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writes:Ok so my gf and I are really scared. A few days ago I rubbed my penis against her vagina. I am 99% sure there wasn't any pre cum on my penis because there has never been before. She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant like feeling sick although that was only one day, breast tenderness, tiredness and urinating more often. Please can anyone tell us if there is a chance she could be pregnant. No one start telling us we shouldnt be doing that, we are just scared and need some advice.
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reader, im_a_dummy  +, writes (12 January 2009):
 of what you described, she could be starting her period, or she could just be how my sister was, and so stressed out that its all in her head. her peeing more often could be her drinking a lot more, or it could be her nervous, when im nervious i usually have to pee, also it could be a bladder infection. a UTI could be a possiblity but you would be able to tell because it would burn when she peed. i highly doubt she is pregnant unless you had unprotected sex in the recent past.
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reader, MommyOfOne +, writes (11 January 2009):
 She wouldn't be having pregnancy symptoms a couple days after the act was done. Now, if you two have had unprotected sex before, then it could be possible.
Sounds to me she is about to start her period and is experiencing PMS.
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (11 January 2009):
I think she is scared and is giving herself those things. For one you cant know if you are pregnant in a few days because the egg is still making its way from the tube to the uterus for attachment if it is fertalized. She also wouldn't have pregnancy hormones yet and there for couldn't have breast tenderness. Also going pee a lot happens in the late stages of pregnancy when the baby is pushing on the bladder.
I think that your girlfriend is over reacting.
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (11 January 2009):
 You can't tell anything at all in a few days. If you were sexually active before then it's possible. If she has missed her monthly cycle she needs to be checked immediately! If not then it probably means that she is about to have her monthly cycle. The symptoms you explained can come with what is called PMS...Premenstrual Syndrome This symptom start days before the cycle starts. It's possible for the female too also have tenderness in the lower abdomen, cramping and naseau along with spotting. The symptoms can also include emotional problems such as irritability,anger outburst, mood swings, fatigue confustion and social withdrawal. Headaches can accompany this condition also as well as depression. Frequent urination could be a sign of a Urinary TRACT INFECTION.
Have her check her last onset of cycle. Make sure that she notes whether she is late or not. NEVER HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX! CONSIDER SAFTY against disease or pregnancy. I urge you to STOP HAVE SEX because you are both too young and inexperienced to deal with all of the emotional stress of having a sexual relationship. When you are older you will understand. Right now if you have had unprotected sex in the past before the time in question, it's really possible for her to be pregnant. You must consider the fact that at your young age you won't be able to take care of a child properly. Think about your actions and how it will affect the rest of your life and your girlfriend's.
PRAY ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND ASK GOD TO HELP YOU FIND BETTER WAYS TO SPEND TIME WITH SOMEONE THAT YOU CARE ABOUT. SEX ISN'T EVERYTHING. ALTHOUGH YOU MAY FEEL IT'S GRATIFYING NOW, ONE DAY YOU ARE GOING TO REALIZE HOW MUCH OF YOUR LIFE WAS AFFECTED BY WHAT YOU DO NOW.
My best to you to LIVE your life differently hon because you will have LESS regrets and hard emotions to deal with. Grow up slowly and enjoy your youth, it only comes ONCE and when it's gone, IT'S GONE!
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): You only urinate more often in the later times of pregnancy, there is no way she could tell anything like that at that stage.If anything its her period starting.I suggest if she doesn't have a period then you get a pregnancy test. If your really worried, wait a week and then get a pregnancy test. It has to be a week coz sperm can last that long, and if you do it beforehand there is a chance she still might get pregnant.
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