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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a major problem.I have a boyfriend and i love him despite the major flaws he has that i can't seem to solve the few issues we have between us. but just lately i've been feeling extra close to my best friend and sometimes he makes me feel happier then my boyfriend does and thats not right is it?The problem is i think i should keep some distance between me and my friend and then im asking him if i can go over to his house at the weekend, but its like i cant stop myelf being around him, and i sometimes feel like he feels the same way back by some of the things he does or says.i dont want to hurt my boyfriend, but i know if my friend finds anyone i wont be able to be happy for him because ill be to full of jealousy, im in love with two people and i dont no what to do.suggestions please?? thank you xx
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reader, ecstasy  +, writes (12 January 2009):
 Friendship often ends in love but love in friendship..... never.... you need to reason these feelings you have both for your BF and friend..... maybe this issue with your BF has made you see your friend in a new light.... see who you like speding your time with... most imp see who loves you..... it should be mutual... do you think your friend also has started loving you? start observing... if not work on your current relationship.... trust me you do not want the hassle of loving two people ... its brings only hurt and disappointment!!! one thing at a time!
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