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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i have been together over a year now, everythings been great, but just recently he's been texting other girls.. he tells me who they are and that they're just friends, but he never spoke to them at the begining of the relationship, so why start now?! Weve had endless arguments about it and he seems to think as long as its me he gets into bed next to and wakes up to it doesnt matter.. he doesnt meet them, (not that i know of anyway).I dont know if im being paranoid from a previous relationship.. or if its something i should be paranoid about?
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reader, SugarBear  +, writes (30 October 2009):
 Just discuss it with him more intently if you can and tell him how you feel about it. He should not hide his phone from you or any info..Like I mentioned in another post. You dont want to spend your life, looking at his e-mails looking at his texts, checking his caller id etc.but you do need to be aware of what he is doing. You dont want to go around everyday not trusting him and wondering what hes doing. Ask him if he wants to date other people? Try again to have a serious talk about who these people are and what they mean to him. Then decide if you can live with this. You can also try doing the same thing to him and see how he reacts. If he knows this hurts you as your boyfrined he should try to not hurt you if hes a good man...
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