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writes:hi i need some advice. I'm a young girl and currently in a relationship with a boy my age and have been with him for 10 months. I really like him but recently I've been starting to get on really well with his step dad who is much older than me but i find him really fun and sensitive. I noticed feelings for him very soon after i met him but i just put them out of my mind as ridiculous. Lately though i've been chatting with hi more than with his son! It started when i called up my boyfriend's house and his step-dad answered and said J wasn't home but we chatted for two hours .hen he invited me for a drink and i said yes. We have been catching up a bit when my bf goes away for his work but recently we have been getting intimate. I haven't kissed him yet but i want to. What should i do????? Reply to this Question
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reader, pennypee +, writes (20 April 2009):
pennypee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou to those who replied. I have considered what you have written. But last weekend i think my decision was made. My boyfriend was away for the whole weekend staying at his mom's place and his step-dad invited me around for dinner. well, we ended up in the spa bath together and i stayed the night. I was really great but we have decided it won't go any further. So we realized what we wanted and now it is done. But i will stay with my boyfriend now..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): you want to do the dirty on your b/f with his step dad who is old enough to be your father.it seems as though the step dad knows what he is doing, he is slowly winning you over by being oh so friendly, nice, fun, all in the hope of getting into your pants. and it seems as though you won't stop him.in life we all have a high price to pay, you may just pay that price, but will it have been worth it? After the sex with the step dad, then what, a sudden burst of morality, a shameful act that will lead to betraying your b/f?, then what? if you don't want your b/f, end it now so that he can go find a decent somebody who will actually think about her own integrity before indulging with the step dad. as for the step dad, he knows what he wants, it is only time before he gets whats he wants from you, you have also made it clear that you want the same thing. In life there is something called a "moral fibre", do have even possess moral fibre in your body. I think not!As for your b/f its time he let go of the loose woman that you are, you know that, he just needs to find out.the step dad, does he even know the meaning of the word? he wants to betray his "son" over someone like you. in the end he will get you but you will just be his son's sloppy seconds. And he can have that!
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reader, mariaxx  +, writes (7 April 2009):
i have two things to say
1. how would your b/f feel if he found out? Betrayed by both his girlfriend and step father. Two relationships destroyed, for what? Is there a mum involved in all this - i.e. the step dad's wife? Make that three relationshps decimated.
2. what sort of pathetic excuse for a man would do this to his own stepson? do you want to be involved with that sort of person?
Get out of this situation before its too late. you WILL regret it.
good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): Have you thought about how this would affect your boyfriend & what sort of man is his stepdad to go along with it? Its wrong! This can only end badly! Sneaking around is not the answer & think of how your boyfriend is going to react if he finds out from someone else that your having it off with his stepdad behind his back if something did eventuate from this. You are asking for heartache. Hope you make the right decission. Goodluck!
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