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Archived questions from: 24 April, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What should I do next to my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - hey I am 13. Well, u see i have this girlfriend and i've kissed her, held her hand, ect. I was wondering what i should do next without seeming like a pervert. I really love her and don't want to lose her. She has touched a place in my heart I di...

I'm a disaster when it comes to relationships

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Hi! I need some help to figure out my feelings. I'm a disaster when it comes to relationships. I like some guy and then I always end up dating him seriously without really falling in love with him...So, yeah, my relationships have all b...

How can I make him really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Heyy .. im gunna make this short because i feel stupid asking random people i dont know for help! I must be desperate! :P Well i like this boy, iv been out with him before but with a few mates too but he phones me everyday when he can in work and...

Reminded of the other guy when I'm with a new guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - OK so i have a boyfriend we hav been going out for about 4weeks we've hugged and held hands but not kissed, when I started going out with him I really liked him and I still do but there's a complication. Last week I was at the park with 2 mate...

Is he an idiot? Or messing about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Hey guys, So my friend made me talk to this guy who lives about 6 hours away. Hes becoming a teacher jsut like me. We have been talking online this whole week. Hes def cool, i think he's a typical guy: zombies, aliens, video games, fighting,...

Most women want what they can't have, is that true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - Hi I'm a 28 Y.O man and I've noticed ( and a lot of men notice it too) when I'm in a relationship, some women wanna come and talk to you, even flirt, I see their eyes and they're stripping me naked. When I'm single, I have a hard time for them to...

I'm a man and I get really wet. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - Before I start, apologies if this question has already been asked, but I couldn't find it. I've recently turned 20 and I'm not a very sexually active person. I've only ever had sex once, when I was a lot younger, so I didn't really think abo...

He likes me on top...but how do I get him to do me in other positions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - During sex, my boyfriend seems to like it when I'm on top when we have sex. But I'd like to try other positions too, and I want him to shag my brains out. I don't feel like doing all the work. How can I get him to do me in other positions as well?...

He is addicted to drugs but I still fancy him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Hello, I have posted a similar question asking for advice but this is what has been happening lately. Please feel free to read and tell me what your honest advice is because I am stuck and soon I don’t know what to do. Thank you. How...

No model but not that bad looking either....where am I going wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I need some advice, as I don't know where I am going wrong. I am 24 (Female) and I can't ever seem to get a boyfriend, I work with a mix of males and females, mostly males, and a lot of them comment on my looks, but no one ever asks me out. ...

I like my son's former teacher! Should I ask this guy out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I am getting divorced and young! 42 actually, free and single. I have for the last six months liked my son's form teacher who is 44. I have chatted to him and on quite a few occasions talked to him about personal, his extended family , his life ...

Not giving up the "goods" too soon - does this still apply in mid-life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - This may seem like a strange question, but, curiosity has the best of me. Studies have shown that at certain points in our life, sexual desires are higher than others for both men and women. However, studies have also shown that men appear to want ...

Please help me undertand this boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - hello, ok well i really like this lad at my school. its a long story but cut short, i used to fancy him and asked him out but he said no because he wasnt ready so i left it and decided just to be friends and now we have come back from our easter ...

He said he was "flat out"..why are guys so confusing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I liked this guy not long ago and i finally told him, i couldnt believe how rude he was with the response " im flat out" its not like i said i wanna be with you. I just said you might know this already or you might not but im gonna tell u I like ...

"Boys don't work like that!!!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I spend a lot of time snuggling and we haven't seen each other for the last week so I asked him if he was missing our cuddles and he said boys don't work like that. Is that right or am I overthinking things and being worried for no ...

Is he protecting his wallet in fear she will take all he has or does he not want her to find out about us again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Here it goes: I met a man with whom I worked with. We both started having feelings for each other. He was married. We went to a friend's house one nite after work and kissed... that's it. He goes home that night and tells his wife that he's having ...

Relationship truth opens up world of upset.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - This problem is so hard for me right now, but it doesn't just effect myself. I have been with my partner for nearly 5 years, engadged for 1.25 years and love her so very much. It is a long distance relationship that goes from UK to the US so we dont ...

How do I handle this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - i met a guy... we lived in same apartment... first... he acted very very nice to me...i have never been treated that nice before... we became friends... he talked to me everyday... it was fun. but things went out of control... he started making me ...

In love with my boyfriend but so lonely in love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend almost a year ago. We worked at he same company but not necessarily on the same "team" or "job". We never crossed paths until a group of co-workers all went out to a new bar opening and we finally met. I am 32. He is 52. He ...

Weight! should I drop it or him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid; I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and lately our relationship is very rocky. We just recently got the internet, and since then, our communication has virtually come to a hault. I work at night and he works during the...

Is this how it is at the nude beach???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - Hi i'm just your average guy and i am lucky enough to have an awesomely hot girlfriend. She is 23, a bit younger than me and we have been together for 18 months. Just recently we decided to go to the nude beach together. It was really beautiful and ...

In need of help with a friends with benefits situation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - i've been in an FWB relationship with a guy for four months. we first dated but then he deicded he didn't want a real relationship, so i agreed on friends with benefits so i could keep him around. every time we're together, we spend the night at...

I like him, he doesn't like me, but can I get him anyway?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - so there's this guy that i've had feelings for for about a year. in a nut shell this is our history: meet at party, and flirt alot. i develope feelings. he tells a friend of mine (without him knowing we were friends) that he has feelings fo...

Is he bi or straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - there is this guy,he is a gym freak,very concerned about his body, but at the same time he always looks at videos of Arnold flexing and other stars who r well built. He gave me some strange looks, given me some hugs, pinched my butt twice. He was ...

We like each other and I want to tell her how I really feel about her. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - My name is Chris and there is this girl i like. i dont think i've ever felt this way about any other girl before. We've know each other for about a year and we're really good friends and i'm ready to become more than friends. But i sometimes get ...

Fight for his heart of move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - One year ago I went on a date with a guy and we ALMOST slept together the first time we met, but didn't went all the way... he asked me out like once in a week for 2 months but things came between so we never met. Then he started acting cold and I ...

I cannot build the courage to give her my all

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - This is tough without a little history. I met this girl as a friend while online. We talked a few times and I discovered she was from England. I've known her since 2005 and after a couple years talking we starting texting.... taking it slow. On ...

The cheating distance factor...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend lives in Illinois, and I live in California. We've been dating for a while now, without seeing each other, once. So it's officially long distance, without meeting in person :( And recently I found out he was cheating on me. I love him ...

Her parents are very protective and get in the way of our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - I am fifteen and so is my girlfriend, we are both about to turn 16 in a few months, and we have been dating for a few weeks. the problem is that her parents are very protective: ie. we went to a movie and her dad had to stay in the theater, and we ...