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Archived questions from: 11 April, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend seems to have trouble with his writing, should I broach the subject with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I have noticed that my 35 year old boyfriend writes very slowly using an awful lot of concentration. He only writes in capital letters and I haven't seen him use joined up writing. He doesn't get letters the wrong way around so I don't think it is ...

Could I be pregnant if he came in my anus (due to condom splitting)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend wanted to try new things so I agreed because I felt I trusted him. He wanted to try anal sex so I let him try it telling him to use a condom. The problem is the condom split and "came" up there. I'm a we...

What kind of signs does a guy give out to a girl to show he's interested in her?

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11 April 2009 (F) - How does a guy show a girl he's interested? I mean like signs.. eye contact, smiling. ect. ...

How do I focus more attention on her without being too obvious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - I'm having a bit of difficulty. It's a really silly issue really, but I'd appreciate some advice from someone more experienced in relationships. Basically, I'm interested in this girl in my class who's several years younger than me. The problem ...

How to get her feet up again? I am at lost here.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - I have known her for more than a year. Three or four months ago she broke off with her bf and she felt very sad. Now she looks like back to normal self but she seemed change in her behaviour. Nowadays she often looks for new guys to go out and meet...

How do I know he fancies me? Help! Before I make a complete fool of myself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - i v met this guy but at the moment were just friends, he lives in Ireland and me in the u.k . he came over to with a football a few months ago and we met o a night out had a laugh together etc. anyway he emailed to say he was trying to get last...

I still love him but what do I do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Just over 3 years ago i found out i was pregnant. I assumed the father was the guy i was sleeping with and not my husband. I left my husband to be with my new man. In this time i suffered with depression and was seeing a counsellor, i ended up...

My long distance boyfriend... or this new guy? Should I get intimate with the new guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I have been in along distance relationship for 2 years but since this year started we have been fighting a lot. January this year I met a man we have been chatting. My problem is my boyfriend has changed, he's so distant he barely texts me. He call...

I am always worried about people commenting on my weight. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - My ex-family in law used to publicly mock me about my bodyweight (that I am too thin, anorexic, look terrible etc etc) and it used to really upset me - in fact it was relentless. Fact is I have been 5'6 and 8 stone 10 for as long as I can remember - ...

How do I change to be the girl that he wants to be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - My bf and I recently broke up. Well we broke up yesterday. He said it was because my parents refused to let me go away with him and his family for the weekend. But I know that that was not the only reason. We had a lot of problems. In the beginnin...

Soo many questions. I just want to be happy again. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hello, My name is "LS", and I have a couple of questions that I'd like you all to shed some light on. So here is the background story. In 2007 I met this really wonderful person in London and we really hit it off and dated for 4 months. Then...

Help! I am so lost with this one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hi i was with my ex for years and we just recently split. i think it was mostly my fault because i changed after i was raped by a man i used to work with. my ex didn't know about the attack and i didn't tell him till after we split up but i wont...

Do you think he wants her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - ive been with this guy for 9 months and i love him so much his everything to me..but every time i try to let go i cant... he has messed up several times and i have forgived him he was going out with me and another girl at the same time and i caught...

Are we allowed to go out seeing as I'm only 13?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - Am 13 and I want to date a 15 year old girl named Sarah, are we allowed to go out? I know she loves me and she knows I love her. Please help me? Are we allowed to go out???...

Is this a break? Or his way of saying goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I just recently broke up... or took a break... or something in between? We were together for 2 years. well recently things had become really bad with fighting and crap so we decided to like not talk for a week to sorta clear our ...

I'm torn between them both and don't know who to choose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - Help again please! I have said before I turned 16 two weeks ago and I lost my gf to another lad and I was crushed. I think I rebounded onto a mate of hers and one1 week down the line I am with her friend, it was ok at first but like I said before, ...

Move on or get back together? How long can I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 11 months broke up with me. She said she didn't love me any more, didn't want to be in a relationship and lost that "spark." This was 3 weeks ago and at first I was fine with it but then reality really hit me hard. What hurt the ...

My Egyptain guy - should I visit him again?

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11 April 2009 (F) - I recently went on holiday and met a bloke 14 years younger than myself. We did sleep together (safe sex of course) and since returning home he has continued to text me. I miss him terribly and he is always on my mind. I was even thinking of goin...

I need backbone not jelly!

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11 April 2009 (F) - My bf keeps hinting that he wants to sleep over with me. We have not had sex for nearly a year. I am not happy with him as our relationship is not moving on. I have three kids. His is the youngests. He has been a fairly good dad to them all but ...

To call/write or not to call/write

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hello, I feel to old to be asking a question like this, but here goes... On Wednesday evening I was at an exhibition opening in my home city (in Italy), I have recently broken up with my boyfriend and this particular evening I was finally feeling ...

Why would he need time and why does he ignore me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - hiya i met this guy through facebook and we just started off as friends known each other for nearly 2 months. but its been hectic 2 months we tried going out twice and ended up breaking up one reason because my ex 2nd reason because it all got too ...

How to make him realise what hes lost if he likes me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - there's this guy I've known for about 4 months, we've been cinema, he came to my party and we kissed and cuddled for ages, and we've bumped into each other at the bus stop sometimes but hardly ever. We get on so well, but all we ever do is speak on...

Was he thinking of me when he made the move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 12 months. He had already applied for an Australian visa when I met him or so I thought - but actually made the final part of his application during our relationship without telling me. Now his vis appr...

I need some help with my strange love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy who i really like but i don't know what to do we don't spend much time together and he don't always text back we have been together for about 3 weeks and i have only seen him face to face 2 times for about 2 hours each time ...

How can I find out if my gf masturbates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - Ok. I am 14 and I masturbate usually once a day or every other day. I have a girlfriend who I am crazy about. And I want to know if she masturbates. How can I find out?...

I cant figure him out. Is he a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - hi i'm 15 and im a sophmore in hs.. i like this guy in my class i think he likes me too but idk why he acts so weird around me..i dont get him so my only solution is this..please dont say i'm too young cuz i'm sick of that crapp.. this guy in my cl...

Feeling stuck in a relationship....Is it time to get out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hi - I am a 24 year old female who has been in a relationship with the same man for almost 5 years. He was my first intimate partner and we have been through a lot of ups and downs. We are like best friends, but the relationship lacks serious ...

Is there such a thing as unconditional love between a couple?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I have two questions. One is is there such a thing as unconditional love between a couple? Cause my ex said I had unconditional twisted. Isn't it where no matter what ur partner does ull always love them and stay with them? Also how can I prev...

Should I continue to do nothing and wait for him? Or has he already moved on?

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11 April 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for 4 months. There was a strong attraction from the beginning. We started talking everyday... and kept in contact constantly 24/7 via text, IM, phone, email. He thought I was the perfect girl for him and I felt the same too. He...

How do you prevent a woman from losing interest in you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - How do you keep a woman interested and not get bored of you? Seems like every relationship i've ever had they've lost interest in me. i'm a nice guy, i give them space when they need it so why does this happen? I just need some advice on the ma...

Abusive bf? Or too loving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Okay...so ill start off saying im 17 and my bf is 20. so I'm not sure what this is considered...but ive been dating this guy for 10months off and on. and i know im not the peachiest person...but ok maybe last night i had this coming. we broke up(a...

Question on G-spot and fingering

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - okay my boyfriend is kinda self-conscious about his eh, performance when he fingers me. and he does very good but he never hits my G-Spot and has never expressed an interest to do so. But i really want him to because when i finger myself if feels re...

I am pregnant by my FWB, and my lovely ex-husband is now cancer free. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - My friend-with-benefits is seventeen years my senior and we each have kids from our previous marriages. He has four and I have one. After having known each other for three months, I found out I was pregnant a month ago. I know that sounds as if I'm ...

I broke things off but I'd like to see her again now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - About three months ago I ended things with a girl I was involved with. It wasn't a relationship and we were just getting to know each other. Unfortunately, I had a lot of pressure on me from school so I didn't get to know her as well as I would ...

My fiance may be in love with a 16 year old?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Back in Nov. My fiance and I had some issues. We play an online game. The game is mostly populated by young teens. Well he started to spend alot of time in game with a girl who I found out was 15. He was spending so much time with her that he was ...