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Dating: Help and advice

We're getting married in 3 weeks time! Is he always going to be a liar?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - OK... I have been dating the same guy for 4 years. He use to always look at porn, I asked him to stop because it hurts me and he promised he would. I caught him doing it again! He then put a ring on my fingure and promised again he would not look at ...

He seems to be less and less interested in having sex with me because I am so hard to please...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I am having a problem with my sex life. I'm in a long distance relationship with a man I adore. I've been with him almost a year now and he means the world to me. We see each other half a year, I'm at Uni. The problem is when we are together I want ...

Is my boyfriend cheating/losing interest/ or generally just busy with work.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - I don't know, I have quite a weird feeling that things are not going well with my boyfriend. We've been together just over four months. Firstly, he's always at work and is always so tired when he gets back that we can't really do anything (he is a ...

Is my boyfriend normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over 5 months. He gets really annoyed if I text or email any of my friends that are boys. I have promised and reassured him many times that I would never ever cheat on him but he always answers with 'I ...

How can I make him understand that being this unfair with me won't lead us anywhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I hate the Internet, I hate this! But I love him... Turns out me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years. Sadly, we live in a small town so everybody knows everybody. The thing is, before I met him, I had a blog, I had a crush on t...

My boyfriends stares at other women constantly.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend stares at other woment constantly. He makes sure they know he is looking my making obvious suggestive eye contact with them. I am hurt and embarrased by his behavior. I have told him how I feel and he promised to do better. That ...

Should I compromise? My boyfriend is still friends with his ex girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend, Aaron, and I have been friends for many many years and finally fell in love and moved in together in September. Things are great. My problem is his ex, Cynthia: he was with her for 5 months and left her because he was NOT in love. ...

Please help me! Is he gay?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a few years and we're supposed to get married later this year. The problem is I found out that he's been looking at gay porn on the internet. He does watch some straight porn but I seen a lot of gay. I asked him and ...

I find it difficult to make conversation with my boyfriend of 3 months. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months are great, there's just one problem, I have a problem with talking to him. It's not that I'm scared to talk, it's just that I find it hard. I can see it's starting to annoy him now and I just don't know what to do. ...

Because we live 50 miles apart I only see him weekends but he never seems to want sex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - HELP!! I'm a 31 year old woman driving myself MAD!! I've been with my fella for 8 months now and we live 50 miles apart so see each other most weekends... my sex drive is way high and all I want to do is *well-you know* when we get time together, ...

How can I open up to my mum more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I'm not a very open person about anything really, I like to keep things to myself and that's the way I've always been. I'm close with my family, but not "close-close" I can't tell my mum anything, and I don't feel right talking about a lot with her; ...

Paranoid, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - I have lost a lot of people in my life and got back from the army a few years ago. I met the love of my life a few months later. I will admit a little paranoia and a little insecurity.I am trying to work on myself because I know she won't cheat on ...

She'll only respond in text

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - I've been dating this girl for the past year. everything was great till something happened with her family. for a month i've tried to talk to her but she'll only respond in text. she's depressed about her family life and shut herself off from me. ...

I'm having troublem working things out with her, because of her ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - Here is my problem, there is this girl i was seeing and really care about and want to be with, because it is the happiest i have been in my life. She has told me the same thing about her life. She recently broke up with her boyfriend about 2 months...

Should I work things out with my "Old ex" or "New ex"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I am really confused. I am a single mom of 3 beautiful children, their father refuses to be in their lives, and I feel bad about dating because they do not need to see their mom go in and out of relationships. I dated a guy almost a year ago, we ...

I cant get over that he cheated on me with the ex

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20 April 2009 (F) - hey guys i recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex girlfriend 2 months into our relationship.. i didnt find out for 5 months and then out of the blue his ex girlfriend phoned me after obtaining my number from a mutal friend... ...

Bad girl, dating, tatoos and navel rings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - I know this cute girl from work. We have flirted some. She is that bad girl type. When she puts things in upper places in the office I have noticed that she has a navel ring. When she bent over I have seen a glimpse of a tattoo on her right breast. ...

I'm shy! Should I text him about going out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I asked something about this earlier, but it was before I had an account. So here's the thing. I met someone about a month ago, but didn't think I would ever see him again. Then, last week I bumped into him. We hung out for a while, as friends, but ...

I don't want to be just a booty call!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I need some urgent advice. This is quite long and I appreciate you taking the time to read. I am a 24 year old female and there is a guy I work with whom we have always flirted with each other, he is always very suggestive, we have kissed once,...

How do I know if he REALLY means what he says this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for about 5 years, I thought something was wrong with him but since he was going to Iraq for the 2nd time I thought he was stressing over that. Well he left for about 6 months and when he came back he was making a lot ...

Too much discharge!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - Looking for advice from fellow girls here. Since starting my period, every day I get a lot of discharge. I realise that it's normal to get a certain amount as it's the bodys way of "cleaning", but I get quite a bit and it's embarrassing, and has ...

Am I over reacting and have I a right to set those boundaries?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I am a 36 year old mother of three, that has been divorced for almost 2 years. I have been in a relationship with a 28 year old for the past 10 months. I was married for 12 years so it has been very challeging to going back into the dating scene. My ...

What should I do to motivate a proposal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - Hello I'm 29 years old and my partner is 50, we have been shacking up for 2.5 years outside of the few times I kicked him out. We are both attractive and it is not a sugar daddy realtionship I love him deeply and do not want another relationship. We ...

Is she a total slut? Or just desperate for attention?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - So I've been seeing this girl recently who I really like and who really like me back. We are in a semi-serious relationship in which we are pretty devoted to eachother but not entirely yet. I'm finding out increasingly that we may not be the best ...

How do I know when he is ready to kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - ive been seeing a guy for about 2 months now, he is 23 im 18 and he has recently came out of a long term relationship, we are both fully interested but how do i get about knowing if he is ready to kiss me?...

Do on again off again relationships ever work in the end?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I am in a kind of weird situation and was hoping for some feedback. The big question I am dealing with is the issue of "on again off again" relationships. For the past several months I have been seeing a neighbor, but he recent...

Too much? Or am I not understanding men properly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - (Figured out how to ask questions finally) Ok situation goes: I'm in a realtionship with a really great guy. Very work focused mind, but i understand him and why. But we posed a problem the other day, where i was telling him i loved him, and i a...

In a relationship but with feelings for another

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - Obviously this isn't a strange situation. I bet it's a common situation, but it feels strange for me. I've only ever been in 3 relationships, all of which got close to exceed the two year mark. I generally avoid flings, one-night stands, and the ...

So in love why do I feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - hey people short and quick i am in love wit my boyfriend who we havent been going out for that long but we were talkin for a long time. ive had plenty or girlfriends and boyfriends in the past but none of them made me feel as good as he does... but ...

What will I do without her in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - I am a 22 year old boy and I was in love of a girl. She proposed to me last year she told me that she loves me, I liked her too so I accepted her proposal. After 2 years of close relationship she is telling me that she doesn't want it any more. I ...

I live with my boyfriend and every single day I cry!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I live with my boyfriend who I have been with for a year now and every single day I cry. He makes me feel so lonely and unwanted. He never wants to spend any time with me at all, he's always busy on the computer or with his mates and he reckons ...

One and a half year, and he still has not proposed to marry me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i been in relationship wd my bf for one year an a half but he hasnt proposed to marry me yet... he says he loves me and serious about me but he hasnt proposed yet...i tried opening the subject to him...he said to keep things ...

Mistakes were made when I was drunk. Now I am confused. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - at a party around christmas time last year i hooked up with this guy who is in the group of people that go to the same parties as i do and during that summer we were together and all was well. one night he was having a boys night and my friend had ...

I have never had an orgasm, now he won't touch me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 8 years now. I never have had an orgasm through intercourse. I always faked it. Well, I felt that maybe if I came clean he would work on this with me, but now he doesnt even want to touch me, he says I pretty ...

If she is engaged, why did she initiate the date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - hey there, yesterday i was busted more than ever... i had a date with the woman whom i have known for a month....we had a nice talk, i found that she almost makes up my dream girl,our interests almost match, i told her she is amazing and she also...

Is his "number" too high?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend recently told me that he has been with 7 girls and he lost his virginity at 17. He is 23 and I am almost 20 and have only been with 2 people in my life. I know he is telling the truth because I overheard him telling his guy frie...

Should I try to go back with her? Or just move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - This is going to be really difficult to explain to me, but hopefully people will get something out of it. So I was in a great relationship, my first serious girlfriend. We met in my college sophomore year, were together for several months, ...

Advice on prenup agreement please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - My boyriend and I have been dating for 1 year, I am only 19 and he is nearly turning 20 and we currently have been living together for 4 months. Today he began telling me that he was getting a big pay out from an insurance claim he has from bein...

I am attracted to my ex's Mom!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - I am 18. My relationship with my girlfriend ended with her leaving me. She said that we could remain friends. This happened over a month ago. My ex-girlfriend and I have remained friends. She has a new boyfriend and she seems happy. I am happy ...

How to tell if someone is interested or if just as FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I'm a separated female, went on a few dates over 5 months with a man that is separated. Slept with him 2nd date. How to tell if interested or if just interested in friends with benefits?...

Is it normal to want a ring after 5 years and a child together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I need some advice. I'm kinda in a state of confusion, I already no what I should do, I just need to hear from someone else. In May my boyfriend and I will be together for 5 years, we have a 3 1/2 year old little boy. I don't want to get maried righ...

We fight a lot lately, so how do we get this resolved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - My bf and I are in a long distance relationship; and I am planning to move in by the middle of May. The problem is that we've been fighting for a lot of time now. We fight, we reconcile, then we fight again. Our fight is about anything, we seem ...

Why did my guy I met on online dating site drastically lower the communication?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I met a guy from an online dating site. We talked for one month through email and kind of went on dates for a month. They went really well and things seemed promising until I met his best friend and sister and I didn't get along with the best ...

Sometimes comments on our age difference weighs me down, so how should I overcome this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I am in a great relationship with a guy 20 years older. We are both legal adults. Most people around when we are on a date treat us like they would anyone else. Usually once or twice per date we get a rude stare or worse. Once when we were toge...

Keep the spark going!

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20 April 2009 (F) - A tip for everyone out there, you should always try new things and experiment. whether it makes love making and sex more exiting, try new positions, toys, lubes, dress up what ever tickles your fancy really, but never be embarressed, if you are; ...

How can I have a borderline superficial conversation to get a woman's interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - Hello, I have a question that probably doesn't have any simple answer but I just was wondering what people might have to say. I tend to be able to have good long conversations about significant things or even things that aren't necessarily too impo...

I know he doesn't like me but I want him to

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - ok so heres the deal.. i really really like this one dude.. and i know he doesnt like me.. so my question is how do i get him to like me? and i am too nervous and scared to go up to him and talk to him.. so wat should i do?? .....

Help! Would you say we are together again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three and a half years and for the past year and a half I've felt that we were ready to get engaged and begin the next step in our lives together. He however, wasn't so sure. Fast forward to now and we moved ...

Would you say we are together again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I just want some opinions on my current situation. I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months. We hit it off instantly. About a month ago, he breaks up with me because he wanted to focus on himself and his work. He was very stressed and ...

I have bruises from where he thumped me!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - A few days ago I threw my boyfriend his phone and I haven't got a really good aim and it sort of hit him in the side of the face, not hard, and I apologised and said something like 'eek sorry you know I'm crap at aiming' and he grabbed me and ...

Should I feel sparks at the beginning?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (?) - I met this man a week ago. He is definitely a gentleman, the kind of man I'm not used to. I always fell for the bad boys which has always been disasters. I enjoy being with him, but I find myself wishing I was with the last man I was ...

Do I wait for him to contact me or do I call him to arrange something?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I went out with this guy on Friday night and we got along really well, the date went on for 5 hours (no kiss at the end, just a hug - I wasn't too comfortable just yet). At the end he asked me on a second date for Saturday night but I already had ...

Help! Three is a crowd!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I want to stay all night with my bf and I know he wants it too but his cousin lives with him, how can I get him to tell him to leave and stay with a friend? He is also afraid that my family will catch us but I know that they won't....

I just need some honest opinions on age differences.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I just need some honest opinions on age differences. What would you think of a 17 year old girl going out with a 29 year old guy? Right/wrong/doesn't matter? I need some insight to this, thank you....

I have kept pure for my wife, but many girls do not.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - Hi readers, I am such a boy that I never touched any girl romantically in my life though I have a desire to have sex from my teenage. Because, I will respect culture still in this fast culture. So, I am expecting such a girl she should be perfect ...

Help me with this love adventure...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - My ex.... well I loved him soooo much and he said he loved me but this girl came in the picture.... okay I thought she was my best friend... well she told him that she loved him soooo he dumped me and he said it was because I flirted with other guys ...