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It's Painful During Sex..Why? Please Help!

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Question - (7 April 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *elshlass86 writes:

Im in a relationship with a 50 year old man. I am 22. My Parents do not approve of the relationship, but his family are lovely towards me. We have been together for 5 years now and lived together for 3 years.

The first year we lived together we were very close and the sex was great..we had it often (Every Night). The past two years i have been studying at University to make something of myself. He has his home in wales. Im studying in England. I travel back every fortnight for the weekend to see him.

However, now the sex is not often (even when im home for the summer/winter holidays), I'm not horny towards him, but he is still towards me, when we do have sex it hurts me and feels uncomfortable during penetration.

He thinks im cheating on him at Uni, but i am definitely not, because i dont feel attracted to anyone else, but i should be because im young, right??! I even dont like him touching my breasts either during sex. I used to be really adventurous in bed, now im really not interested.

Have I lost interest in him?

Being round people my own age at uni, has this turned me against him? Because i still feel i love him and attracted to him, but ashamed of him..

Why does it hurt during sex? And why dont i like him touching my breasts?

When im at Uni, im really happy to go for weeks..even months without sex with my partner, or pleasuring myself when im not with him.

Whats wrong with me?

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