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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my guy have been together for a year and a half now, and going strong. He is truly my best friend, my soul mate and we get along great!As time has passed though, I have seen a lot of the relationships that were going on around us (friends...etc.) fall apart. Our relationship is different from theirs, we don't really need to try hard to make things work...they kinda just work for us.But I can't help but feel paranoid that something like that might happen to us.I know it sounds a bit ridiculous, and I do realize that believe me..We don't fight like the rest of them did.. they raise their voices and say hurtful things and that is something we don't do.It kind of odd to look around at our friends and notice that all those relationships just simply fell apart, and ours is completely fine.I do think it's something we should be grateful for, and I do realize we're lucky.Have any of you gone through this too? I just don't want to be the only crazy one that notices these things.. haha
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): Dear, don't compare urself with others. if a car does accident, that doesnt mean u think same and say that yes i will also do accident.....u have found a good match and keep it up.bear in mind some advices of mine.1. never do such things which u feel he may mind.2. never break his trust. i think the main reason u too don't fight is ur trust on eachother.3. if u mind his actions which hurts u, or u don't like, just tell her politely and say that u don't like such thing. communication plays important role.4. Be right in ur conscience, never do wrong to him. if he does anything wrong to u, he will be sorry for not u, coz u will not be reproachful to ur internal judge which is ur own conscience.Enjoy ur relationship, never compare urself with others. God has really endowed u with a great gift of life. Be happy always.
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reader, JaZminny +, writes (28 January 2011):
 Don't compare your relationship with anyones Elses if theirS didn't work don't think that yours won't either just keep doing whAt ur doing AnD Don't torture yourself with these thoughts don't get worried for no reason just focus on what really matters not on your fears let it go if everything iS fine
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