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Archived questions from: 12 April, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't know who I like more or who I have a better chance with!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I'm very confused about this guy called Will! I used to be so certain that Luke was the one i loved but things have changed a bit and Will and I have been talking so much more! All of our conversations are so sexual and funny and odd and he makes me ...

Am I just getting played?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I am 16. He is 18. Back in december we dated for 2 months (febuary) I was completly heartbroken ect. Then about the 3rd week of march we went back out but this time, after about a week, I broke up with him because the relationship wasn't as personal ...

Is she confused about her sexuality and too afraid to tell me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I just don't understand this girl. I really thought she liked me, I mean this time I was almost positive. I was wrong though, she doesn't. I am a girl and so is she by the way. I thought maybe she liked me because she didn't mind me getting close to ...

3rd time's a charm - Did anyone get a third chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Are there any guys (or girls) out there who have broken up with the SAME partner twice and still successfuly gotten him/her back for a third try? (ideally within a relatively short time period - not the 15 year split times then trying again far...

I want to liven it up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - i'm 13 and currently in a relationship for about for months, i love her and she loves me. is there anyway to move my relationship on or liven it up??? as it has got a bit boring, btw she is a bit shy but mostly not. look forward to your feedback...

If he's going to see other people maybe we shouldnt be in a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I'm currently in a long-distance-relationship. On Friday, my bf went out to lunch with a single, female colleague. Then they ended up spending the rest of the day together, going to a local museum and getting dinner. He told me about having lunch ...

I am confused. I need advice for me to move on.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupids, I am confused. I need advices for me to move on. I’ve seeing this guy for almost 2 months. He never told me he liked me, but he kept calling me “hon” and he was nice to me, and always wanted to hang out with me. For the past 3 days, we...

Dating 3rd cousins?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I was at a wedding the other day, and I caught eye with this boy who is also my age. As soon as i saw him I fell in love. I was too nervous to talk to him properly, but we said hi to each other when we were introduced. All day we were making eye ...

Am I obsessive and invading my bf privacy ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I have so much doubt and mistrust going with my ex,yes,i am still going out with my ex just like we are still together,we sleep together,we talked a lot.I asked him many times that i don't us to be just friends,but he always answer me that he is ...

I'm 15, He's 22 But I want him Bad...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Im 15 and afew weeks ago one of my aunties friends started talking to me on bebo. He was shocked to find out my real age cause he thought i was older but he chatted away to me anyway. Hes really nice and friendly and i loved talking to him. One day ...

How do I give her the bad boy attitude without going too far and running her off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - I have been dating a girl for 6 months. She recently told me I was too nice and smothered her. I only call her so much because she cheated on me for a month with her ex. She is pregnant with my child. How do I give her the bad boy attitude without ...

It's been nearly two years, but I still feel guilty for cutting off my ex. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. Tonight I've reflected on the break up of my first relationship, which was a long distance relationship which lasted for 2 years, ending in June 2007. I know it's a long time to still be reflecting on it, but let me run you through ...

What do I do in my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I really really am depressed right now, i dont know what to do with my life. Im more and more lonely, I barely have any friends left, and none of them cares. I am in a relationship for 10 months now. I always have great support i...

Should I tell her how I feel? Her ex is a best friend and I don't want to lose him because of this either

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - ok so I've known him for 4 years now. her for 2 maybe. I actually met her because of him. they've been going out since then but broke up just recently. all through those 2 years I think I may had some small on and off feelings for her. now that they...

What do I have to do? I love him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - hey i'm 15 and have a boyfriend and he is 20 he is nice,cute,understanding,stupid,and very important to me but my parents knows about this and they really don't like him so what i'm going to do?...

I'm trying not to chase him..how can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am so tired of dating. I have been out on multiple dates however I have had no luck. I finally found someone I really like. He is all that I was looking for. I am a go getter, so when I see something I like am not afraid to go get ...

Forgive my outporing here, but I need advice on our situation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I am really struggling with what to do. I have been in a relationship now for 8 1/2 years. We love each other however we are both unhappy. We have always had a volatile relationship however sometimes it ends up going too far. This isn't really the ...

Someone cheer me up please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Me and my ex-girlfriend have been on and off for the past 6 months but we are very much into each other...too many disagreements and problems with trust have ruined things. I decided to give it one last go instead of giving up on it but i didn...

2 months pregnant and boyfriend wants nothing to do with it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - hi all.i found my boyfriend texting and ringing girls behind my back i've been with him over 7 months, he's polish, i'm not and he's been living here 5 years and i've recently found out that i'm pregnant. it was a big shock but his reaction...

I want to move to where my g/f will be studying, 300 miles away. How do I go about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hey I am 18 and life in Northwest England i currently work in a bar and have recently finished an IT course, my Girlfriend wants to go to uni this September in Plymouth which is something like 200-300 miles away and i fear that we wont be able ...

I have tried my best and now feel I am just being taken for an idiot

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Before i start this post I would like to just say that i dont actually have problem with potential partners having children etc when you meet them but the problem is this.. when i met my partner he told me he had a child.. the mother of the ch...

I need ideas for a sexy surprise for my boyfriend. :-)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm hoping for some advice from the guys (and the girls!) out there. My bf of 3 yrs has been away for 2 weeks with work. I want to show him how much I've missed him by giving him a sexy surprise, but am stuck for ideas...has anyone got any ...

Now I cant connect with people on a personal level. How do I overcome this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hey... I just finished my first relationship. And it went for two years. I know, thats reaaally long for a first relationship apparently. Well, for the whole relationship, i never yelled at her, any arguments we had it was pretty much her yelling...

Why wont my ex help me get a bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - why wont my ex help me get a bf, he recently set one of his new gfs mates up with a guy from the pub, then when i was talking 2 this guy down the pub first the other week, he got him to go and talk 2 my mate, i think he knew i liked him, anyway w...

Suddenly she is not satisfied with our sex life. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have had a really healthy sexual relationship up until this week. I was sick for the first half then Thursday we got in a fight about her having to work until 930 at night. Some questions arose about why she has been work...

Am I wasting my time thinking about him? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts I am a 24 year old girl, had not been in a relationship before. In fact, my encounters with guys are limited, so much so that I don't really know how to handle them. Anyways, I met this guy (same age as me) a few months ago. He l...

I won't come/release orally or during intercourse... please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hi, i've read about this question in another topic but then it was a female who asked what she was doing wrong. I'm 22 and currently seeing my first girl, she's really amazing but when it comes to sex... well i won't come. I can make her come bo...

What should change when you become girlfriend/boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - When you have "the talk" and are now girlfriend and boyfriend - exclusively, what should change between the two of you from when it was just 'dating' I know there is the obvious - no dating other people etc and commitment to that person but i mea...

She said that if I really want her back it shouldn't matter how many people she has slept with. Is this true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - i am 17 and i was with my girl friend for 2 years but we have been friends for about 6 or more years since primary school. this is the girls that i had the little crush on back in primary school and that continued till high school were she had a bf ...

Commitment phobia? Breaking up? Can this be fixed? Is there hope? HELP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - 7 months ago, I left everything and moved to Spain to start a new life with my Spanish fiance....so I thought anyway. Things have not been easy for me (no family, no friends, no knowledge of the language, paperwork difficulties, etc) but they have ...

Does she still want to be friends or is she giving me the cold shoulder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Heya everyone, I've liked this girl, for about a year now (I think), I asked her out a while ago and she said yes but we didn't eventually. A couple of months ago she started getting close to one of my best friends (not bf and gf, just close m...

I feel sick after having sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - To my agony aunts and uncles, thanks for taking the time to read this. So here's the deal, every time my bf and i have sex i feel sick the next day- cough, fever, fatigue. We've only had sex a few times (we used a condom every time) and i was a vi...

I like this guy, but he just wants to be friends and mess around only :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - here goes, i met some guy off a site a few months ago and we've been talking for like 5 to 6 months now and we just met recently and he was affectionate towards me and we clicked like crazy and even showed me where he works and treated me to a nice ...

Its only been a year. How can he be so uninterested already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i met while working with each other and still currently do. We have been together for a little over a year now. We are both 21 years old and this is the longest relationship we have both ever been in. I think that our relationship ...

I'm 19, he's 15..we want to be together but its not legal for another 2 years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I am 19yrs old and this person I want to be with is 15yrs old. The law is what's keeping us apart. We have known eachother for 11yrs or so and have had a connection for 5yrs. I have always thought I was sick in the head for feeling this way about ...

I want him to be happy with ME not HER

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - the love of my life now loves my bestfriend and she loves him back. i've went through hell and back for him and i don't know how to get him to like me because i want him so bad as mine. i feel really selfish for wanting him to be happy but just not ...

Help me get over my boyfriend's past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I've seen a lot of questions on here about boys who can't seem to get over their girlfriend's past, but I can't get over my boyfriend's! First off, we have been dating for a little over 2 years. We started dating a little before I turned 18 and ...

I want this other girl out of the picture!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this really sweet guy and we had sex already. I'm 13 and I lost my virginity to him and he lost his to me. I really like him. He is 16 and is very hot. He will always come over and talk to me plus he does anything sexual I want ...

Is this a red flag?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I have been in a committed relationship with a man for almost 7 months. We have been trying not to put too much pressure on the relationship, however, we both made it very clear to each other that we our in love with one another and can see a ...

Girls flirt with my boyfriend - but he doesn't tell them to stop.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! Me and my bf have been going out for about 2 years and 2 months. Things have been rocky lately but were starting to get back on track. But there's one thing that still bothers me. My bf has 2 friends who are both girls. One girl...

Does my ex girlfriend want me back or is she just keeping me hanging on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hi, Me and my ex girlfriend split up about 10 days ago after a 3 year relationship. It started about a month ago when she told me that she needed some time apart to spend with her college friends (as she has just started college). Although i was ...

I feel he tricked me into having an abortion and now I feel so guilty about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Hi, could you give me advice on getting back my ex please? Our relationship ended really badly. I was pregnant and we made the decision together that it was best to have an abortion because we thought we weren't ready and that our relationship ...

Electric toothbrush as a sex toy!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - My girlfriend has an old electric toothbrush and she likes to use it as a vibrator on me sometimes. Is it alright for the bristles to be on it while being on my clitoris? ...