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Dating: Help and advice

I feel our relationship isn't healthy at the moment. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Someone please offer me some advice... I'm feeling a little confused at the moment. I'm 25 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and have lived together for the past year. We have a series of rough patches where all we seem to do is argue...

I'm sexually challenged!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 15 years old and I've been dating this hottie and he wants to have sex. I'm definitely ready to do it. I have questions though. Where can I buy condoms and where do you think we can do it without anyone knowing?...

Do you think that my boyfriend being another race would affect us...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I am just here and confused and I really need help from you my cupid friends. :) Well my question is - I am Hispanic (Dominican republic) but my boyfriend is white. Do you think that effects our relationship because we're baptist and do y...

My gut says that my ex is an ex for a reason, but my heart melts every time I see him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I am going to start with the fact that I am very responsible and level headed. All of my friends joke that I am the voice of reason. However, I have an issue that I can seem to sort out on my own. I need some different opinions. I am currently ...

At the end of the day, does age really decide whether you will be "together forever"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I always see people making comments such as "you're too young, it will never last" and "it won't last forever because you're too young". But I was wondering, is that actually a general belief? Does everyone think that, just because you are in your ...

Is this karma getting me back because I flirted with another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - To get the to the point, we were dating for 4 years and 11 months she left me for another man (she's done this twice, I took her back the first time) and she won't come back to me no matter how much I say I love her or say I can do this. I'll admi...

Her past FWB, it's killing me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Hello. I'll cut right to the chase. I am falling in love with this girl i've been dating for 5 months. She told me she is falling for me. She is everything I'm looking for in a woman...elegant, smart, driven, charming, sexy, successful. One nigh...

We're trying to have a relationship but he keeps moving back and forth making it very difficult!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy but we have a very complicated relationship. Right now it is long distance but only like two hours. It's just that he keeps moving here and dating me, but it never works out and he always needs to move back home. He has ...

Can you fall in love after only 4 days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - hey ok heres the situation...the 2 days ago me and my best frend went round to her cousins house.as soon as i saw her 19yr old cousin i was speechless!! ever sice that day me and her cousin have been in contact all the time and we have met up ...

Should I trust my g/f? She got drunk and stayed in a hotel with another guy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend won't come anywhere near me.She treats me like some sort of idiot. We have been together for some 8 months now and haven't slept together. She has had quite a few previous sexual partners, myself having had only 1. Recently she got ...

My bf is suddenly taking a disinterest in his appearance. Should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - B/f of 3 yrs suddenly taken a disinterest in his appearance. I don't want to hurt his feelings but it's getting frustrated. He doesn't seem to be depressed, is behaving normal in all other areas, but doesn't shower and wash his hair as often and ...

I'm going to meet my internet guy over the weekend. Is it safe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - i have successfully in getting a partner, thanx dear cupid so much for helping me achieve that,but i still have a big problems as you can see in my country gay people does not allowed and base on that they always hide their sexuality from other ...

Does he still care? Or trying to let me down easy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - What do I do my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and he all of sudden wants space. I asked him what was wrong and he said he isn't in the write state of mind. So the next day we got back together and then his phone calls and texts are ...

Too soon to get engaged?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Is it too soon to get engaged after dating for less than a year.... like 6 or 7 months? I know that she is the one. I feel it with every fiber of my being, and she feels the same way. We have deep conversations about our future together. It woul...

Do you think my boyfriend's mad at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I was at work and started talking to a customer on the phone. He was very nice and we had a great conversation and laugh with something totally not related to work. I told my boyfriend about it after the fact as he was asking me how my day at work...

My boyfriend is away for Easter break with his Mom. I miss him already

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Well this is my story. See my boyfriend promised his mom last year that he will take her away on holiday when he has time off. He has his own business so it does not always happen that he has time off, anyway, that was before i was in the pict...

Question on safe sex during pregnancy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Ok, I have a question for all! When you suspect you're a few weeks pregnant it's still safe to have sex, right? But even rough sex? The thing is..I'm waiting for my blood test results. I won't find out for a week or so. I haven't told my bo...

Would we be ok to have sex with protection and me on the pill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 April 2009 (?) - Me and my boyfriend are both 15 years old and virgins, we have been best mates when little and actually got together 3 years ago next month. We've talked about sex, we have condoms, and we have only kissed and hugged alot, i have given him a hand...

He was too fast for me then. Will he take it slow this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm in an awkward situation at the moment. I started going out with the guy, it didn't work out. I've known him years (from school) but weren't all that close, and then i agreed to go out with him but realised that he wasnt my type and he told me ...

Any suggestion on how to say "No" to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - i need a couple of suggestions and please don't judge me or tell me not to do this.. here's the situation. i started talking to this young man about six months ago. and right off the bat fell for him. i've always considered myself mature and sure...

Cute vs Sexy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I have a question. I know, I have a lot of questions, but I also have a lot of answers, so I think it balances out =] I've noticed that a lot of guys I know have, over the past few years, said that I am so hot and sexy. They say they want to hav...

My parents don't trust me with my girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - my parents dont trust me... me and my girlfriend have been goin gout for a year she's 15 and im 14.,, and yes we're a very mature couple for our age//...but we wont do anything we are not ready for....whenever were alone watching tv in t...

Do feelings really change for someone who was so close to you?

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9 April 2009 (M) - ok so my girlfriend has broken our one year old relationship ... she said she has started life practically and seriously and she sees me more of a friend now because her feelings have changed for me past couple of weeks... i don't mind her breaking...

Prince Charming must have died

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm 18 years old and I've been with my Bf for 7 months (mind you this is my first bf) So the problem is I'm bored. We don't go anywhere And we only see each other at least once a week. When we do see each other we just watch TV and movies (and ...

Why is he always nice, if he doesn't want to hang out with me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - This guy i like, who i speak to online like everyday (we text too). We speak for hours sometimes, and we obviously enjoy speaking to each other. We've been to the cinema before and he came to my house party last week, we ended up kissing and he f...

How can I move on and like another guy?

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9 April 2009 (F) - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me because of complicated reasons. I miss him loads and still love him but I really want to move on. I have tried liking new people, but I can't like anyone seriously like I did my ex. This new guy has been tex...

How do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hello, Just a general question in case my boyfriend wants to touch me up or anything, how do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not? I don't think we'll be doing anything yet as I'm not ready to have sex but it would be nice to think that if...

He's asked me out. Should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and like this boy name him A so i liked him for a while since primary school but he gave me the cold shoulder always taking the piss out of me etc... Now i'm in secondary and i do still like him but as i've gone through the years alot o...

Is this just a natural phase in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I've been dating someone for two months now, everything was going really well, until I left town for a week. After that he stopped calling and texting me as much. He's really busy with work and is really over stressed; however, I wonder if he is o...

His comments make me think. Or shouldn't I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now. recently we had an argument over several issues in our relationship. he told me that he had no intention on marrying me anytime soon. i now know where i stand but still he will make com...

How do I do "open mouth" kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hiyy,im 13 I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly 3 months. all we've done is hug and kissed a few times in a game and he slept over at my house but that's it i don't know HOW to pash (open mouth kiss) and he kissed me but I'm scared to kiss h...

Is my illness due to sex or pregnancy or a miscarriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I had sex around 7 weeks ago for the first time, we used a condom but it split. He then entered once more (lets just say i wasn't willing him to) and then I pushed him off and everything was fine. That was until I became really ill. I was ...

How do I tell my guy that I'm having my period today, without totally ruining the mood?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I've been out with a man about 6 times over the course of about a month. The first 2 or 3 dates I thought he was strange and weird looking (sorry, just being honest here) but for whatever reason, kept wanting to see him again. The last few time...

My girlfriend's friend is a total user but she can't see it at all.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Okay my girlfriend has this ignorant ass best friend who I don't like, she has this problem with speaking to people. She also tried to shit on my mom who helped her ass out when she was out of a job buying her pampers and baby food when she had no ...

Bad text message!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I let someone write a text to my girl. The words they wrote were hurtful but they were not mines and I do not want to lose her because of the the words written by the other person. I love her more than life itself an that's no lie. I just don't k...

Age and appearance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Do guys like girls with fat round faces and who are short and heavy because I am short, fat round face and heavy. Up on my 30s and I never had boyfriend, I wouldn't know how to get one. I am sick of liking guys who don't like me. A guy of nice ...

Teenage sex problems!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm going round my boyfriends tonight and I think he's going to "finger" me. I'm concerned as I generally only use one finger and if he tries two I'm afraid it was hurt. Is this normal? ...

How can I make my parents trust him again and how can my boyfriend prove he has changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Ok here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half years now, everything was going fine until last october... my 18th birthday. I really wanted to go away on holiday with friends for my birthday and to cut a long story short my ...

My boyfriend has no sex drive but I've caught him watching porn!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - im in a relationship with a man that never wants sex. I am starting to feel very lonely all the time and find myself crying myself to sleep at night wondering what i have done wrong. Yet i have caught him watching porn and relieving himself to it ...

He got hard talking to me via webcam....does this mean he still likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - hi so there is this guy he used to fancy me a while ago and i him but then he went away for a few months and we never spoke as it would cost far too much to text and ring anyways he came back but he had changed towards me he then said he didn't like ...

I sent a fake picture to my boyfriend and now he has cancelled his flights to come and see me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - my boy friend has cancelled his flight today!!! simply because i told him that the picture i sent to him was not of me but belong to someone else,since he wants to meet in person by the weekend, and i have to tell him the truth. he was upset with...

Fiance kissed another woman! Is this my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiance 9 months and its not been easy. We have had a few rows but have always worked through them. However things have taken a turn for the worse. My fiance kissed another woman. It happened when he was on a nite out with friends ...

Do I still stay interested? Or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - right here we go again. there is a girl whom i like at college, 2 years younger than me and we get on well. we danced at a Christmas party where i thought she looked beautiful and i felt she was interested, we spoke every now and then over the ne...

I feel like I am the only one trying to make our relationship work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I wrote a couple of weeks ago about me and my boyfriend because we were having problems. We decided to go on a break type thing but still see each other. Recently, we've been getting on fine. We haven't argued or had any real disagreements. I...

Should I call it quits now before his feelings for me get stronger or should I work at trying to like him more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I have been hanging out with a guy i met at college for about 3 months and we just started kissing and cuddling and getting comfortable. He likes me but hes still kinda hard to read on how much he does and what exactly he wants but he has said he ...

Why does he mess me about like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Right ok so i'm 20 years old i'm single but there is this guy he knows my best friend (whose also a guy) and i met him through him anyways we chatted got to know eachother so on and so forth but nothing ever happend with us he always told me he ...

I'm really angry, my ex and my best friend are going out 2 days after we broke up!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - i brokeup with my boyfriend lastthursdy after goin out for 4 weeks but yesterday i found out that only 2 days after splittingup him and mybest friend were goin out, i got really angry. what should i do ?...

Why is he so inconsiderate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I moved together 3 months ago.I started getting very stressed because he wouldn't clean at all. I told him, we had an argument he got a bit better,but later he keept neglecting everyhting.We had around 3-4 arguments about this, ...

I'm worried about him and my best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - question 1. hi guys. i'm worried. well.. i'm 12 and theres a boy i really like. hes also 12 but a day younger than me. i met him in year 4 or 5 and now i'm in 7. i hav been out with him about 3 times now. i would love to go out with him ag...

Is he interested or afraid of a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I work with great guy thats a single father. I'll call him steve. I have been in a bad marriage for several years. Me and my husband seperated around Christmas time. My company had a Christmas party and my and Steve ended up making out (neither one ...

Will she ever come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Alright so let me explain the situation. My first love, girlfriend of 2 years has been great to me and to be honest she has put up with a lot of my bull. We were great together. In the first week of the relationship i cheated on her with another ...

Am I kidding myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Living in Miami, I was in a 3 year relationship and lived with the girl for 2 years, and got engaged. Everything was pretty good until we got engaged - her idea. She broke it off and while I had been under other pressures and things weren't great ...

Is it okay for my boyfriend to act like he owns me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Well my boyfriend and i have only been together 3 weeks and i've always known he was sort of the possessive type but i think its getting a bit over the top. I used to kind of like it but lately he's just been going to far i think. Like today he hit ...

Ladies, what is it with this "let's still be friends" line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - When I like girl and she plays me for an ego boost I really don't want to talk to her ever again. It's happened before and I simply don't care. In one case it's been 3 years and she still randomly emails me out of the blue in the face of my dead ...

My boyfriend Is mean and acts like he doesn't care but I wana be with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Im 17 and im super sorry this is so long! So I've been with this guy for like 11 months now. Its been really really hard.. For a while he is really sweet and stuff and other times he's just rude and doesn't respect me. He's really stubborn...

I have a hard time being intimate and asking girls out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I have a pretty big problem with intimacy. I'm 24 and have been in 2 relationships - one lasting almost a year and the other 2 whole years. The problem was that during all of that time I felt uncomfortable behaving affectionately towards my ...

How can I get my girlfriend to feel better about herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have a great relationship and are very happy. We live together and share everything together. We are both quite attractive but lately my girlfriend has started gaining weight. It's hardly anything and I don't even care. Thats ...