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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I met this man over a year ago. We worked together on the same project for probably 6 months. We had quite a few conversations in which we found out we had so much in common. We continued to get to know each other and I asked him to go for a coffee one day out of the blue. We shared some pretty deep thoughts, and I believe things started to change from there. The more time we spent together, the more I notices these signs that told me he was interested; things like very long eye contact, he'd get nervous at times, when we spoke on the phone I was always the one to end the conversations. I found out through a mutual friend that he is always talking about me to his co-workers; he is teased for having a crush on me, he has admitted to having a 'special connection' with me. He has asked me out on a couple of occasions; and so have I. The thing is, we've never gone out. We clarified that we wanted to be friends. Since then, we spend alot of time emailing each other. It's almost a daily thing. We share alot; and have gotten pretty close. He's very sensitive and is a classic 'cancer man' with all the traits. I was recently told that he's gay. I'm not sure what to think. Part of me thinks, people think he is gay because of his somewhat feminine qualities. I'd appreciate any thoughts or insight anyone could share with me about my situation.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (28 January 2011):
 From your post, it's not to enough to point to homosexuality.
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