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Dating: Help and advice

I barely know him but I told him I loved him...

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7 April 2009 (F) - ok I like this boy named Bryan I barly met him and I barly know him yet, I find myself telling him I love him. He told me that he really likes me to so I asked him out. He said NO. So we went on being franns and now he wants to get closer but he ...

He said I am annoying when I 'mother' him!

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7 April 2009 (F) - hi. so i have this really big problem. well not really big. but i really like this guy and i cant tell if he likes me. he makes it so confusing. like everytime we talk hes mean to me. but hes nice to everybody else. and i've talked to my friends ...

She's not there for me...emotionally...

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7 April 2009 (M) - Well... I have been dating a girl for nearly a year. We got together while she was on summer break from college. I tried every way to do the right thing with this girl because i fell for her very soon. We are both going to school. She is at a ...

My boyfriend never calls or talks to me in class!

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7 April 2009 (F) - well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 days and he never calls me! unless i tell him to since we started going out he only called twice and thats because i told him to. and at school we barely ever talk or see eachother because were in ...

I've dramatically changed my appearance. Will this help me get more girls, or will I have to change more than just my looks?

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7 April 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, As you may have noticed from my avatar, I've cut my hair! It's a dramatic change (I used to have an Afro, in case you didn't know) and I'm hoping it brings me good things in the future. I'm off of uni for the next couple of weeks,...

Help! I'm dating a Baby-Daddy!

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7 April 2009 (F) - I recently started dating a wonderful man, he's everything I could have ever hoped for. And here's the kicker he seems crazy about me too! Last week however we ran into his ex whose "very" pregnant but unsure of who the father is. And yes my man ...

Is he trying to make me feel guilty for not having sex with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for over a month. Im 19 and he is 23 and we were friends for about 2 months before we got together. We havent done anything sexual yet but he always wants to and says that he cant help it because Im so sexy. Last nigh...

My daughter is dating a man 25 years older, and I am concerned about it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - My daughter is 20 years old and is away in college. While there, she supposedly accidently bumped into her former best friend's father, who now lives in that town. She told me about it but at first I didn't think too much of it. Eventually she ...

Should I tell my b/f that his cousin keeps sending me text messages?

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7 April 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend we have known each other for about a year and half and we have been dating for ten months and everything is great with him i love been with him and everything. the problem is a cousin he has he knew that his cousin use to have...

My boyfriend is hurting my self esteem

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7 April 2009 (F) - Is it normal that my boyfriend, who is 57(I am 50)takes pictures of other women's cleavage, their butts and them in short shorts, or in a short skirt, but will not allow me to wear a low cut shirt to show off my cleavage? He tells me all the time...

Should I give this wonderful guy a chance? I still can't get over my cheating ex b/f!

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7 April 2009 (F) - I have a problem i just broke up with my boyfriend a month ago because he was cheating one me,,,,, Now i trying to move on but i found out one of my guy friends is in love with me he even proposed i'm just 16 so idk what to tell him because i'm so h...

Am I right to want to break up with him?

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7 April 2009 (F) - Check out my other posts on my huge fight with my boyfriend this weekend. But I have another huge problem. My boyfriend lied to me last night. He told me he was going out for coffee with his guy friend, and I talked to that guy friend toda...

Harassed by other men but boyfriend wont help me

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7 April 2009 (F) - Ok basically. I get harassed by other men when i go to the clubs and my boyfriend doesn't do anything to help me because he believes I should get rid of them myself. I understand its my responsibility to get rid of them, but he just watches ...

Sleep without the sex? What is happening here?

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7 April 2009 (F) - Sleep without the sex? - Can someone explain to me why me and my boyfriend (both in our 30s - who have just started to spend the nights together)cannot innitiate sex? I do feel the relationship is a little one sided as I am madly in love with him...

Honeymoon period over but how do I get over it?

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7 April 2009 (M) - So here's the thing. I've been with my beautiful girlfriend for 18 months now. For the first 10 months everything was fine, great in fact. We fell deeply in love. She worshipped the ground I walked on. When we weren't together, she'd ring and...

The engagement, the abuse and the good times... how do I get over him?

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7 April 2009 (F) - Let's just say I met this guy when I was 16 (I am almost 19 now) and he was 18 (now he is 21), we had a really great relationship he was my first serious boyfriend and I lost my virginity to him. After a year he started lying to me and cheating on ...

Should I tell him that what he said upset me or should I just carry on like normal?

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7 April 2009 (F) - Earlier on today me and my boyfriend were speaking on msn when I went to get dinner and he usually puts "I love you, so, so much :D xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx" but instead he just put "kk, talk ltr xxxx" - I know I might be overreacting but I was ...

Follow up: 16 year old male dating a 20 year old female (with a baby boy)...

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7 April 2009 (M) - Mod note: This is a follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-16-dating-a-20-year-old-with.html Hi, I previously wrote about me dating a 20 year old with a baby boy but I forgot one very important detail - she's married and he knows but he d...

How can I get my girlfriend back? What is the best thing to do from here on?

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7 April 2009 (M) - i have been dating a girl for 8 months when last night she told me she wanted to break up. The reason she gave was that she had a lot of things going on in her head and she couldn't sort everything out whilst being in a relationship. she said it w...

Why yes one minute and no the next?

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7 April 2009 (F) - ok so basically i no this guy hes rlly sweet 2 me he has told me he luvs me and that im gorgeous and sexy. i luv this guy 2 bits but wen i ask him if he would like 2 go out 1 minute he wil say yea i would love to date a girl like you and the next ...

Hurt and confused

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7 April 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, thanks for taking the time to read! I've been friends with this girl for about a year and lately I've been wanting to get into a proper relationship with her, and thinking maybe she wanted it too. We've been seeing a lot of each othe...

Advice needed: Guys what would your reaction be and just what am I supposed to do?

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7 April 2009 (F) - something happened 3 weeks ago that i still need to like figure out , me and my boyfriend went over to a friend's house while his parents were away , there was the 3 of us and the friend's gf , anyways we got drunk and were having fun , he was show...

As Meatloaf said "It just won't quit"

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7 April 2009 (M) - After a long split with my girlfriend of two years, she started seeing someone else and I found out. Since that time I tried to be as normal as possible, saying to myself I'm better than this. Since the split there have been many hot and cold time...

In love and scared to death...

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7 April 2009 (F) - I'm totally in love with this guy at work. He is 34 and I am 42. This doesn't seem to bother him....he started flirting with me in a very gentle shy way...calling for no reason....wished me a Happy St. Pat's day (I'm Irish and he's Latino) ---showi...

Follow up: How do I get over my bf (who made me feel like crap)

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7 April 2009 (F) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-bf-is-making-me-feel-like-crap.html Thank you, all, for the responses. I have just been so confused because as one of you mentioned - yes, he does flatter me a LOT. But when it comes to the actual act of se...

She left me for someone else

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7 April 2009 (?) - Hi so here is the situation: Me and my girlfriend were together for about a year but before we were good friends for about 5 years. It was highly passionate, and everything seemed perfect. We were both dutch, devout Christians, both had loving ...

Is meeting b/f's relatives a good sign?

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7 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone so recently my boyfriend came back from school and we spent a lot of time together. On Sunday it was our last day together before he had to go back to school he invited me to go to the city with him and meet his relatives. We've ...

My boyfriend wants to keep our relationship a secret whereas I want to tell the world!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is 17 and i am 15 he said for me not to tell anyone about us going out because he thinks people will call him a perv for going out with me. i'v talked to him about it but he just doesn't want anyone to know and keeps changing his story ...

Have I missed my chance?

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7 April 2009 (F) - Well i'm 13 and over msn i have a best friend who has just currently turned 17, ive met him a few times and goes to my school. we were really close, and he liked me and i liked him but i didn't realize that he liked me so i didnt say anything. we...

Does this mean he is really in to me in a big way?

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7 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. Just really wanting some second opinions. I've been wit a new guy now for a few weeks and everything is going good, really good in fact, but this last week he's been acting differently. Good differently, and I just wanted to say some ...

I am just being cautious

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7 April 2009 (F) - I just ended a relationship 2 months ago of a man whom I truly loved but who was not honest about who he was - in fact he was all likes. It was truly devastating to me. Since then I have met someone else (actually I went to school with 10 year...

I can't stop thinking about either of these men

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7 April 2009 (F) - i don't know what to do, sorry if i ramble a bit i think all this detail is important i am single and have really only had two significant boyfriends and i can't seem to move on and be happy. i met Boyfriend 1 in 1995 and went out with him for abo...

We lived together for 1 year and now I'm moving back home and I don't want to lose him.

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7 April 2009 (F) - This is so typical, so why am i so scared. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 1 year and 8 months. he is 23, and i am 20. we are in love and care about each other so much. when we first met i lived at home with my parents and ...

His hand curled into a fist..is this a sign that he may be abusive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has been pretty good overall I guess. He asked me to be his gf on the second date, but I waited until 2 mos later to say yes.Before I said yes he would alway ask if I was talking to other dudes and he checked my phone once. But now h...

It's Painful During Sex..Why? Please Help!

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7 April 2009 (F) - Im in a relationship with a 50 year old man. I am 22. My Parents do not approve of the relationship, but his family are lovely towards me. We have been together for 5 years now and lived together for 3 years. The first year we lived together we were...

My b/f keeps lying to me!

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7 April 2009 (F) - im so confused, me and my bf have been together 9months, through out our relationship iv caught him out many times lying, he lied about his job, he didn't tell me he had a daughter until after we slept together (he nos that i wud have never got invo...

Tests showed positive, but I do not feel pregnant!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Yesterday i took two pregnancy test's and they both came out positive. I haven't come on my period since the middle to the end off February. I have poly cystic ovaries but for the last few months i have been coming on roughly at the same time an...

How do I make her mine and win her heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - hi!! I need help on a difficult situation i find myself in once again. It all started when a female friend of mine hooked me up with her best friend. I was instantly attracted to her the very moment i was introduced to her, she was atracted to me t...

Can I ever have a real relationship without sex? How?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Am in my twenties and i ve never had a fulfilled relationship because i decided to wait till marriage b4 havin sex.the last guy was really my first love and made me feel cherished and wanted but i found out recently he was pretending,hoping that i ...

He says one thing one day, something totally different the next! CONFUSED!

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7 April 2009 (F) - I am 22 and I've been hanging out with a 34 year-old guy recently. He is nice to me, always talks to me online, and we hang out a couple times every week.(I posted a similar question yesterday but this one is different) He tried to kiss me last wee...

We were drunk, skinny dipping and my lady grabbed my friend's package!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - Hey, Ive been seeing my girl for about 1 year and a bit and generally things are sweet and our relationship is mostly healthy on all levels. A small issue for me is her flirting when we go out drinking. Typically it doesnt bother me as im quite ...

Should I confront him or just leave it and hope it all works out?

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7 April 2009 (F) - ive been going out with my bf for about 7 months now and i thought things were going really well. Ive met his family, hes met mine and we all get on really well etc. The only thing is we haven't had sex yet. we tried once but i was nervous as it w...

My partner is tight with his money, even for our own daughter! Help!

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7 April 2009 (F) - hi. me and my partner are living apart we have a daughter he has always been tight with his money. we split up for a while because he was controlling and seems to have very little interest in our daughter he will spend time with her but it usually ...

Why does he do these things to me?

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7 April 2009 (F) - ok, i have been together with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, and i am only 18 we have a WONDERFUL relationship for the most part, when we're together were so happy and are inseparable, until he's with his friends. ill call him and he'll be e...

How do I set up another date with a girl I barely know?

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7 April 2009 (M) - First, let me explain the situation. A little over a month ago I was introduced to a girl by a friend of mine at a monthly street festival. 4 of us spent the evening together and had an overall great time. As the night progressed this girl beca...

What is OK after 9 dates?

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7 April 2009 (F) - its ok to let a guy grab my boobs, after 9 dates? i dont want him to think im a slut...

Just curious about pet names :-)

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7 April 2009 (F) - This isn't serious. Its a serious question but like, not something I'm worried about. Just something I'm curious about. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. We got together the same day we met and since day one, he calls me ...

I hate cheaters! But OMG, I could be one of them! What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I have always despised cheaters, I never could really understand how a person could stay in a relationship yet be with another. And then, I found myself in a situation where I could see myself cheating. I am not in an official relationship with...

I am attracted to my b/f's stepdad. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - hi i need some advice. I'm a young girl and currently in a relationship with a boy my age and have been with him for 10 months. I really like him but recently I've been starting to get on really well with his step dad who is much older than me but ...

How do I deal wit his careless & selfish actions?

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7 April 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for 7yrs off and on, I've been thru hell and hot water with him. He has just recently found out that he has a baby by a 3 month fling!!! I love this man with all my heart. I'm Extremely hurt by his careless and self...

What should I do? I like my [married] boss

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7 April 2009 (M) - i like my boss a lot and i think she likes me. i have a fear that if i make a pass at her, i may have been wrong that she likes me and from then on my days here are numbered. she is married though but i know for a fact that they hate each other and ...

13 yo and in love with my chat friend in the US - and he is 7 years older!

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7 April 2009 (F) - ok so basically i go in2 a chat room but simply to talk to my cousin who lives in US. i have recently met a guy in there with is 7yrs older than me. he is sweet and caring and i feel like i can talk 2 him bout everything. i have fallen in love with ...

LDR advice needed!!!

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7 April 2009 (M) - This is a two part question. I've been seeing a guy who lives two hours away. We've exchanged great conversation, text messages, and emails during the time I'm not there visiting. It wasn't until this week I noticed him leaving out "sweetie" and ...

Men and Mood Swings

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7 April 2009 (F) - I live with my boyfriend and boy does he have bad mood swings. He's always snapping and the relationship has to follow his flow. If he wants to be alone, then ill have to go sit in the bedroom so he can have the living room to himself. And he wont...

Are we headed downhill to destruction?

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7 April 2009 (F) - I live with my boyfriend and we both have each others passwords for everything including Faceook and email. We both look through each others phones too. I looked through his face book inbox and i found that there was innocent messages like, "Hi swee...

Selfish one night stand. Could I get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Ok the other night I decided to go to out with my sister and ended up finding a cute guy.So anyways took him back home was drunk and horny and slept with him using no protection and I am not on any type of bc,I told him that. He never came in me a...

My b/f loves tap dancing, and I love a Man's man. What do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating my boyfriend for four years. We are both in our early thirties and hope to have a long future together. My problem is this, though I love my boyfriend very much, I am having issues with his masculinity. I am very att...

What should I do? I realized my fling is my true love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5493 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been with this guy for about 1.5 year, and I thought he was my soulmate, everything I ever wanted. Then, 5 months ago I got very close with one of my male friends.. and with time we even had a thing going on (me and my boyfr...

I don't think he wants me to meet his family

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7 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating my guy for about a year and we have had are ups and downs, but now it seems that he want's to keep info. from me. He is going home for christmas this year and he already asked for the time off now that's fine but the thing th...

She goes with guys for attention...

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7 April 2009 (M) - Hey all i'm wondering what i should do...i'm in love with this girl...but she went with another guy and did some sex related stuff. I can't stop thinking about her, not sure if its anger, heart break or something else. I've tried talking to her ...

Am I going crazy or is he giving me mixed signals?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Okay so when i went home for spring break I was introduced to this cute guy that I really like. I asked him out later that week and we have been going on dates every weekend I come home. I realise we have just started dating and I shouldn't be ...

Are there really guys that like petite girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - I've been wondering this for the longest time - are there really guys that like petite girls??? I'm Asian (maybe that has something to do with it?), 5'3, and barely 90 pounds. I've had boyfriends (so I guess people must find something attractive) ...

Is she sincere or just clearing her conscience?

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7 April 2009 (M) - Hey Guys, I met up with my ex after a painful break-up (on both sides). She cheated on me whilst overseas, and left me for that person. Anyway we had a nice night together catching up and sharing a laugh. At the end of the night she though she s...