it. but my friends don't. and this happens every time i get a boyfriend. they ask me to hang out but i already have plans with my bf. cuzz he ...

I need help making a good second impression!

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19 October 2008 (M) - Had a 5.5K road trip with my father to Alaska over a month ago. During a Scenic stop we got out to enjoy yet another BEAUTIFUL site in and along Alaska's Great Hiways. During one particular stop we met a woman that took some pics of us, and I re...

People tell me that I'm still single at my age because I'm too picky, should I settle for someone that I don't love with all my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Well, you can see my age range, and I still haven't fallen in love and gotten married and sometimes I feel sad, wishing I had someone to share my life with. I have my heart set on finding someone (don't know who) that I truly love, who loves me...

Do I tell him how HOT he is?

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19 October 2008 (F) - I mean he screams S E X , big time. Absolutely a hunk baby, he's really hot, everything that he has. I would like to tell him how hot I think he is. Will he think I'm a slut for saying do, I mean do you guys like girls telling that stuff to you? I...

How do I convince her parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - Heres my situation, me and my gf ahve been dating for about three months and her parents wont let her see me unless her mom goes. And her mom wont let us hang out at each others houses. Also i have family in vero beach which is about two hours aw...

In love with a girl, but she has someone. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - Over this past year, I've met the most beautiful person of my life. She's funny, smart, and just makes me get the most biggest smile on my face when I'm around her. I met her about a year ago and we've worked together ever since. I've liked many ...

Corsage or flowers? Which one is better to give to her?

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19 October 2008 (M) - Homecoming is coming up and i was wondering if i should bring a corsage or just flowers. Like i dont want to over do it. And if not what should i bring?...

I sit by as I watch her struggle with guys and it still kills me! . How do I deal with these feelings for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - ok so here's a place i can finally write without friends knowing who i am. it's been 2 years with her. well that i've been chasing her. she's my absolute best-friend and i love her with everything i've got. we had a relationship forever ago...

I am majorly confused over his committment issues! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - He and I have spent a long time together, two years this month. He decided to move out two days ago. We've stayed together longer even got a place together. Throughout our time of getting back together, he would always talk about marriage. I was so ...

We broke up, mainly because of my actions, now a mutual friend wants to be my man. I feel scared to hurt my ex but also so happy, how can I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - ok i broke up wit my "ex" cuz things were never going well i done some things wrong didnt respect our relationship *** if u know what i mean *** cuz he was never paying attention and he just wouldnt care about anything important i had to say and ...

We got close dancing but nothing happened, now my boyfriend won't speak with me. How can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - i'm currently in a two year relationship, where i've know my boyfriend for 3 years. we have had many ups and downs in our relationship for its duration, where i mostly was the one at fault. currently i celebrated a birthday and he didn't spend it ...

Tell me how I can pick up pretty women - I need advice!

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19 October 2008 (M) - How do you pick up pretty women????...

We lost out virginity to each other, I want to do it again but I'm not sure he feels the same, he's been different - what should I think?

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19 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i were officially together for 3 weeks when we had sex for the first time. i know it was too soon but we both really wanted it. we were both also virgins. after that we didnt see each other for four weeks. and we still havent had ...

How can I stop obsessing about her and maximise the chnaces of this long distance relationship working?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - Last month I spent 8 incredibly romantic, wonderful days with a young woman who lives 6,000 miles away. It will be 3 or 4 months before we can see each other again (we have talked about it). We had been penpals for 2 years before that. I really ...

I can tell her what I want to do on the phone, but when it comes to actually doing it I feel worried she won;t be satisfied, any advice?

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19 October 2008 (M) - ok...well both me and my gf r both virgins and have decided 2 have sex...the thing is that i can tell her what i want 2 do to her over the phone...but when i think about actually doing it i feel unconfident...i think that when i do those things 2 ...