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Dating: Help and advice

My best friend likes my crush too!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3995 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Today I found out that my best friend likes my Crush! I'm really sad because she dosnt know that I like him and she was telling me how much she likes him. and I know she is way prettyer thani am and I love her and I always try to he...

We're "friends" but he never mentioned his new girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - okay …. i first met this boy over a year ago and since then due to working in the same company and gettin on really well, we started speaking txting each other on the phone for hours, going out for drinks and to gig’s. i think that we are only jus...

How can I stop thinking about my unavailable crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Why can't i stop thinking about him? I've had a crush on this guy for 2 year but just a few months ago i told him. But then i found out he had a girlfriend so i tried staying away from him. I just see him during nutrition and lunch but all of a ...

I was dumped by text for asking too many questions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - i was dumped from a text (bad thing) just for asking too many questions. i only wanted to know how she was doing and how she was feeling. and now my heart has shattered... she's moving soon but i wanted to be with her till the end. i loved her she ...

No wonder guys are "coming out of the closet"!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - Dated this girl. We're both adults. I asked her out a couple of time and she always asked to see me again the next day for a movie or whatever so things were great. She says she digs me so much and I dig her. She kisses me. She says she's not ...

Still love my first love - but I have a new boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Hello, Here is my situation: I am 19. Back in June, I was very very close to taking back my first love We had been together for 3 years, he broke my heart very badly, and it took a year to forgive him. But in this past summer, I felt h...

Confused & friends teasing me about this guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I really like this guy but he's a year younger than me. I dont have a problem with it and i know i shouldnt listen to other people but my friends have been taking the mick. i would really like to have a relationship with him but i'm nervous about it...

Now I don't exist for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - i wanted to know why could it be that he acts ,like he dont care anymore about me we have been dating for 2 m nths in the beginning it was all about me and know it seems i dnt even exsist for him...

My chat friend - nice and gorgeous in person - wants to hook up and be friends. But he has a gf already.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - There this guy that has been texting me emailing me for over a year now! We've never met just chatted online. Weve never got together cos ive kinda been getting over a relationship.then i was single and he wasn't.he was single i wasn't! Anyway hes ...

My ex wants to have sex with me on my Birthday, but I am not a cheater. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - so i have a bf but i keep thinking about my ex and is crazy because i love my bf but we have sex issues. the sex has never been good but i didn't leave him because i love him and i didn't want to just tell him and hurt his feelings. but we have spo...

Why can't he ask me to be his girlfriend already? Is he afraid of commitment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this 23 year old guy for over a month and he still won't ask me to be his girlfriend. In the time that we spend together, he treats me really well, better than I have ever been treated before, but he is always horny and wants to h...

Is he bored? He chats on MSN more than with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend haven't been going out for long but i think hes getting bored of me because he always talks to his friends but hardly to me but on msn hes really nice to me and says he misses me all the time but when i actually see him hes acts...

Want out, but don't want to hurt her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - Ok..theres been this issue dwelling on my mind for some time and i've turned to here for some advice. Basically i met this girl about a couple of months back and we really got on well and hit it off. We text and see each other fairly often, bu...

I wish there was something I can do to give him a reality check

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - omg.. where to begin.. well im 17, a senior in high school he's 18 and a college freshman. we'll I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months and everything was perfect in the beginning we were together all the time.. we never e...

BF's lies to parents about our relationship. Should I expose everything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. We were engaged 11 years ago, but broke up only to get back together 8 years later. I found out he lied to his parents about our breakup to make him out to be the good guy and me the bad. He has ...

Is it wrong for me to feel unappreciated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together a year. I love her very much. Since we have gone out, I have paid for the gas for us to travel (my vehicle ), every date (movies, eating out, etc.) This has never really bothered me, but I also am a coll...

Is he looking out for us or is he just a damn bimbo?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I recently had unprotected sex with my boyfriend, and i feel i might be pregnant. the problem is that my boyfriend for a year is telling me to get an abortion. i was stunned as he always talked about me having his first child. he's calling me ever...

How do you ask a girl for anal sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - How do you ask a girl for anal sex? Iv been having "normal" sex for a while now and i find that i really want to just try anal sex with a girl. A lot of girls i know hate the thought of it and wud probably run a mile if you asked. But what is the b...

How do I suggest different sex position to my fiance? Or is she just set in her ways?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - Hi. I've been with my fiancee for two and a half years. I love her dearly and wouldn't change her for the world but, unfortunately, I'm getting bored with the sex. It's her on top or me on top. Most of the time it's her. I've tried talking to...

Am I being possesive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now. last fall he quit his job and is staying with family now. he calls me everyday and text me sometimes. the problem is he doesn't live that far away now and i only see him once during the ...

Does he want me back, or just stringing me along?

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8 April 2009 (F) - I have been broken up with my bf for about 4 months now. We have never not been in contact the whole time and still hook up/hang out sometimes. He has told my sister that he is going to marry me.. called my mom to catch up.. and keeps sending me ...

Should I ask her out or wait awhile?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - I've known her since grade 9 (grade 11 now) and we've been pretty close friends since then, I started liking her around June last year. She has had a couple bad relationships where the guy would date her for a couple weeks then ask her out again, ...

Was I just a FWB or a Plan B only?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - It has been a while since I’ve been here at Cupid asking questions mainly because other than sorting out my life I haven’t been in any sort of relationship to have any issues. Its a bit long... But quite interesting... And there’s quite a bit of ...

In love with two women

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - Ok, Well i'm Scared to admit it I am in love with to girls I have known one for about lets say 7 months and the other about 3-4 maybe 5 months total the first woman lets call her (awkwardkitty) and the one I know less (jynxy) please note these are ...

He doesn't want to have sex

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8 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 26, we have successful careers on cruise ships. We have been in a relationship for about 3 years. When we are separated for a few weeks +/- 4-8 weeks at a time, we we get back together we have amazing sex for about two ...

I'm very concerned about my flatmate: her boyfriend cheats on her all the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Hi Everyone, This is sort of on behalf of my flatmate. I'm really worried about her and her relationship. She's 21 and leaving uni this year, and for the past 4 years on and off, has been with her boyfriend who treats her like a doormate. They w...

Not good looking enough to get a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - do guys like girls with fat round face and short and heavy because i am short,fat round face and heavy.up on my 30s and i never had boyfriend i would n,t know how to get one.i am sick of liking guys who don,t like me.a guy of nice looks and nice ...

Should I contact him? Was he just telling me lies?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

8 April 2009 (?) - I have been seeing this man for a few months. Everything was going so well. We talked about making things official and moving to the next level.Which he he brought this up first and i told him how i felt about him and i only wanted to date him. No...

Every time I start to get feelings about a guy they run away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I'm so pathetic I can't even get a boyfriend. When i finally do, everything always turns bad. I am 19 and have aspergers syndrome so people generally think i'm wierd, although i have no problems talking to guys as friends. My best friend just got ...

My boyfriend was lovely but now turned abusive. Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I have a massive problem right now, cant sleep at night, cant eat. I don't know what 2 do. Here goes. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and for the first few months he was so lovely and so good 2 be with. But now I am so scared...

How can I ask him to let go of his ex's "memories" and what I mean to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Well this is it. I had to make a call to my mom from my boyfriends phone, my phone is in for repairs, right, so well i was going down the list to find my mom's number i came across a contact called 'sweetheart' allow with his ex-wife details. I was ...

I have lied to him about my age but I love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I have recently met a guy and we have got off on a really good start the problem is i have lied about my age saying i am 19 when i am really 16. he really likes me too, but him being 10 years my senior i know he wont like me for the followin...

Who should I choose? "C" or "R"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - ok so i have been going out with my bf for just over a year now. my bf ("C") has always known that i have been really close with his brother ("R") but it has only been a friendly jokey type of thing if you no what i mean, its just like hugs and ...

He's a great guy.. But Pot is in his life..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Readers, I recently starting dating somebody. He is a really great guy. I have some strong feelings about him, and he also feels the same about me. I am a " good girl" as you call it. No drugs, no drinking, partying or bars. I am also a mother to a ...

Once her heart is turned is there a way to unturn it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (?) - I can't forget her... and its been two years. So we. she and I, were together two years ago.. for only about..6 months. Then we got separated by our jobs. By the time we got separated I was convinced she was wifey type, just that quick. I mean, ...

What kind of relationship is this? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - When I'm out in public or around her family it like she doesn't like for me to say anything. I talk to her in the stores when we shop but its like it goes through one ear and out the next. Kinda like talking to a brick wall or someone who wants no ...

Does he have feelings for me? All the signs are there!

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8 April 2009 (F) - I'm a sophomore in high school and I met a guy when I first moved here and have know him for almost two years. We get along well, but he's always been less social than I am. I've recently started talking to him more again, and I've never been mor...

If it's platonic, why say that he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I'll try to keep this brief and not include every detail of the past three years... I started seeing an older guy at the end of my master's degree. I got a job and moved away. Then when he graduated with his doctorate he moved to the same area...

Whats the game plan here with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - My ex of two years split sometime ago, I found out she was seeing someone else. There have been ups and downs between us, and we have never quite had closure. She has played games with me. Anyway she recently has started to show an interest in w...

Is it me or is there too much attachment with his daughter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I have a great boyfriend, but the problem is he is too attached to his 22 yr. daughter. We've been together for almost 3 yrs. and during the 1st yr of our relationship he did not have his daughter. But somehow a summer stay has turned into fore...

Should I listen to my head or my heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Alright, there's a story involved with this one. I like this boy. A couple months ago we started hanging out and things progressed and we did some pretty inappropriate things together (use your imagination here). We never really intended for anyt...

Does he just want me me for company and sex? What is in his mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - My story is a little complicated . I married very early and I am 26 and we separated now. I met a guy last year and became crazy for him in a short time , he is 35 and just broke up with his ex at that time. He said he likes me very much and we h...

Will sex make us closer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 16, soon to be 17. We've been together for 11 months only. We've done other sexual stuff and it seems after we do that we fall more in love. We've done basically everything except, actual sex lol. But we ...

I feel bad for not listening to my parents about my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - hey im 16 years old and im going through a hard time right now..i got caught sneaking my boyfriend into my house at midnight i feel so bad because i had a lot going on with my parents they were telling me a lot. where it got to the point that both ...

We live far apart and she wants to tell her parents about us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - Hi there, I met a girl over the internet, and after knowing her for months we fell in love, but we've never met in real life. The problem is, I'm 20 and live in the UK, she's 15 and lives in the US. We want to see each other, but she doesn't know...

We're dating and no one knows we're together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - hello i am 25 dating a 17 year old girl and i love her with all my heart and would do anything n this world for her happiness.she and i turn 26 before she turns 18 and we r keeping our relationship a secret except to the people we trust.we have not ...

Wait for him in Iraq or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - So I've been friends with this guy for almost four years now. He is so attractive and has had a power over me from the moment I met him. But due to complicated situations (both being in relationships, college, he joined the army, etc) we have never ...

Should I make the first move or let him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 3 months and we have made out with the kissing etc which is great. I can't tell if he wants to have sex because as soon as we get to that point he just stops and that's it. Should I make the first move or let him?...

Does he only want me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - About 5 Day's ago a Friend of mine sent me an honesty Box Comment saying " i would like to make sweet love to you all night long, it'll be so good you wont want me to stop." I figured out that it was one of my perverted Friends, But he's a Nice ...

I am getting fed up with this game playing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I'm confused, seriously: I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and it hasn't been perfect, but I am at a loss with what is going on now. We talk to eachother everyday, text, msn ect and now it is going on 4 days and nothing. Lately he's ...

I love her, but I just keep watching her hoping she notice me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - hi, in my first year in college i met a girl that study with me, and i love her. we don't speak to each other or talk about something, i even didn't ask her for some books or such things, i just keep watching her hoping she notice me. i was keep ...

I think he may have pushed her for sex and hurt her..Should I even continue dating this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - About 6 days ago, A friend of mine asked me out over facebook. But not the way most People would.....He said very bluntly that he wanted to have Sex with me. I thought that he was Just being the crude Joker that his is and I said "Well as Long as ...

I feel bad for seeing an ex's friend..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for 4 years, we were so in love but in the end grew apart. It didn't end well and we no longer talk to each other. It has been 15 months since the break up and we both seem to have moved on with our lives, he is seeing someone else and ...

I was drunk...got the number! She's not that hot...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - hi. please dont think im shallow or anything, im really not! would like some advice. i met a girl on sunday night. i was drunk, thought she was really good looking. i pulled her and got her number. we've been texting all day yesterday and today. i...

Should I act now or just leave it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - I'm in need of some advice. I broke up with my last girlfriend over 4 months ago and have been single since then. It's been OK, but I've never been that enthusiastic about long-term singledom and feel ready to begin a new relationship. At the ...