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26-29,
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writes:Okay so here's the deal, there's this girl in my class who pretty much hates me and likes my bf. So for revenge she decided to take advantage of my shyness and start hitting on my bf! She keeps clinging on to him and hugging him and all that and it gets to me..*twitchy eye* jk My bf doesn't like her either and finds her annoying, but I'm also trying to get closer to him and she's ALWAYS there when wer're in a more or less private place where there's not a million people that can watch us. I never even hugged him and I want to ( he does too, I overheard him once) We're not officialy bf and gf but everyone knows that we like each other and we're getting pretty close. Whenever he starts talking to me, she comes and just distracts him from me or starts talking to him or hugging him like I'm not even there! As much as I try to hide it, it bothers me so much! And if he tells her to stop or tells her to go away she get's mad at him and goes really really mean to him for the rest of the day! I hate it and I want to stop it. Can anybody tell me how and if you have ideas how to get close to him please add those too they're greatly appreciated. thanks!
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reader, Weyland-Yutani  +, writes (24 October 2009):
 I agree with the other guys, he does have a responsibility to stop it if he doesn't like it. Another thing, if he doesn't like it, why does he care if she goes all mean and sulky for the rest of the day?
One thing I would suggest, is if you really like him, tell him and hug him first (preferably while she's there XP)
Hope this helped, good luck :)
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reader, sanrio.kawaii +, writes (23 October 2009):
Hes not your bf. So stop calling him your bf.If hes only a guy you like and arent even going out with theres no reason for everyone else to keep their hands off.I can understand your annoyed but you dont have the right to tell everyone to stay away from him if hes not even yours. If it bothers you that much tell her stop. If you cant tell her stop you obviously dont want her to stop that badly.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 October 2009):
She won't stop because she knows this is getting to you. However, your boyfriend can stop it by talking to her and telling her to stop it. So it's time your boyfriend proved himself.
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