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female
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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone,I have been with this guy for about 1.5 year, and I thought he was my soulmate, everything I ever wanted. Then, 5 months ago I got very close with one of my male friends.. and with time we even had a thing going on (me and my boyfriend were on-off), and this new friend treated me like a queen, did everything for me, was crazy about me, and even lived for 3 months with me. Problem was, that we both expected it to be just a simple temporary fling.. because he didn't know what he wanted in life, and because I allready love someone else. I even cried in my fling's arms about my breakups with my bf. Then, my fling and I started to have deeper feelings for each other, yet I was too blind to see, too stupid not realizing that I was loosing him if I would not soon let my bf go (even though I did not have any physical relation with my bf since the day I started seeing my fling). Thing is, I thought my bf was my true love, but too late I realized it was not him, it never was. It was always my fling. I always loved him, yet failed to realize that myself. He was the one where I felt happy, with him I can be myself, laugh and cry. But I was too late. Now, I'm heartbroken, really want him back, but he has a new girl. We have not have much contact for the past few weeks, and I don't know what the best approach is. I am sure that he does feel something for me inside. What should I do? I allready tries sending him along e-mail explaning everything that happened, proved my love for him, and apologized for being too late realizing that I love him. I'm crazy about him, and really really miss him. What should I do?Pls don't tell me to just give up!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): i wouldn't give up just yet. what has he said about the email. If you let him know how you feel i would wait to see what he does now that he knows how you truly feel. good luck.
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