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Archived questions from: 23 April, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend seems deceitful

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2314 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we have a 4 month old daughter together. In the past 2 months I have found flirtatious emails exchanged between a couple of girls. My friends then told me they heard he had been cheating. When I ...

Why don't I fancy him? He's Perfect!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Im so inlove with my boyfriend ,he is the sweetest kindest most loving person there is . He absolutly adores me .. we have been going out for three years now .. sounds blissful doesnt it? everyone envys my handsome loving boyfriend ,he is really ...

How can I flirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - theres this boy i ave crushed on since year 7 and i really wanna flirt or throw hints as i tink he likes me to but i dont no how to flirt or anything please help me i dont no wat to do...

We broke up over my friend. How do I get my ex's trust back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I moved from Michigan to Maryland 2 years ago to be with a man I truly loved. We were supposed to get married but it never happened. Whenever it was close we would argue and call it off. He travels a lot for his job or just to go back to Michigan to ...

My boyfriend's "ex" is returning to the city and I'm feeling very jealous/insecure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend's "ex something" is returning to the city and I'm feeling very jealous/insecure. This girl my boyfriend used to have a huge crush on during high school is returning to town. I fear that she's more perfect for him than I am. Let me exp...

There are times when my boyfriend makes me feel so miserable, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are so happy when we're together. but when we argue, it's a whole different story, he takes things out of proportion, and starts blaming it all on me, which obviously makes me feel really low. He shouts at me, he insults me and I ...

Will our childhood relationship last?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I'm 15 and my girlfriend is 14 and we are seriously thinking about moving in with eachother when im 20 and she's 19 are we crazy? Are we going to last that Long?...

Can anyone out there, interpret my dream?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (?) - Last night I dreamt I had a child with a guy I know, who refuses to talk to me (I in turn do not contact him), we were very close last year and after we fell out various issues (still these have gone unexplained) we do not speak anymore, also, he is ...

I just paranoid of being hurt again or do I have good reason to be as such?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship for a little over 5 years and we have had our ups and downs as far as it goes. She has cheated on me in the past and I am still suspicious of things that she does, my question is am I just paranoid of being hurt again ...

2 months, no luck. I obviously don't know how to act around women. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I've been going out on the town for about 2 months now. I've tried hard to go out and enjoy myself on a night without looking to find a girl. It's been pretty easy, but so far I haven't had any success. My friends only really go to clubs and ...

Is this just a crush? I have a boyfriend but I can't get this guy out of my head!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I'm in a tricky situation. Been with my boyfriend for 5 years and thought I was perfectly happy, I'm very much attracted to him and love him, and we've gone through a lot together. Recently I've noticed there is a guy on my undergrad program and we ...

I am wondering when is enough enough? Can a person ever change?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for six years now, we live together and he has been lying to me. He has been talking and texting other women. Comments like hey sexy, hey beautiful. We have been through this before twice already and I am wondering when ...

We're finished and I don't want him, but why does it bother me that he is now engaged and has a child with someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I am struggling getting over a relationship from 9 years ago. He was my first real boyfriend and I gave everything to him. I broke it off with him after a year when I found out he was hiding the fact he was looking at porn on the computer and ...

Should I get things straightened out and tell him I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I can't get him out of my mind! The whole staring thing just won't let me. Right. Sorry about that. I needed to vent. Anyway, there's this guy at school, and I like a lot. My friends often thought that we were 'together' because of the way we...

Even although he cheated on me, now I just want him to hug me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hey... I'm 14 and a 2 month ago I split up with my boyfriend who I had been going out with for 7 months because I felt the love wasn't there and I didn't care what he had to say. He wasn't very smart and didn't care to have a conversation about ...

I really can't get over him...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - So there's this guy I've know sine I was 4, really close friend, looked out for me, talked to each other about problems and he was really sweet and cute. afew years ago I found out that I kinda liked him...I didn't tell anyone coz I thought it was...

Am I worrying unecessarily over a lack of affection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Hi! Me and my gf have been dating now for just over 2 months. Things have been going very well and we seem to really click. Although having dated girls before, this is my first real relationship and the same can be said for her, although she is p...

I thought it was just a stupid crush....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I've had this crush on my brother's best friend for years now. He's 18 and I'm 13, and he has a girlfriend so I know it's never going to happen, obviously. But recently I think I might be falling in love with him. I'm becoming obsessed with him, and ...

Help! Who do I believe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, help me out on this. I am in a relationship of one year. We are okay together but my parents aren't okay with him coz they think someone else is best for me. Someone they know who is a family friend though he doesn't stay in the same ...

She dumped me TWICE, now wants a third shot, should I ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a 28 year old man, I have been in this relationship for about 5 months. The first time she told me I wasn't her type. She told me she liked dark Skinned men and I'm fair skinned Half-italian half-spanish. She also mentioned she wa...

To be or not to be? A question on love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Hey guys I've posted a question about being in love before but I think that this is the final straw in my situation. Basically im in love with my friend. Its the first time i've felt this way and to be honest, its crippling me. She has no idea...

The way I look is holding me back in life!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hi I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've wanted one since I was 11, but its never happened for me. I've read through the other 'never had a boyfriend' questions and read the advice... I have plenty of male friends (probably more than...

I'm too naive and I always seem to make myself to vulnerable to guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I had and on and off relationship for about 5 years. It started when we were quite young, so it was nothing too serious and neither were our arguments. But as it went on, just him breaking up with me and getting back with me when he felt like it. i ...

I think I need to be single but don't have the guts to tell my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old, I am in a 3 1/2 years relationship with my boyfriend, in which, I love still but than again it's becoming very lame. I feel bad to break up with him because he loves me so much... I decided to go away for College.. I live in ...

I don't have much money but want to show him how much I care

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - hi this might be a little bit strange but i was looking for an idea of something nice that i could do for my boyfriend like an out of the bedroom type of thing. the thing is he's at uni and has to study alot and i have to work crap shifts so we d...

Can anyone tell me if this is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - so what can i say, im a little confused and im pretty sure its over but i just want to hear others opinions on this matter, as it is rather confusing and frustrating. So ive been in a long distance relationship for a while now, everything was f...

I have been out of the dating scene for so long I have no idea if he even likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hello I have been out of the dating scene for a while now, mainly due to work and education commitments, so I recently signed up to a dating site. Now, I never thought I would ever do this sort of thing, so for me, it is quite a scary step. I am...

Can anyone tell me what this girl is thinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Hi all, I hav this crush with this family friend. She's 17 and i'm 25. Well basically it's her who initiated and sort of pushed me to say my feeling to her. I didn't formally say that i like her (but we both told a story which is pretty obvious ...

Confused and heart broken

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for two and a half years and he told me yesterday he needs a break from our relationship. We've been fighting alot lately, mainly about money. We both have good jobs but he wastes his money on stupid things then ...

Betrayed by my co-worker over my flirtation with my boss!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I was flirting with my boss leaving him hello notes and little candies now and then even jst stop by his office for innocent chit chat because I am attracted to him but I knw its wrong anyways my guy friend told me my boss told him about the notes ...

Why do guys ignore girls they're attracted to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - do guys ignore the girls your attracted to even when she shows you interest . she even attemtps to be with you.. do you behave like this BUT WHY ?...

Relying on each other, but not dating ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Is there such relatioship "relying on each other" but we are not dating??...when I feel sad, i think of him to comfort me....Am I relying too much on him?? We claimed to be friends and agreed just to stay like this at the mean time.... Some...

It's great when we talk, but he doesn't have much time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - okay I've been going out with my boyfrend for about 2 years . I am 17 and he is nearly 20 , this whole year all he does is work and ONLY lately like the past few weeks he's hardly been talking to me , im always the one to call him , I always have to ...

Should I go for the new girl or stay in my shaky relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I have been in a long term relationship (5 years) with a woman and I have recently met another woman that has given me all these strange feelings, i dont if you would call it love, but i cant stop thinking about her and im longing to be near her so ...

Does he love me enough to stand up to his mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I need some serious advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost five years. During the third year of our relationship we had some problems and both of us were to blame. We broke up for about six months at the most and have ...

Is he interested or am I just thinking way too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Okay so I saw my crush in the cafeteria today and he was talking with a girl and when I looked at them talking he was all smiles =( so I kinda got upset and hid myself behind a guy sitting in front of me, then I looked at him again and they weren't ...

Can't let him go, but he has a g/f

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a crush on this guy, i practicly love him, for 3 years but he has a girlfriend. He knows that i like him by some messages i sent him on myspace. The problem is that i can't let him go. Whenever i see him i can't stop staring at him but ...

Why wont my b/f call when he says he will?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost 4 months now... we have liked eachother since i was twelve... he was 4 years older than me so we never persued it. Im 20 now, so we made it official. we expressed that we love eachother and he told me what was ...

I overheard my b/f tell his ex he misses her! Should we break up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend, Dante, for 6 months now. When we first started seeing eachother he told me that he still technically "talked" to his ex girlfriend (they dated for 4 years) who lives about 500 miles away. When I found out I pretty much ...

If we don't get married, do you think it will ruin the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - First I want to give you a little background to help with your opinion. I'm 23 years older then my bj, he chased me for almost a year til I gave in. We don't plan on ever getting married or meet others family. Other then that it's norman (what eve...

Why does he need porn if he has me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Iv'e just found out my boyfriend has been watching pornography and i feel betrayed and inadequate if he loves me like he says he does why does he need to look at porn?...

I want him to show more affection!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Okay... me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months will be 5 in May... I love him a lot but I don't think he really loves me back. He's really nice sweet funny and everything I want.. the problem is he wont tell me he loves me, kiss me, hold ...

His brother pays more attention to me than my b/f!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Okay... me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months almost 5 in May, and he wont hold my hand, kiss me, tell me he loves me, or anything. The most he will do is hug me. His twin brother gives me waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more attention then my bf ...

Why do some girls like the bad boy type?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I consider myself a "nice guy." I don't smoke, don't do drugs. Drink very rarely. I go to Grad School. Have a decent job, go to church every Sunday. I'm very detail oriented, I give flowers, candy, pay for everything polite, considerate, sweet ...

I don't know what things would be like if we DID start dating again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I dated this girl for a while, and I fell in love with her. She also fell in love with me, but she later dumped me because she hated how hurt I always was and she hated the pressure that my depression added to the relationship. It's been about tw...

My friend's ex boyfriend has a crush on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Okay, I have a problem. There's this guy that I really like, and he's also one of my closer friends. But he dated my friend Cindy. See, I didn't have a problem with them being together, he didn't even know I liked him. But I thought that the...

My girlfriend slept with another guy... Twice.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - My Girlfriend slept with another guy, Twice. the thing is we started dating about seven and then we started arguing over petty things and they grew bigger. she suggested we went on a break then a month later suggested we get back together...

What were his intentions of contacting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I broke up with an ex a month ago. I got hurt as i really liked him and he was cheating and he wasn't the lovely guy i thought he was. We agreed on no contact as i never wanted to speak to him again after he had so little respet for me. Today i g...