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writes:Hello, I'm currently in a relationship but it seems like every time he wants to be free he tells me "I'm not messing with you any more" but then when he wants to come home it's "oh baby I love you". 9 out of 10 I'm pregnant but I don't think I can handle another child because I already have children to take care of. What should I do? Should I give this man up or continue to be a goofy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): You know already what you need to do! This situation is making you unhappy and he has it easy cause he can walk in and out at his leasure. Tell him what you want but if you don't think he can stick with you and the kids, being on your own for a while is better than being meesed about constantly. It may take a while, but you will meet somebody who makes you happy and you know you deserve it. Good luck
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reader, carriebaby  +, writes (30 January 2009):
 Give up.. he is a useless excuse for a man... If you are pregnant and he still hasn't wisened up then he is not worth it. I know it's not nice to admit but I think you should move on and put yourself and your children first. Especially as you have one on the way!!Good luck
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (30 January 2009):
This guy is messing you about and using you and you know it.
Why would you stand for that when you have kids to care for?
Kick him out and don't take his calls. Don't be available for him to call you up and tell you "I made a mistake, and I love you and I'll change and pleeeeeeeeeeaase let me come home for free food and easy sex?"
You know it's all crap so why let him shower you with it?
Be your own woman, not his doormat.
Good Luck!! xx
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