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writes:Mod note: This is a follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-16-dating-a-20-year-old-with.htmlHi, I previously wrote about me dating a 20 year old with a baby boy but I forgot one very important detail - she's married and he knows but he doesn't know what I look like and she wants to get a divorce and when I turn 18 we're gonna get married. The problem is her husband and her grandfather are going to try to fight it in court, I don't know what to do, I'm totally freaking out and she's going into the army and she's gonna be gone for 5 1/2 month's then she's gonna try and get the divorce, then we're gonna move in with each other. Once again I ask for your help, thank you all for taking the time to read my post and make sure to send me your feedback and if you like what I write add me as a contact. Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): I would say it's different if he told her to go, they say, 'you should let go of the thing you love most, if it comes back to you, you know it is yours' you sound pretty mature for your age and know what you want, so go for it, talk to parents about it first though.... To be honest i'm seeing a devorced man which was married for 2 years, his ex wife broke his heart so badly it even hurts me. His 12 years older then me. So i guess i'm just preaching to the choir. Good luck hope everything goes well for you.... Xxx
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reader, the vampire lestat +, writes (10 April 2009):
the vampire lestat is verified as being by the original poster of the question i mean but if her husband straight up to;d her she can go and look 4 another guy yet she did not do that and yet she found me that's not breaking the vows she made and plus he's cheating on her with her ex so its only fair right i mean i got my head straight i know what i want i know she's risking a lot but she told me if she didn't love and care for me she wouldn't be risking it all for our relationship and plus she don't look 20 she look like she's 17 tops?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): dude, i think your crazy.... I see you seem to like the girl and all that yet she is married and she has a child, think of the baby here, this has nothing to do with you or her but the child... Marriage is a big thing and thats why it needs to be planned properly. Give it two more years before you try anything, its not easy letting of something, not like that. I personally think you are making a mistake
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