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Dating: Help and advice

Irish spice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - Hi Me and my girlfriend have been together around 3 years now. We met in Spain while she was studying and I was working. At the time I was earning really good money, the best I have ever earned and she was earning nothing just money from her m...

Troubled relationships...

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26 April 2009 (M) - I'm having trouble with my relationship. we hopped into a love relationship but are laking the friendship. she thinks friends and lovers are not the same. We both have abandonment issues and improper upbringing....(bad parents)....I really need ...

How can I maintain a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - I'm kinda frigid with girls. I've had 2 relationships so far, and they have both been awkward. Can anyone give me any help please, as I'm kind of getting sick of my relationships fucking up after a week or to. How can I maintain it. Aunts please h...

How do I stay true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - ther is this guy he is.. wel he was my boyfriend. we dated for 5mounts an3 weeks.. we can call him boo wel see we are the type of people we have lost of friends of the oppisite sex and we both get flirted with alot but the thing is that boo dont ...

This guy sent me a text message saying he wants me. Should I confront him next time or leave it as it is?

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26 April 2009 (F) - This guy is a player...I met as a customer who helped me close a deal. He has a GF and he's GI also. I know he doesn't like me and although he's cute, he's not my type. He went out w/ some buddies and I got a message last night from his cell sa...

Is it my personality they are attracted to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - hello all, well i will have to explain first before my quesiton so please follow :), okay im 18 guys with normal face and a nice body (178 cm,75kg). there are many girls in school who are attracted to me and not to anyone of my group or...

I feel our relationship is going down hill because he always has his daughter.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - hey just need some advice. ive been with my boyfriend/fiancee for 2 yrs know. at the beginning of the relationship everything was perfect i loved being around him there as nothing i was to complain about,the only thing was his daughter he has a know ...

STD tests.

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26 April 2009 (F) - I just found out my bf never got tested for STD's, so i told him he has to - since we are a little -active- and we are going together, i have no idea how these tests go or how it is done i mean do they take blood ! or just examination or what !! and ...

Help! I'm in a no win situation...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my lad for 10 monthish. I left a guy(x) I was happy with to go out with this guy (y)because my mum convinced me that he would be better for me. (x)his imperfections but i didn't want to end it. she didn't like him but i gave it a ...

I want to ask a guy out but I'm afraid

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - Okay i really like this guy, his name is Eric and well i like him but i think he likes some one else and well... i want to ask him out and i scared in case he says no and im also scared in case he does like some one else....

Broke up four years ago, text all the time. Does he still like me?

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26 April 2009 (F) - Hi ok so I have an ex who I have been friendly with since we broke up 4 years ago we are practically always in contact at least once a week/fortnight but in November he had a baby with his girlfriend ...

Is there actually any clues to what a guy will be like 2 weeks into the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I haven't been out with loads of guys. But all the guys I have been out with were total idiots. But they were all like really nice and sweet when they first asked me out. This is why I would go out with them, but then they would turn out to be ...

My family is against our relationship.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 years old. I have a bf, he is 12. Some people think that it's wrong because I'm 4 years older, but I don't care because we love each other very much but the problem is that my whole family don't like him, so I can't come home to him and ...

I'm so attached to him... should I break it off or tough it out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year now. Just to make things clear, I'm 15 and he's 20 (Yes, I know this is illegal). We met online and eventually met up in person. I currently live on the east coast, and he lives on the west ...

Do I go home and live my life without him or stay with him and be unhappy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Hey guys, i have an issue that has been bothering me for some time and i dont know what to do and how to deal with it. The problem i have is i have been with my boyfriend for about a year now and at first everything was ok, a bit hard because of my ...

I feel he's getting too friendly with this girl...

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26 April 2009 (F) - Okay I'm new at this so I dont really know how to write what I want to so I'm just going to give it a go. In November my boyfriend of two years left to go travelling around the world for a few months and he will now be back in four weeks. I didnt go ...

Mental illness/trust issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I am looking for advice on what to do about a relationship which seems to have become very complicated due to mental illness/trust issues. The main thing is that I love him a lot and it would have been 8 years together this year and to me it see...

Men!!! Strange creatures!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Why wud a guy u been seein 5 wks suddenly change and go off with sum1 else out of the blue and then constantly watch for ur reaction all the evening? And be jealous if someone even as much talks 2 u? ...

Started dating my ex gf's friend but now she wants me back! I want heer back too,, Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - Hi. Please help! I'm 21 years old and in a relationship which is seemingly going no-where. It all started 4 years ago when i dated a girl, who i was madly in love with. I lost my virginity to her and everything seemed perfect. Then one day, ou...

Air keeps going in and out of my vagina! My bf doesn'y mind but I'm so embarrased by it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Hi again, please help me I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years . We enjoy making love we do it almost everyday. But recently I started to notice that when we makelove there is air coming in and out of my vigina. It is so embarrasing as ...

He's my first boyfriend, and I don't know how far I want to go

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I just started dating, and I've been dating this boy for a little over a month, we broke up briefly but now we are together and happy. Its always been a huge goal of mine to wait until i graduate to have sex, but other things are okay...i think. i...

Playing games with my heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i hav a problem with my ex. We were together for 6yrs and we have a child together. Our relationship was a bit rocky towards the end but i never thought ov being without him tho he thought differently. He started going out a lot and staying ...

Why does my crush's friend act this way around me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I've had a crush on this guy all year. I've never told anyone and I'm to shy to try and drop hints. He has this friend that I don't even know. Whenever I walk past him in the hallway he will look at me and he watches me walk down the hallway. If I'm ...

What is this guy's deal and should I respond?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I'll make this quick. I was seeing this guy from October last year to middle of January this year. Then we kind of just stopped talking. In February he attempted to contact me via phone but I let it go to voicemail. I texted him later, he text me ...

My boyfriend is not allowed to see my kids! I think this is so unfair.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - my ex boyfriend and i have 2 kids together however i have a new boyfriend and its court ordered that my new boyfriend not have contact with our two kids i want to know how he can dictate this and also why he has a new girlfriend and baby and shes ...

Does this guy want my girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - I'm the jealous type and my girl has a close freind who is a male, its not that i dont trust her i want to know what the hell they be talking about, and it seems like ever since me and her has been together ive seen his name all over her "AIM" icon, ...

I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her (overweight).

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her(overweight). She loves me so much and she will do almost anything to make me happy. She has even offered to let me bring over an escort once a week. I do ...

My girlfriend's best buddy is the guy she lost her virginity to?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend, who is 25, and I are in a serious relationship. My problem is that out of her two best friends, one is her ex boyfriend. On top of that, it's the guy she lost her virginity to when she was 20. They dated about a year, and then a year ...

Should I really have my phone attached to my hip and check it every five minutes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - My bf is very impatient and has a short temper. I'd also like to mention he has never been abusive to me physically, mentally, or emotionally the past three years we've been together. I wish I could say the same for inanimate object. But... he...

Multiple orgasms

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Ok, odd question here. For the last month or so I have been having multiple orgasms a lot closer together than before. I would always have more than one every time we would make love, but as I said for the last month or so, I have been having ...

I'm feeling so so guilty, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Hi, im in a little strife lol. in a nutshell... I recently confessed to my longtime bf i pecked another guy on the lips (i was drunk, i thought he was gay based on what a friend a while ago had said turns out he's not, he's not my friend anymore we ...