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writes:something happened 3 weeks ago that i still need to like figure out , me and my boyfriend went over to a friend's house while his parents were away , there was the 3 of us and the friend's gf , anyways we got drunk and were having fun , he was showing me , his gf around and we were laughing and stuff when ,, he kissed me , on the lips , his gf was on the bed next to us but out of it kinda , i was actually too drunk to remember , after words he said sorry about that and he told me what happened , it was fine he is a great guy and we have a geat friendship he just was drunk , anyways since then i didnt tell my bf , he said he wants to tell him and that he was going to but still he didnt and today he was asking me if i really wanted my bf to know , i do , i dont want to be hiding stuff but i'm afraid my bf would leave me or that it would shatter our friendship or something ... i donnu how will he react , guys !! how would u have reacted , what should i do and what do u think my bf's reaction would be ? and i know i shouldn't be drinking like that .
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reader, mariaxx  +, writes (7 April 2009):
usually it's best to come clean about stuff, but you were all drunk and i think there's nothing really to be gained by telling anyone now.Perhaps this can be a lesson to you - not to get so shitfaced that you don't know what's going on (if you were somewhere else with someone else you could have been assaulted or raped).Sit down with this guy and say it happened, everyone was drunk, you value him as a friend and so does your b/f so lets put it behind you.Good luck
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reader, missHelp; +, writes (7 April 2009):
 your boyfriend might give a bad reaction to this because you have taken so long to tell him and he will think that there is more to it, you shouldn't of hid it from him in the first place but people just panic because they love there partner lots and don't want to loose them over a daft little thing, i think you should come clean and tell him the whole story, please let us know how it goes and his reaction x thank you :-) x
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