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Should I enough them to break up by telling him about his Gf's cheating?

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Question - (28 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *pr13 writes:

This guy started talking to me back in march of '10.

I never gave him the time of day, but gradually he started to like me. I only saw him as a friend. Then I started to realize how cool a person he is and how he's been trying to get with me for about 6 months.

I slowly started to like him back in November but by then he had already been in this relationship with another girl since June, (but they are off and on a lot).

And so the last time I thought they broke up I told him how I felt, and he said "as soon as something happen between them that I'll be the first to know".

Now it's been 3 weeks since he told me that and his current girlfriend has a history of cheating.

Now I think she is cheating on him now but I'm unsure how I should tell him.

Or if I should even tell him because he might think im trying to mess up their relationship. Or should i just keep my mouth closed?

I mean I do want to break them up, but I don't know how. HELP

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A female reader, dpr13 United States +, writes (29 January 2011):

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Thanks you guys...And @SEANNOLAN5....I didn't think of him as a boyfriend back then, and now I do.

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A male reader, Capri2 Argentina +, writes (28 January 2011):

Unless you have proof of the cheating I would recommend you don't tell him about that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011):

don't tell him that you think she's cheating, tell him to be careful. he won't think youre trying to ruin their relationship then ;]

also, so he liked you... and you started to like him, and he got another gf? how come?

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