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I need to understand what this guy is thinking...

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Question - (30 January 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Canada age 36-40, *ellogsgirl writes:

Hi,

I need to know what this guy is thinking:

We met at work, and I noticed a sort of connection. I decided to do a bold move and invite him for drinks. He joined, but had to leave early that day. We started chatting on msn and he asked me to tell him next time i go out, he'd like to come (for sure he was interested).

We went out dancing and the connection was really good, i went home with him and we had the most amazing night (yes). He was really sweet, went out of his way to make me comfortable, safe and feel really special (not just a booty call) - he shared some bits of his life story, etc.

Monday at work he told me he had a great time. on tuesday, he told me he wanted to make me dinner that night - i was on top of the world. we had so much fun and again an amazing night, there were connections in more ways that one.

He was even talking about "the next time" so i figured this was going somewhere. The thing is, I know it is...but I'm wondering why it's taking so long. He wants to make me dinner again in 8 days.....he has plans all weekend (seeing new friend's house on friday). I understand we don't have to see each other each single day....btu does anybody find it weird i have to wait 8 days??? we are so amazing together and i feel like i can't wait that long, but why can he?

is he trying to be distant (like wants to keep this a once a week thing) or is this normal for the beginning of something??

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