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writes:well basically to start off,im 16 i may seem young to some people on here but ive had to grow up real quick, quicker than other teenagers so im really machore and i need some advice, i dont normally ask for advice myself because im the type of person who will bottle my problems up and help others instead so i dont want to bother friends with something that may seem silly to them so i thought id come here.so, im really confused, ive recently moved to a new place and i met a guy, as soon as i saw him i thought he was very attractive, and we got talking, and now we've become friends, but ive started to develop feelings for him, i think about him day and night, when i get a text i autmoatically smile, i get butterflies when i see him and i love hanging out with him, theres just one problem, a girlfriend. Ive met her and she does seem nice, but she doesnt treat him well, and he deserves better.Ive not felt this way about someone in a long time and if something happened between us id be so happy, seriously i can not even describe how it would make me feel.i just need advice on what to do, because i know he really does like his girlfriend but shes treating him like a doormat, and i dont think he can see it, and i know i could treat him so much better, and i like him that much its starting to hurt because i cant have him, ive never liked anyone with a girlfriend before so i guess i dont know how to handle the situation, any advice would be great! thanks guys xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): Hey, thanks for your advice, and I wasn't planning on stealing him or being a "boy snatcher". I'm not like that. I just needed to know how to deal with these feelings. Thanks for all your help though. I guess I'll stay away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): Hold your horses young Miss - the boy has a GIRLFRIEND.
If he wanted you, he would be with you - yet instead he wakes up every morning making a conscious decision to be with her - not you.
Boys are everywhere, go and find one that's not attached to someone else.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 January 2011):
I'm afraid no matter how much you can treat him better, he has a girlfriend and in the interests of your own reputation and self preservation, you need to respect that. You don't really know all the truth about their relationship. You only see bits and pieces.
I'm afraid you need to find a single guy. Don't try to take him, or you'll be as bad as she is.
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reader, sam44 +, writes (28 January 2011):
He likes her girlfriend so there is not much you can do. intervening will make you look like a bad person, did you ever thought of that? Being a boy snatcher! Just let them be and look for your own guy... i know how you feel but in life learn to let other things pass, as an ethical being. Its good to respect others, imagine if it was you being in that girl's shoes. just let it pass! Goodluck
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