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Dating: Help and advice

He will be my step-brother in August and we are in love...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Ok - I understand that the general consensus is that is ok to date and even possibly marry your step-brother. But please here is my situation - and help me out. I am 21 - he is 23 - he is in the Navy and came home on leave for two weeks - and ...

I don't know how to "take it slow" and tend to fall hard and fast.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I am dating a guy I REALLY like. When we are together I feel great, and when we are apart I feel happy about the times we spent together. Because of this I want to really take it slow with him and allow both of us to really get to know each other ...

I need help on being a better girlfriend and not so jealous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Okay so, I have been dating this guy on and off for almost 3 years. He says he loves me but I'm so jealous because he used to cheat on me so much. He has changed so much and he treats me so much better. I need help on being a better gf and not so ...

I want to go slow but I don't want to scare him off...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I contacted a guy on a popular website for friends on the weekend, and he immediately added me. I never do these kind of things but I have been single for too long. I could see he changed his mood status from stressed to adventurous, rig...

I have no idea what to think about this girl! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - Guys I need a big help! I want you to please tolerate reading the following paragraphs, then only u'll be able to help me. ... I fell into love first time and now I m hurt seriously. ... She was in my colg for 3 years. We never talked to e...

She's hot...then cold and I want to avoid getting hurt again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - Yeah im confused right now...so there is this girl who i used to date 3 months ago and i really liked her but the last time i saw her was on our last date back in january. Since then she hasn't been so close anymore she would text every once in a ...

How compatible are we, judging by the signs?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I am a female pisces/aries cusp (34 years old) ,dating a male virgo/libra cusp (28 years old). How compatible are we? Because both our signs are on a cusp there is alot of conflicting information. I would appreciate any insight....

I sent him nice photos of me but I worry he will not like me in reality!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - ok so where do i start?? i am 20, nearly 21. When i was 13 i met this boy who was 14 on a chatroom. we used to text all the time and really really liked eachother. for just over 7 years we have kept i contact on and off. i hadnt heard from him for ...

Does he like me and is he just shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - There is this guy in one of my classes. Some days it seems like he really likes me and then some days he acts like he doesn't even notice me. He does the whole staring at me and then looking away really fast thing. If were waling in the hallway he ...

I need help please, what does he mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been togeather for over a month now and last night he said to me "we will see if this goes well between us because only god knows what is going to happen and some times i feel scared to say i want you forever but i'm happy ...

I'm scared that my friends will hate me if I date him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - i am really in love with this guy, and he really loves me. but we're not together because i am scared. he split up with his girlfriend (one of my best friends) a few months ago, and i am scared all my other friends will judge me if we start seeing ...

Should I date the guy that used to use me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - There is this boy, who used to use me but now i believe he has feelings for me. . . I still have feelings for him. But he hurt me so much last time, i dont want it to happen again What should i do? Go with me head? or my heart? ...

Why won't this serial cheater marry me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - hello...im trying to figure out why is it that my boyfriend of 15yrs (he's 40 and im 39) first off will not marry me and make a formal commitment and second of all will not leave this other woman alone? i've forgiven him for having a baby on...

Do I love him or am I crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I feel totally nutts, Ok here goes sorry if this don’t make sense I’m confused, BIG STYLE. 9 years ago I met a guy I worked with and fell for in a big way we slept together a few times but he was going through a divorce and well I was a young. We...

Was I too harsh to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We got along great but I wasn’t in love with her. I broke the news without warning and she is devastated. She doesn’t have many friends locally and her family lives a state away. She feels she doesn’t have any...

Abusive, violent, jailbird boyfriend and I think it's my fault!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I really need some advice. I am so confused I dont really seem to know wrong from right anymore. So have been with my bf for like 10 years now, and we are planning to get married next year. The problem is he has hit me in the past - alot. H...

Should I brake up with my boyfriend if he tells me not to call him unless I send him naked pictures of me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Should I brake up with my boyfriend if he tells me not to call him unless I send him naked pictures of me? Well I feel if some one loves me as much as he say he does, he should respect that I don't feel right taking those kind of pictures. So he te...

I'm 14, should I spilt up with my 19 year old boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - i have a 19 year old boyfriend who loves me a lot but i am only 14. my parents will be so angry with me if they find out. this is putting a lot of stress on me and it is affecting our relationship. should i end the relationship?...

Should I risk our friendship and hope that he wouldn't just use me for sex etc?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I've known this lad for a very long time, since primary school and we're currently in Year 11 now. The both of us have always had a soft spot for each other, and in Year 9 we became best friends. This fizzled out slightly, but we're still very clo...

Fed up of my cheating boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Me and my current boyfriend have been through a lot. We've been together for a year and a half and during that time hes cheated on me 3 times, but I never let him go because I'm head over heels in love with him. Lately he's been showing less and ...

Should I talk to my girlfriend about my World of Warcraft friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - I have a question. My girlfriend and I have lived together for a while now and we have a great relationship. Since we have been living together, I haven't really played World of Warcraft like a I used to. I just started playing again and some of ...

I really like a girl, how do I get her attention without being too forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - i really like a girl, how do i get her attention without being too forward...

Which boy do I choose?

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28 April 2009 (F) - I am 14 years old and I like a boy that is a year younger than me. I go to an all girls school and he goes to an all boys school. I am not really that popular and I am afraid that people will make fun of me if I went out with him. There is also ...

Should I feel annoyed that my boyfriend did not call to see if I arrived home safely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Should I feel annoyed that my boyfriend did not call to see if I arrived home safely? He moved to another state because of a job so I drive to visit him every other weekend because i have a more flexible schedule. It's a 4 hour drive there and 4 ...

Good Relationship, Bad Teeth.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Ok, here's my problem. I love my girlfriend to death, but I can't stand her teeth. Well, her front teeth. One crosses over the other one like... A LOT. Now I don't want to hurt her feelings, and she has a self esteem problem, but she wants to...

I don't want my boyfriend to go to jail...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for five months now - since about a week before he and his ex broke up. They were together for two years and I'll admit, he was not the nicest guy towards his ex. For two years, he emotionally and physically ...

Is he just interested in me physically or is there more to it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I've just started dating this guy and it's been about 2 weeks. We're both in our late 20s. Our first date lasted over 10 hours, and each one after that last quite long but I end them because I need to go home or whatever. Anyway, first date he gave ...

Should I date this older guy who has a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I just met this guy and i like him so much and he feels the same way but the 2 problems i have with him is that i am 3years older than him and he has girlfiend but in another state and they hardly see each other except to talk on the phone which he ...

Not much action at 22 with my b/f of 4 years

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years! Im 22 he is 26 he is a great bloke and is loving and caring, but we hardly have sex, maybe once every two weeks, he never makes me feel sexually attractive, he doesnt make me feel like i turn him ...

I'm scared to tell her that I'm going out with someone 12 years older

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I am 22, my bf is 34, and we love each other. My mother is 45 and yesterday she told me a guy who was 38 asked her to be his gf. (My mom has an amazing bf who is also 45 so obviously she won't date that guy.) My mom doesn't know about my relatio...

I think my boyfriend still has feelings for his ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4500 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Just a few pieces of information before I delve any further into my question. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months, whereas he was in a relationship with his last girlfriend for over 2 years. When we met they'd been broken up a few months and ...

I know I don't love him but I can't seem to break away from him.

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28 April 2009 (F) - Help! I am so confused. I got with this boy in March 2008, been with him over a year now. Thing is I really dont love him but there is something stopping me from dumping him. We have had a really bad relationship he really pisses me off and we d...

He was caught with drugs that were not his.....now he thinks he doesn't deserve to be with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Well, I met a really nice guy. He makes me feel almost invincible it seems. Treats me better than anyone could dream of. But before we met he got in a little bit of trouble on his birthday. He was caught with some pills that weren't his.. I met ...

He begged me to be his girlfriend but now I'm not what he is looking for!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Hey you guys, Just a week ago, I went on a date with a guy that I had met on a dating website. He convinced me to meet him a Saturday evening (9:30 pm- which is quite late for me normally). Anyway, I made it safely and we met. We hung out with hi...

Attracted to older women... is that a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - I'm a 21 year old guy, who's attracted to older women. My past relationships never worked out since I was dating chicks my age. So at this point of time I'm thinking of going for women older than me. Is this a wise choice to make? MOD NOTE: US...

Would I be a bad parent for moving in with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - So my situation is that I use to talk to this guy my freshmen year of college and we were "dating" and we were pretty serious, but it was understood between the both of us that it couldn't go any further because he was going to soon be deployed to ...

What does "Friends with Benefits" mean?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Hello, i was talking to my ex-boyfriend, and he said we can be friends. im fine with that.He also said we could be friends with benifits. What did he mean? thank you....

I want to play the field

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - I'm a 16 yr old boy and I do not have trouble getting/attractive women. not to toot my own horn ,but i am good looking. my problem is commitment to girls my age. i find myself "looking at the big picture" and think it's a waste of time because i'm ...

How do I stop driving him away from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

28 April 2009 (?) - Hey-- Lately theres been a lot of drama between me and my bf, and that's not the norm for us. Were in love, thats not the issue. After examination, all the drama was entirely my fault. I am starting to think that I cause the most drama with him when...

Am I being emotionally and physically abused here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I'm about to be 19 in a couple days and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We have frequent amount of arguments every other day. Our most recent one was about me getting a tattoo of my youngest sisters' name for my birthday. He ...

My bf is very jealous of my guy pal! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I am 21 and my boy friend is 23. We have been dating for 18 months and we have a great relationship except for one thing. He is so jealous of my best friend Matt. Matt and I have been best friends since we were 16. My boyfriend has been ...

My boyfriend said he loves me, but doesn't know what love means. Huh??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend said he loves me, but doesn't know what love means. He also then said to me, "I want you to know you are the only girl I have ever had love for." These two lines hurt. How can he not know what it means; we've been together for almost ...

Will a shy guy's friend's pressure him into asking a girl out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - If a guy likes a girl, but he is really shy and can't bring himself to talk to her and his friends know that he likes her. Will his friends start to pressure him into asking her out?...

He blames me for cheating! Does he not want me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - What do i do if my boyfriend is always blameing me 4 cheatin but I'm really not??? Do it mean he don't wanna be with me or just what.... ...

He can't cum!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have started having sex. He will not come. we have had sex like 10 times but he will not come. I can feel his penis pumping, i have tried oral sex. He says it feels good, but he just want come. We had sex for 2 hours last night ...

Need to know what to do next!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - Hiya, I need help. I need to know what to do to her next. We're madly in love! I want her sooooooooo bad, but don't know just how to make my next move. Like today held her in my arms and kissed her and had my hands all over her back. It made...