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Am I going crazy or is he giving me mixed signals?

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Question - (7 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *PC11 writes:

Okay so when i went home for spring break I was introduced to this cute guy that I really like. I asked him out later that week and we have been going on dates every weekend I come home. I realise we have just started dating and I shouldn't be confused but let me explain...

Our first date was great we went to the movies and had a great time...

Our second date I went to his house to watch a movie and somehow I ended up on top of him. I came to my senses and told him I only do those sorta things when I'm IN a relationship. And he told me he doesn't like long-distance relationships (even though I will be home for the summer soon and my college is 2 hours away)So I let that go...

Lately we've been talking on the phone (because I wanted to convince him that we could do "long-distance") and after talking for 3 hours he well... did something very naughty over the phone.

I'm so confused because offically I'm not his girlfriend and he's told my friend that he doesn't want to jump in a relationship with me so fast but am I going crazy or is he giving me mixed signals?

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A female reader, HPC11 United States +, writes (8 April 2009):

HPC11 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

HPC11 agony auntoh and he says he will wait until I am ready to ACTUALLY do anything...

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A female reader, HPC11 United States +, writes (8 April 2009):

HPC11 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

HPC11 agony auntWell thanks so far... I mean I asked him last night if he liked me (the answer was yes) if he cared about me (the answer was yes) and well he answered yes to the fact that he wants me. IDK i like him and we fit perfectly together... I just found out about his parents situtation... his dad left before he was even born... maybe commitment issues. IDK... all I know is I like him...

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A female reader, mariaxx United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2009):

it sounds like he is perhaps interested, but definitely up for sex.

If you want a relationship with this guy don't go there too soon, then, if he sticks around, you'll know whether he wants you or just a casual fling.

good luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009):

baby go on with your life. if a man is ready u will know. if you are that far off he has another chick, trust. you should find you a nice college guy. Smart and yall will be able to spend more tome together.

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