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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been in this amazing relationship with this guy for 2 and a half years. The first year we had a long distance relationship but it worked out and the second year he moved closer same highs chool and all it was great but then at the start of our junior year he had to move again. I love him to death. We were engaged, he got me pregnant but we lost it. We had our whole life planned out but when he moved I met this other guy and I feel like I love him more than my bf. so I broke up with him to clear my mind. On new years eve I had my ex over and cooked for his birthday and things got intense. My feelings for him rushed back to me and we had sex making him late getting home. On his way home he flipped his suv 7 times. He's alive thank god. but it felt like reality punching me in the face. I realized all I wanted was him but now I'm talking to the other guy again and I have that feeling again. I broke up with my bf again and went on a date with the other guy. We ended up making out a lot. What should I do about my feelings?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): hi
you need to ask yourself who you love more. Can you picture yourself with this person in the next 3yrs/5yrs/7yrs. which person really makes you laugh and smile. Then you need to make your desision, its not going to be easy but you'll find it. And remember that if you want an honest relationship then tell that person about the other guy and tell him it was him you chose and you really love him. If he is really the one then he'll forgive you. good luck.
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