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Dating: Help and advice

Does he still love his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - this is a long one.... okay! when i first meet my current boyfreind we were both dating other people. All 4 of us were mutual friends and hung out a few times. As time went on my relation ship with the old boyfriend ended and a few months l...

Why does he not like giving me oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - This guy I've been seeing is completely uninterested in giving me oral sex!! I give it to him every single time we're together but when I ask him if he'll reciprocate, he says he does a good enough job with his hand and no thanks. What is u...

Do you think he'll come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have just broken up, he has been seeing another woman for a month, I found this out yesterday. We've been together for a year and a half and I feel as though my whole life has come tumbling down. I know who the woman is and ...

26 and never had a boyfriend, it's really getting me down...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hello, my name is Jo and I need some help/advice, I am 26 and have never had a boyfriend (I am a virgin), the thing is I am never really attracted to anyone and the one time I was when we kissed it just I don't now, I ended up pulling away and ...

My boyfriend would rather spend time with his friends than me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend would rather spend time with his friends than me. I don't know why, I know he's not cheating because it's usually at his house with his grandma there and she would never allow that to go on. And when they do go out several of my friends ...

Is it worth continuing with him, in the hope of things ever getting better? Do people change or at forty is he set in his ways?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5493 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - hi, I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years, he has cheated on me once in the past (during our first year together), as far as I know he has not since. In the three years we have been together, I have never met any of his family o...

I want to give a "special treat" to my boyfriend.. Suggestions please??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My bf is amazing and I was wanting to do something a little extra special, something to wow him, whether it's with my body or a good position that feels amazing to guys. I thought about starting with a massage but once it gets to the sex I'm out of ...

Mom's house has a picture of his other woman and lost daughter.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - my man had a daughter with another woman and now they are divorced and the girl is in foster care. It's been 10 years the little girl was being abused but not by her mom. Her mom gave her up for drugs, the woman that was abusing her was her step ...

Its always me contacting him to meet up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - dear cupid i have been seeing a guy for about a month, i like him and we get along well. it started out as a one night stand but we got along great the next day and decided to meet again. the problem is that its always me that contacts him to meet ...

How do I know if its true love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - WHat do i do my Boyfriend always tells me how much he loves me and people always says he means it but how exactelly do i know its TRUE love i mean he does spent alot of time with me and is really protective and treats me like his girlfriend but i ...

How do I prove that I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Okay Now me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and i told him i love him but he wants me to prove it to him how do i do that??? i mean i do love him cuz i broke up with my Exboyfriend and went out with him but HOW do i prove that i love ...

Ladies: Turn ons & turn offs

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

17 April 2009 (?) - Ladies let's help our DC brothers out! We sometimes have sincere and genuine questions about what women think. Post here your number one turn-on and number one turn-off you have about a man. If yours is already mentioned, go to your next one. ...

Married man..do I hang around to see if he'll leave his wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this married man for over a year, He and his wife have been seperated but living under the same roof because of their young children. Sam wants to move in together and start a life together. I see him every day of the week. My ...

Should I ask the 12th grader out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5493 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - hi i'm in high school i'm 17 years old . i like this guy at my school who is in 12 grade i'm in 11 grade do you think i should as him out ? and i have been with a guy or two and everyone is mad that i keep talking to their man but if i don't talk to ...

How can I have more luck with meeting women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Hi. Having asked a question recently, it's comforting to know that people feel the same as I do, in that there are others out there who simply hate single life. That's left me to ask, what might people like us be doing wrong? I wish I knew what...

I just want to feel beautiful and I don't!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Please don't call me shallow or vain. I feel very ugly and unattractive. The problem is I was never told I was beautiful, I was even teased because I was ugly! One guy eve told me to get plastic surgery once! This was back when I was in school. I ...

How can I help my negative partner....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with someone for two years and am seriously wondering how much longer I can continue or even if I should. The issue here is that my partner is VERY negative and judgmental of most things from sun-up to sun-down. If she i...

Am I a trophy to my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Well you know there are times when you want your boyfriend to like you for what you are and not for who you are.. the same with me I am 20 and my boyfriend is 21 and we were really attracted to each other from day 1 and we still are.. so basicall...

Has something similar to this ever happened to anyone you know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I've just moved house a few days ago to a town twenty odd miles away from my boyfriend and I hadn't yet told him where I'm living, as we had a physical fight a couple of weeks ago and I'm thinking of leaving him. Anyway, last night he rang me and ...

I have my whole life ahead of me but don't know if I could kill my child... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hello. My name is Anna and I am 17 years of age. I have just found out that I am pregnant after being fourced to sleep with my boyfriend. I have not told anyone as I know they will be judgemental. I am only 17 and have got my whole life ahead of me ...

Emotionally immature and sexually confused!

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17 April 2009 (F) - It’s been a couple of years, but the same issues are popping up again. I guess I would just like to know if anyone else is a emotionally immature/sexually confused 23 year old? The last girl I dated I broke up because she wanted more than ‘frien...

How do I make him come running back to me?

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17 April 2009 (F) - Basically a guy I've been sort of seeing in an offical way, we never see each other enough though we just speak online and texting. I sent him a text telling him we either start something or leave it and he didn't reply. So he obviously isn't that ...

He keeps calling me his ex wife's name by mistake... and it hurts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and have been dating for 11 months now. He has been sweet and all those things good and bad, yet it's all good. A few times he has called me by his ex-wife's name. He done it once or twice... The problem came in when this afternoon we ...

My partner's children say they never want to meet me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - 6 years ago I met my partner in work and he was married for over 15 years with 2 children. Wrong I know! We fell in love and 5 months later he left his family and moved in with me. 5 months later he went back, but left again after 2 weeks. She ...

I want to ask him out but afraid he'd say no. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Well i think this lad may like me, we have known each other for about 2 years, he was always trying to sit next to me, hes always smirking at me, i get some dirty texts but he says its his mates, we can stay on the phone for 3 hours when i go to bed ...

I fell for my best friend, but how do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - I fell for this girl and she is my best, most-trusted friend and i want to tell her but don't want to ruin the friendship. it gets more complicated because we are going to be joining the army together and she'll be in the same unit as me. my other ...

We make out then he ignores me afterwards...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - The other night me and my boyfriend got pretty intimate, not sex or anything, but we came close. The thing is, he hasn't contacted me or answered my calls since. I think he's avoiding me and I'm upset because that's the most I've ever done with a ...

Does he feel the same or is he just using me for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I am in love with a guy that i have know for years. We are not bf and gf but we have had sex on many occasions. He was my first (as in i lost my virginity to him) and he has been my first for many things. (First guy to cook me dinner, first guy i ...

Should I ask him to marry me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hiya, I've been thinking about asking my bf of 5 months to marry me... I'm very confused, i am 24 and have been with my new (29 yr old) boyfriend for 5 months. We are very close and very much in love and moved in with each other very shortly ...

Should I let my feelings for her remain a secret, at least for now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - I have had a best friend for 10 years, and known his girlfriend for around 6 years. I have always been incredibly attracted to his girlfriend but have never done anything to make a move or compromise their relationship. For example, if I feel I ...

My boyfriend is confusing the hell out of me about sex and I don't know what to do...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Ok, I need some serious advice from the guys out there, how would you want your gf/wife to handle this situation with you?? My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now, and up until recently he's had a drinking problem and the only...

Out of my league....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - hey everyone i like this girl but i think that she is out of my league. We hooked-up(kissed) at a party about 3 months ago and some of her friends gave her shit for doing it. We talk like once a week texting each other, but i need to know what to d...

Rules seem to be different at my age and I don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I am 53 years old, very active and vibrant 53 year old, have been divorced for 4 years, have not had a sexual relationship since then. I have met a very nice man and we have only had one date. We hit it off so great! and we did kiss passionately. ...

I think I'm pregnant yet we're not supposed to be around each other.

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17 April 2009 (F) - Now i'm 16 and his 20. I have no clue what to do i think i'm pregnant by him which cause a problem cuz we're not suppose to be around each other. that's my mother's doing....

Too perfect... what to do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hello dear cupid, my problem may sound really weird but it matters to me a lot. My boyfriend is a very perfect guy, he knows everything, really calculative about everything. He is mature, understanding, loving and caring. We both love each o...

Will he come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I've made out with a guy who is 11 years older than me. He was my graduate student instructor last year but we started hanging out this year in March. in Fed, he met me again and talked to me and also asked for my #. One week later, he asked ...

I can't make any sense of a relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Ok, so I took a job in Dubai. I met an Asian girl during my 1st month there. We had a date, but then lost contact, then bumped into each other again. I have a problem with girls, I often get like anxious. I talk to lots of girls and take lots of ...

I want to love him but I'm scared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I have a problem but at the moment I don't know what to do. I'm a 21 year old female and I'm depressed, I was born with a rare craniofacial disease called cruzouns syndrome, I excel at most things in life work, friends etc, but when it comes to ...

Lost in space...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Background: Our relationship was born out of a triangle and sadly had a turbulent birth. There were months of tension and passion. She is a professional and this last year and a half I believe we have had it good. We don't live together, we are a ...

My boyfriend kissed two girls. Is he at fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - right i have a question guys. If you have a boyfriend who likes to make friends with any one. Would you class this as he's fault. We been together over 2 and half years. And two times he has made friends with two different girls and they both kiss...

It's all so confusing for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - I have posted on here before about a friendship I have had with this girl and we were friends for almost a year and had some good times together. She has had a permanent partner since I have known her but she has cheated on him more than once and ...

Is that a sign of interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, im 20 years young and i've not had a boyfriend in a long time!!! i've like guys don't get me wrong but things never pan out and i don't deserve that to be honest i'm a nice enough girl but i always meet the wrong guys!! so anyways i b...

Is this fixable? Should I give it another try? Should I let it go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I am 23 years old with a 10 month old son. Abit of a long story//sorry! Please Help ME!! I met this guy who was 13 yrs older than me when I was 17 years old. He convinced me to go out with him, keeping it secret from both our families, until I ...

How can I reign in my emotions after being lied to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I posted a question on here recently dealing with trust issues I have been having with my boyfriend of four years. I've gone back and forth thinking that it would be easier to just end it, but have decided to just give it time and try with all my ...

She says she loves me, but has no time for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Hi I have been facing a peculiar problem. She is my office colleague. We started dating about 10 months back. However, during this period, we could not spend more than 20 hours so far. Every time I ask her out she seems to have an engagement. ...

Am I being selfish wanting my cake and to eat it to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I'm 21 and he's 27. I will be graduating from college next month and my boyfriend revealed to me that he wanted to take me on a special trip to celebrate my graduation the day after my graduation. However, I told him that I would love to go but that...

Why do I still love him and want him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hey guys.Here's my question:I lived next door to this one girl and she had a boyfriend who used to talk to me.Then the girl moved and I never saw them again. Well,I was 9 at the time.It's been 5-6 years later and I finally found her boyfriend agai...

Go with the flow or time to talk about it now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I've been casually dating this guy for about eight months. We have not been exclusive. I'm going thru a divorce and he had just broken up with his girlfriend when we first started hanging out. We have talked almost everyday since the beginning, ...

My head says no but my heart says yes, should I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - 5 months ago i discovered my boyfriend of 4 years was cheating on me, found a text saying 'come over so we can finally be alone' and believed that they did have sexual relations but merely emotional cheating at that time. Inevitably it was over ...

How can I make my Mom trust my boyfriend/best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (?) - Hello! My mom doesn't like my boyfriend at all. She doesn't trust him. He broke up with me once for a day and I was shattered, but even before that, my mom never liked him, back when he was just my best friend. Any tips on how I can make her see...

Is This a Casual or not so Casual relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I have been sing this man for 5 months and he has been wonderful to me and we are very sexually active with each other. He wants to stay casual, but I know he really cares about me because I have been going through personal issures such as a divo...

I lost her, Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Well first thing we had what you would call an ideal relationship. We were talking about getting married and having kids. It was perfect. But one day she broke up with me because she said "Do you think we were better as friends" I said no i don'...

Is my man just using me for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - i am dating a guy much older then me for 7 months now, but it s not a normal relationship, he lets me see him once maybe twice a month...and it s mostly sex, he is divorced, lives alone, and i believe doesn t want anything serious, but i feel he ...

Is it wrong for me to fake my own death to see if she still loves me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Well basically my ex havn't been going out for ages, but I'm going out for her best mate (2 months) and she's always trying to get her to dump me but the girl i'm with doesn't want to dump me so i'm thinking. Is it wrong to fake my own death to prov...

His family likes me, but I don't get why he doesn't (like me)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - i'm fifteen. and i lost my virginity to this amazing guy. we were together a few months after i actually had sex with him for the first time. we didn't do it all the time. we've probably only done it 10-15 times. but about a month ago, he dump...

Should or or should I not, travel with him this summer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (?) - Ok, I know I may sound superficial, but in my culture, IMAGE is all that matters for a woman; the way she dresses, she talks, her actions and who she goes out with. I would like you to bare this in mind. My reputation is very important for so...

In Love and Uncertain

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My question: I'm single mom of 8 year old boy. He is also a fulltime single parent of a 14yr old daughter, and he picks his 9 year old boy (of another relationship) every weekend from out of state. It's been over a year. Most everything betw...

I'm a bisexual girl but don't know how to flirt with girls yet. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Well i'm bisexual but pretty inexperienced when it comes to meeting, reading and dating girls still, i've only had 1 girlfriend which didn't turn out so well since there was no real connection in the end and i wasn't really attracted to her just ...

Give him a class ring?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend (14) and I (17) have been together for about two weeks short of six months. Despite our age difference, we have a GREAT relationship. We never fight, and we're always totally there for each other. The half-year mark i...

Want to spend the night with boyfriend, what will happen if I leave my car in a parking lot..will it be towed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I want to spend the night with my bf, but I don't want any of my family members seeing my car at his house. Would wal-mart or another place of business such as walgreens tow my car if I leave it parked overnight? And I am using protection...

Should I have done this? What are your views?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I've fallen in love with this guy, A. We were seeing each other for two months and then broke up but we hadn't talked through it properly or cleared the air between us, he just seemed like he didn't want to know although he did say he still loved me ...

Where are the guys my own age???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm mentally mature for my age. I'm not conceited, yet I do know that I'm very attractive physically and my personality is a good one. Lately though it seems that I can't attract or meet any new guys, one's that are ...