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Dating: Help and advice

Could he be scared to commit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I met someone online a few years back, he was all fired up about meeting in person. It took a few months for us to meet. We clicked immediately, he called me, we spoke on the phone all the time. I called his house and his children would pick up ...

How to surprise my girlfriend whens he comes back? Suggestions please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Hey. My girlfriend is away for a month, and I want to do something special for her when she gets back. Are there any suggestions? Ideally we would stay on campus (we go to a boarding school) to do it. Thanks!...

I had sex on my period whilst taking the pill. Can I fall pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hiya.... I've been on the pill for 3 months now, me and my boyfriend had sex whilst I was on my period but I was taking the pill at the same time, so I had sex on my period but took the pill on the same day. What I want to know is... can I fall ...

Why am I being ignored all of a sudden??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months now, and I thought everything was fine between us, but suddenly he has been completely ignoring me for the past few days. We live two and a half hours apart and only get to see each other on the ...

Although I don't want my ex back, I do miss him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up quite recently. We had gone out for almost 2 years the first time, broke up, and the second time we went out for 3 months. About a week later, I found someone new. It was sudden. He is better than my ex, and he is perfect ...

I thought I meant more to him but he's saying to colleagues he isn't looking for anything serious...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - So I have been seeing this guy from work and we have hooked up on several occasions. Everyone at our job knows about us. He's mentioned to a couple of my co-workers that I am more than just a hook-up or a crush, but when asked what was going to ...

Do all guys like to brag about their girlfriends to their friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Do all guys like to brag about their girlfriends to their friends? Including telling his friends some sexual things that they do together, (Not actually about having sex but fingering, making out, touching, etc.)? Do all guys do that? Just ...

Guys with girlfriends, do you guys ever look/think about other girls besides the one your with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - This isn't a serious serious question but it's something I'm curious about. My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and he never looks at girls, or anything like that but we watch tv shows, movies, etc. with girls in it but he says ...

We agreed not have watch porn, now I've seen he's been searching it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend told each other that we would not watch porn when we weren't around each other - a mutual agreement... However, I have watched porn once and literally by accident just now, I have seen on his past searches that he has been loo...

Any tips for a shy girl on top?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Just need a few tips about having sex on top!! Im 22 and have been with my boyfriend for 2years but everytime I build up the courage to go "on top" i freak out!! Dont have alot of confidence and basically dont really know what to do, am worried ...

I don't want to lose any of my friends, despite how they treat me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Sorry, this is VERY long. I recently got back with an ex boyfriend, and things are going great. We are both so happy and it's perfect. The thing is today my friends starting making fun of him. Whilst I was with them. At first I knew they were just ...

Keeping my boy a secret?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - hi my name is hotta to everyone i know . my mom tells me who i can date and who i can not date but my mom does not know i'm dating someone she does not like we have been best friends for so long. and i love this guy name crazy and me and crazy have ...

My best friend asked me out at the beginning of the year, I turned him down... Now I'm regretting it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Okay so i think im in love with my best guy friend He's 17 and Im 15 and he's gonna be senior next year while im gonna be a sophmore. He asked me out at the beggining of the year but i turned him down cause i was too busy for a boy friend. He'...

Is she being for real or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Ok, First want to say I have been writing on this site through every process in my breakup and the whole process is going as you all said it would. I followed all the advice given to me and it has lead to me to where I am right now. My ex of ...

He just wants to play online games. I don't know what to do, and I'm lonely...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - This confuses me, so good luck potential advice givers. I've been in my relationship three years now, and I've overcome a lot. But, to the more recent issue, he has a bad online addiction to MMO RPGs. He used to be so hooked on WOW that he turned ...

I'm desparate and I can't take it anymore!!please help me its my first love!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hi! I'm 15 and I was hoping you help me because I got a problem. I really love this boy let's call him 'wb' I saw him staring at me many times and even my friends did, he tried to talk 2 me because he knows 1 of my friends but every time he comes...

Is three years long enough to have been together before getting engaged?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I'm so excited. My byfriend has gotten me an engagement ring. ^_^ We still won't be getting married for a few years- we'll be saving money and such for a house, car, etc, etc... we've been together for three years, and our love is stronger than...

Is he playying with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy and we hit it off from the begining. His marriage was broken down a few years ago and he has not been dating anyone since. We are close and I care for him. After talking for months, he said last Wednesday that he liked me and I c...

How do I win back the best friend I loved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - My best friend and I used to be unseparable. We used to go out all the time and do everything together. There was something else though, we were both in love with each other but we dared not to say anything to each other. I only know that he was in ...

I cant stand living with my ex now he has a new girlfriend but he doesn't want me to move out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I'm really confused and am wondering if anyone can help me understand my situation more please. I split up with my boyfriend in September 2007 but we stayed friends, then in November 2007, after a short relationship with another girl, he asked m...

I tried to slow down our relationship and now she has moved on to a 60 year old guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I met a woman about a month ago - we got along great. I had reservations because her previous boyfriend had left her just 2 months prior and she would talk about him often and how bad he treated her. I did not want to be her rebound guy...

Unemployed boyfriend is being too picky about what job he would take!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - my guy has been unemployed for about seven months now. he has been looking for a job but not on a consistant basis. he is still living with family. when we are together i pay for most of our entertainment. i don't feel obligated to do it but i ...

She claims she really wants to be with me but I don't know if it's real!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - This Is a bad situation to begin with i know. About 2 months ago now i was reintroduced to my friends cousin who is/was Engaged, Red flag right there i know. Last time i met here was a few years back, I always had feelings for her, and i find out ...

My boyfriend told his lover that I was a homeless transient who slept on his couch!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I met my boyfriend through my brother in law and he came from NC all the way to MO to meet me. We fell in love and he wanted me to move to NC with him. I quit my job that I had for a long time and left my family and friends to be with him. ...

Baby daddy crap!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - my girlfriend of 1year has two kids(9 and 10). their dad is in prison.he wants my girlfriend to come visit him.She claims that him and her are best friends.the problem im having out of the situation is that I've been feeling disrespected by her kids ...

I feel like he is putting everything else before our wedding!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I have been with my fiance on and off for around 6-7 years. We are planning on getting married this year, however I feel he is not putting in that much effort when it comes to the wedding plans by putting his plans and other things frst. We h...

How should I approach the subject of sex toys with my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - how do i no if my boyfriend is into advetureous sex toys ect.. we have not been together long so nothing o rush just he has not had much exsperience he is the only one i no is the one and its took me years to find him but how do i introdu...

I cant get this girl out of my head....Am I just feeling rejected or is this something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Right... now I can't get this girl out of my head. We met about a year ago, I was going to the pub she worked at to see a friend play guitar. The first night I saw her I’d mentioned to a mate that I thought she was hot and that I was going to h...

Trouble in the bedroom with my new partner

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - hi i've recently started to see this guy who i adore he is 33 and i'm 25 we slept together for the first time a few weeks ago and he was a little nervous.. so one minute he had an erection then it would go this would happen through out the ...

Trust is not possible for me without evidence!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have been through one hell of a difficult few years and so has my little 8 year old son and his sister . My second husband was dreadfully abusive and we were quite ill by the end of it. Now I am with someone who seems to care about me very muc...

I'm stuck watching as this guy uses and abuses the woman I love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - ive been on here before asked a question about a girl. "this is my life is there something wrong with me?" i unfortunately got stupid tried to drown my sorrows in a nice tall bottle of jack and top it off wit some hard tequila. i drunk texted her. i ...

Angry boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hi Guys Please some advice as not sure If i am over reacting here!! Well my boyfriend obviously can be lovely very sweet etc always complimenting me. But he gets angry and irritated by the slightest things, if he calls and I miss his call he will ...

All I want is some attention, is that too much to ask?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - me and my fience have been togehter 3 years we've recently been looking at places to live together. he's just started a new job and he's being sooo werid when he get in from work its like a 5 minute conversation then he wants to go to relax then i d...

Text message from his so called "boyfriend" claiming he is gay!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I started using a dating website a few months back and after a while met this guy who was very friendly, attractive and got on with me so well. He was willing to wait to go on a date with me because I'm in my 3rd year of university and need to ...

I could be gone for 8 to 24 months...how do I stop our relationship falling apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - my girl and i have been in a serious relationship for over 8 months now, everything has been going wonderful, we love each other dearly. But, today I just got word that I got into Job Corps, wonderful opportunity. But the problem is that I leave ...

Should I visit my g/f's kid's dad in prison with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - my girlfriend has two kids . her baby dad is in prison. his mother is going to visit him soon but she wants my girfriend and her kids to come . i don't mind the kids going to visit their dad.but my girlfriend wants to go also. she's said if I ...

I thought he liked me but asked another girl to prom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I need some opinions...... I'm at high school and this year I have my ball/prom... I've been friends with this guy for a long time and we're really good friends but this year we have no classes together and he has his own friends and i have m...

I'd like to ask her out, but I'm afraid I've missed my chance.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Ok, there is this girl that I like, and she liked me. We went out to a movie as friends, and I was going to ask her out. I felt a connection. But the next day, I was texting her, and we were joking around, and she jokingly said we're not friends ...

Is it possible to fall in love as a freshman in high school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Ive been dating this guy for almost seven months and i know that its not a long time but i feel like i can really last with him. Ive dated a lot of guys before and they all used me for drugs and sex and they nevere respect4ed me. but my current ...

Very much in love with someone who does not treat me the way I feel I deserve to be treated.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Feeling a little depressed. Very much in love with someone who does not treat me the way I feel I deserve to be treated. I know we all have our faults but I try to be supportive, kind, calm and loving towards my b/f. He swings from being funny and ...

GET TO KNOW A GUY

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29 April 2009 (F) - To get to know a guy at school: sit next to him at lunch or when you get a chance. Ask him random questions like what's your favorite color or something. If you're shy just laugh at his jokes. don't get creepy with it. Later on...YOU'LL BE ...

I want to take her to the prom but my parents hate her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - I want to take the love of my life to the prom, the thing is that my parents hate her and i have no idea how to tell them im going with their consent or not, for goodness sake in 17!...

Help! Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have made love twice. he is totally amazing, but there is one problem. he can never get in more then 5-6 in. even with foreplay it still doesn't go in all the way. when 6in come around it starts to hurt really bad so he has to stop. is ...

How can I show them that I am not trying to trap their son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - This year I went out of state to college and met a guy in the beginning of the school year and a few months into our relationship I found out I was pregnant. He said he was too young to be a dad so he bailed. During the time a guy in my apartment ...

Do I have to tell my boyfriend everything about my past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have a serious question that I need advice on. I am in a long term relationship and I'm starting to get the feeling that my boyfriend is going to propose. I love him very much and definitely want us to get married. I have two things that I have ...

I can't stand her ex to be around her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - I fell in love with a wonderful woman when i was going thru my divorce but I have a major issue. She was separated from her husband when she was with me and went back and forth a couple of times but now she assures me she is done with him and we ...

How do I make my ex of 2 plus years choose me over my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (?) - Instead of cutting straight to my question, I am about to explain the background of my situation because I feel that it is unique and should be fully understood if I am to consider advice. If you are going to give me an answer, please do not skim ...

My heart wants to work this through but my mind tells me different... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of almost 3 months cheated on me. I found this out recently when his 'girlfriend' called me after an apparent argument they had and tattle-taled on their affair. I was crushed! He admitted to their relationship, (supposedly an old ...

Is a polygraph test the answer?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I am in a real dilemma and don't know what to do. I am engaged and have been with my fiance for 9 years now and never imagined this horrible nightmare i am now in. We were shopping on the weekend when some girl approached me and said your ...

If I am over him why does he keep coming back in my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - i'm kinda of confused. I went out with this guy a while ago and for the 1st few month is was really unhappy and was like i hope we get back together and thought about him almost constently. now i still think about the time when we were together but ...

Is there a hidden message in his behaviour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - My b/f is always for the "underdog" he never takes my side. If I have a fender bender he will say, "You should've done this, or you should've done that." even though I was not the one who got cited, so clearly it was not my fault. If the sink is ...

When he gets intimate I don't feel anything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Ok, i am dating a really great guy and I like him a lot. The thing is just when he gets intimate I don't feel anything. I really like him. I like kissing and touching but when we go any further it stops. I don't feel anything. I'm not repulsed or ...

Help! Is she trying to make me jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - I have been dating this girl for a while and recently she started pointing out to me how "hot" other guys are, Movie stars and models excluded, everyone has an attraction to some movie star or model (that is just human) but recently it has been ...

How do you ask a guy where your relationship stands?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - How do you ask a guy where your relationship stands after 2 years?...