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Dating: Help and advice

Pink spotting...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I recently had unprotected sex with my boyfriend (which we've been doing for awhile) but a few days after sex I had some cramping which has never happened for is there a chance I could be pregnant? Same thing this morning.. Also, I used the restr...

Lost my faith in guys - have I been used?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I've been dating a nice guy for about 7 weeks. Was very romantic, kind and seemed to be very in to me. I went on another date with him again at the weekend - the date went well and I invited him back to mine. We ended up sleeping together. He is the ...

How do I ask him if we're "officially dating"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 week and a half now.. And I don't know if it is offical yet. How do I ask him without looking stupid?...

He always makes me feel second best...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I'm so miserable. My boyfriend loves me but always makes me feel second best compared to his ex. They were together for about 2 years and says now it was all just superficial. He makes me feel bad by rubbing in the superficial part. He says she was ...

I don't feel like I'm following my heart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I'm seeing this guy and his friend and me have a spark between us. He's been texting me even though he has a girlfriend, who he's said he'll finish with to be with me when the timing is right. I like both of them but I like the guy with the ...

My parents don't even know I'm dating and I might be pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Well I'm 15 and I have a 15 year old boyfriend that is about to turn 16. We have been together for 9 months and We have had protected sex a few times and had no worries about it. But lately I have been getting pregnancy signs and I missed my ...

Is he faithful and masturbating or cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of six years has cheated on me once. He said it lasted for about a year, was purely physical, and ended around August last year. Last December I noticed he seemed distant, he was on his laptop a lot. I felt our relationship and ...

Do you think we'll get back together in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Someone help me plz. I don't know what to do. I've been with this guy for 11 months almost a year and he broke up with me last week and kicked me out but then he got back with me saying he doesn't want to be without me. Then like a week later beca...

Will he contact me? Or do I just forget?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - i was seeing this guy for 6 months and I'm crazy about him. he finished with me about a month ago but we kept on sleeping together. this is all over with now but because i was so angry and confused by his actions i got drunk and sent a lot of unfo...

26 yo and I feel like I am missing out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Some thoughts are very welcome. I am interested in this guy I work with, he leaves in July. He was shown an interest in me for a while but he has made it clear that he only wants a bit of fun nothing serious, we have kissed once unfortunately at...

My bf is making me feel like crap sexually :-(

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of just over one year has been telling me for months that he thinks I am cheating on him because my "p*ssy feels different and stretched out like I have been f*cking n***ers". He has also then become upset with me when I become more ...

Is it a sign that our friendship isn't as strong as I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I have been friends with a girl from school for about a year now and things have been going pretty well. Right now, I am a student whilst she is in full time work. Our age gap is very close and we often meet for a catch up as we live close to each...

Do I hang in there, or move on?

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6 April 2009 (F) - Do u think this is unreasonable. Me and my boyfriend haven't seen it other much recently due to the fact i always feel that he is too busy to see me. And i get so lonely and upset cos im in love with him so much and i don't think he feels the ...

How to get into a reltionship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - There's this guy. Ive been cinema with him before. We hardly see each other in real life because i rarely often bump into him at the bus stop. But we regularly speak online and texting. And hes normally fine and flirty. I really don't know were ...

Should I marry him, knowing how badly he wants to abort our child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I am 18 years old. I recently found out I am pregnant. My 26 year old boyfriend, who already has a 3 year old son, wants me to have an abortion. He is an amazing father but says we should wait to have a baby until we are ready, do it right, get marr...

Would this be too clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - This guy and I have been seeing each other for over a month. We are both in college and established that we were dating but he still doesn't call me his girlfriend. I only saw him twice last week but we talked over the phone about every other day. I ...

He wants his space?!? But he is always coming over!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Hello, Boys and girls, I need your help, I have been in long term relationships before, and they ended. I think I am partly responsible, because I lack confidence in myself sometimes. Here it is, my boyfriend and I have been together for abo...

Who should it be? A, B, or C?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - well.. I have been single for years because I chose it to be that way. See, I'm too much of my own person and love to be 'free'. But now I am thinking of giving it a shot. Here's the dilemma... One guy, (A), I have known for almost two ye...

Boyfriend wants to watch me with other men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple years. We are crazy about each other. We get along really well and are very open with our communication. We share practically everything. For the past year my boyfriend has become consumed with a fe...

Texting while Sexing?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Yesterday when my friend and I were having sex, he got a text message. We stopped. He answered it. He got another one. We stopped. He answered it. He got another one while I was giving him head. I stopped. He got it, and was answering it, and look...

To Trust or Not To Trust? HELP!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Here's the situation: I've been dating this wonderful girl for the past 3 months and they've been great! We have a lot in common and love being around one another :) The only problem is the relationship I was in previously was a devastating one ...

I'm scared of telling her how I feel!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - i'm so frustrated with myself....!!! i have a really close female friend and i love her to pieces, but i've yet told her how i feel...im such a wuss--im scared of telling her... it's sooo hard being around her with her not knowing, and her...

Tough time getting over co-worker breakup!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - long story short, my ex and I still work together, broke up 10 months ago. recently we did the FWB thing and things (for me anyways) were AMAZING. she mentioned during our mutual breakup that shed be "open-minded" to us potentially re-dating down ...

Could the 2nd time around be better? I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - When I was 15 I was in a relationship with an 18 year old boy (I'll call him "J"), he was my first in every way and we were great friends as well as a couple. My parents were great friends with J's older brother and sister-in-law but my dad was not ...

Am I wrong in wanting to go out with a friend even though I have a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Let me get to the point, Am I wrong for wanting to go out with this guy I call a friend; even if I do have a boyfriend? I like this guy (friend) physically and he has a good personality, but I don't want to be doing anything wrong that can affect my ...

My bf is not a bad guy but his laid back attitude is ruining our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (?) - hi everyone i have an increasingly growing problem, please bear with me. im 18 i go to college full time but i was kicked out of my house at 16 so i live in a council flat and am on income support until i finish my college course. i work f...

13 yo and want to have sex with my boyfriend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - i'm thirteen years old and i want to start having sex with my boyfriend( we've been together for 4 months ) but im worried that if we have sex i may bleed on him when i break my hymen. We are obviously going to use a condom but i am scared he will...

What does an open relationship mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - what does an open relationship mean? my boyfriends facebook status is in a open relationship...

How do I break through to her and make her mine..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - I met a girl, we've been sort of seeing each other. I thought she liked me coz she was giving me signs. but to my surprise just before i told her how i realy feal , she said we can only be friends. Reason being that past guys have been letting her ...

My friend likes my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - My best mate likes my boyfriend and i really don't know what to do about it.I can't say anything to her in case she falls out with me.I have told my boyfriend about this and he says he doesn't like her and i am worried because in the past i have ...

I don't know whats going on with me and my bf. Should I just be patient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I don't no whats going on with me and my bf we've been together 5 years ok we had a big row a couple of months ago and sai not nice things and broke up but now we are back together. He hasn't said i love since Christmas he always used to say befo...

Am I pleasing him? How can I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - It's me again... Got another question about me and my friend. He's the first man I ever been with,so there's still things I haven't figured out. I don't know how to really "read" men...well read him anyway. I mean how do I know I'm pleasing him...

How do I tell her how I feel? I love her so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Hello, I love my girlfriend more than anything! (We've been together a year.) She says she had a "bad experience" while back, and hates giving oral. I didn't really mind. She does, however, LOVE for me to give her oral. As of late, she wants me...

I know that for someone to love her as much as I do is virtually impossible

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Hi...I'm in a complicated situation with my girlfriend. We have been going out for two years. In the first year we broke up for a period of three weeks due to arguing and my jealousy. We got back before I went to University..I spent my whole firs...

Shall I bother to resolve this deadlock?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - I found out my ex (of 2 years) was seeing someone else only by chance, I challenge her at first as any person would, but I don’t ask any questions. I say good luck and walk away. I say no more. We all work in the same building, this was nearly 15 ...

Has my boyfriend gone all cold?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Hello.... Well here it is, my boyfriend has gone all cold...... He is not like he use to be 7 months ago. He does not say he misses me like he use to, randomly in the day he send a text message like, i miss you my angel.. Or he would phone just to ...

My mother does not like the engagement ring I chose!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been in a long distance relation ship for the past 5 years and my boyfriend has finally proposed....but without a ring..he didn't want to choose it for me as i have quite particular taste so he has given me £2000 to spend on a ring ...

Was involved with 2 boys who are cousins. Now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - i was dating two cousins (T and S) when T found out he confronted me and ordered me to choose between the two of them, because i love T, i chose him and end things with S but i did'nt let him(S) know it was over so he kept on telling people that...

Is my ex bf just playing games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Is my ex bf just playing games with me? I broke up with him about a month ago because he was treating me really badly and showed no respect for me what so ever. It took me a few attempts to go through with it (as he would always change my mind) ...

2 questions: 1 on my LD boyfriend and 1 on my boy friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - so this is complicated and there's two parts to this question. I've had this boyfriend for 2 years and I'm in college 2 states away and he's my first love but we broke up because of the distance and he agreed for me to come home and see him this...

I'm 21 and want to be living life to the fullest

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Hi, just wondering if anyone has ever felt like this. I was with my boyfriend for five years from the age of 15, we broke up five months, I liked a guy friend of mine a lot, but nothing came of it and he let me down. I dated recently and the guy ...

Do I come across desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I was physically abused by my step mother when I was growing but between the ages of 9 - 11. I always found it hard to make friends as I felt people thought I was weird. Even my half brothers and sisters made fun out of me and found ways to make ...

Parents don't approve of online boyfriend....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I've known a guy online for a couple years, but we've been talking intensively and fallen for each other in the past couple months. In character, he seems to be everything I ever wanted, and I've also seen and heard him online. There is an age diff...

Is sex the only thing that connects us?

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6 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend connected only for sex. after a year my boyfriend get boared. what to do to continue my relationship. ...

She says "Everything is fine" but I have a feeling it's not. What should I do?

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6 April 2009 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for over two years now and at the beginning she would want to have sex regularly this then decreased but i wasn't worried i thought that was normal but now we don't have sex for weeks and the worst part is she has neve...

How do I get him back to being a little more sensitive like he used to be?

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6 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is amazing and I love him to death. We've been dating for about 6 months now and I am madly in love with him. I know you're thinking I'm too young and don't know what love feels like and 6 months isn't that long but I am serious. I'm ...

Jealous? Or normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I have bee dating someone for just under a year now and the more I fall for him the more it truly pains me knowing that he has had so many sexual partners. He has not blatantly said as much, but he is gorgeous, with the 100/100 libido and I can do t...

Please help me in my love situation!

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6 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have recently broken up. it's been barely over a week and i miss him greatly. first things first, we started dating as soon as we met, no matter how you put it to be honest. it just, was. we have had our fair share of problems,...

What should I do about this other person?

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6 April 2009 (F) - I have been really confused recently. I am 20 years old and engaged to a wonderful person that treats me great. But, before we got together or even hung out I was sorta on and off with this one guy for a couple years. we were never official but he ...

Am I unlovable or just doing everything wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I feel so alone. I've never had a boyfriend and I feel like I may be unlovable. All my friends are currently in relationships and today it finally hit me that I have no one. I feel completely worthless and feel as if I've tried everything to lift ...

Libra women attract a Virgo man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - How can a Libra women attract a Virgo man, or how to know whether he likes her or not????????????...

Please tell me how to find what is in his heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Am megna women who is like by many men around me, but suddenly fall head over hills in crush with this new friend of mine, since am very frank women I just approached and told him that I like him and want to get to know him more ! At firs...

Did I open an unwanted door?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Well hi, this is my story.. The man i'm dating now has been married, i had a feeling he might be but thought it was possible. Working for a family business i found a lot information out from my boss, his this man i'm dating's brother-in-law his sist...

Does this sound fishy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I need everyones opinion here to just to see if I'm completely out of line and off base. Me and my boyfriend just had a fight on Friday, and now its a Sunday. I worked this evening, and he texted me asking me when I started. I told him, and th...

Want more than a casual relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Morning, my question seems normal in todays times, yet i don't understand. See, i'm not in a relationship, relationship with this guy, some call it a casual relationship or friends with benefits,his reason for not wanting a serious relationship just ...

Can l repair the damage l caused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - l told my best friend outright that l liked him, he was SUPPOSEDLY bi, but apparently l was wrong? l still don't know for sure. l had to tell him over facebook, as we were short on time. He reacted to me as if l had turned into a giant frog, almost ...

I still love him madly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - i hope you can help me i was dating 2 and half years ago and during this period we broke up 2 times with no good reason but he kept on talking to me and telling me how much he cares for me and that i am someone special suddenly and for the ...

I'd like to see him again but not sure how to go about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I'm confused about a guy i like.I saw him tonight,i hadnt seen him for about a year,as i havent been to the place where i used to see him regularly that much.I saw him in a pub at first tonight.We looked at each other and smiled,but we didnt talk to ...

Will you know when he's going to propose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - How do you know when the love of your life is thinking about proposing?? Does he act a certain way?? what should i expect?...

How do I prove Id' make a devoted boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - well, heres my story, i really like this girl and i dont quite know what to do she always refers to me as her big brother and its upsetting because i want to be more than that if any girl or guy out there can give me some advice on how to win her o...

I don't want to lose her to someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Alright there's this girl that i like alot and we've known each other for a while and i dont think she's knows that i like her but im trying my best to let her know how i feel. she just moved back from virginia after breakin up with her bf and i ...

How can I show my family that this guy has changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I started dating my curent boyfriend about 5 months ago and my family hates him. I have known him since high school and I will admit he has had a troubled past. He has been charge with assault 3 times (from fights that stated at bar when he was ...

What is cute? How do I melt her heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Ladies, whats the best way to ask you out and melt your heart? I like my female friend, we are very close, we have made out too but insisted it was mistake. What do ladies consider cute? What could i buy etc?...

I think he's too egotistical!

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6 April 2009 (F) - sometimes i think that my boyfriend is too egoistic and allways thinks first of all about himself, about his problems, his feelings, job and friends...i want somehow to change him in my way do you think will it be right or should i except him the ...

Is it worth being in this relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my child's father for a year and he is a nice person he wants to buy us a home. I am 21 and he is 52 years old. He has been married twice to a puerto rican woman and I hear him always talk about people of that race. I feel like ...

We have a son together and he's been in contact with his ex girlfriend all along...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Late 2007 I met this guy, we were both getting over our relationships, started hanging out a lot, comforting each other from our loss and one thing led to another but we both had an understanding that it wasn't anything too serious. About 5 months ...

Why is sex with my current boyfriend so painful when it wasn't with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - right well basically, I'm 16, (17 in 3 weeks) and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months, he's 20, so he's almost 4 years older than me, but that's irrelevant. :) I was 14 when I got my first real boyfriend, and we were together for 14 ...