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writes:ok, so my boyfriend's sister keeps texting him things like "I wanna be your official girl" and stuff like that, and I told him I thought it was inappropriate, and that I'd appreciate her not texting those things to him. He doesn't agree with me about it, and was getting mad at me because I was mad. What are your opinions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): You don't really think she is a threat, do you???? I would just laugh it off! If you get on the bad side of the sister, your boyfriend may take her side.
Why does it bother you so much? What are you thinking? My ex's brother used to do that. He would pretend he was gay and send sexual msgs to my husband...it was all in fun.
And family being family!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): I don't see what the problem is. Most likely they are just joking around with each other. You can tell him that it's bugging you but I doubt you'll be able to break up the bond between siblings. If you keep this up he'll just think of you in a more negative way.
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (11 January 2009):
 I think if it's his sister, then they are just being sibilings, I know whenever I have a boyfriend, my brother will text me stuff like that because he thinks it's funny when whoever my bf is with will look through my fone, (well used to) if they are sibilings, I doubt there is any meaning. Although, if it is REALLY bugging you that much, and he won't do anything about it, go talk to her. Just be like, hey, I am dating your brother and it's really annoying that you keep texting him saying "I wanna be your official girl." Just talk to her straight up, be like I don't mind you texting him, but please make it more appropriate, or something.
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