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writes:Hey Guys,I met up with my ex after a painful break-up (on both sides). She cheated on me whilst overseas, and left me for that person. Anyway we had a nice night together catching up and sharing a laugh. At the end of the night she though she started into this big heart felt apology about what she did to me. There was a bit of crying, hugging and hand holding. I know if I look deep down the feelings are still there for me, but I guess I'm curious to know whether her apology is significant in the same way or may she be just clearing her conscience. Is it normal for a cheating ex to apologize like that?
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reader, DPB +, writes (7 April 2009):
DPB is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to both of you for your input. I wish I knew what she was thinking but I guess one could never know that. I know I still feel something for her, but I am trying not to believe that the same is true for her — to protect myself I guess. Guess I have to wait a SHORT time and see, I'm not going to hold a torch for her forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): honestly I think she might be sincere maybe she needed to go find something else and then realized no you were the one. sick yes but thats the way life goes sometimes. but your the one that has to choose,are you gonna bring that up whenever you guys have a argument?If you think so. not worth it.But also she could do the same thing again when another man walks her way,are you ready to have another broken heart?honestly you need to think about this long and hard do you see yourself with her for the rest of your life?Be honest with yourself
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): I think maybe she is sincere because sometimes people make mistakes and regret making them.... My ex cheated on my 2 times with my "bestfriends" so the first time i forgave him because he sounded sincere but he didt it again and i didnt.... but hey what can we say maybe the girl does feel guilty for hurting you and really wants to let you no she is sorry so give it a chance.....
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