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Dating: Help and advice

Too shy? Or just not into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Ok so I really like this guy and I see him everyday in the cafeteria, he always sits with a group of friends and i'm usually sitting alone, just so that I'm available if he comes and talks to me.. So today we both just exchanged stares all day, ...

Anniversary in 5 days and I'm lost!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Helppp! Me and my boyfriend's anniversary is in 5 days! I really don't know what to do and I don't know... It makes me feel guilty that I haven't bought him anything "expensive" yet. I know they say, it's the thought that matters but he spent a ...

More than a friend but less than a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Hello friends. OK this one is weird. I fell for my best friend about 6 months ago, and told him so 2 months ago. He's an incredibly shy inexperienced guy with some problems with depression, but I feel I know him well and these things make him h...

Boyfriend has jealousy issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (?) - Hello, everybody! Most of my friends are guys, ages 14-17 (I'm 15) and my bf (14) seems to dislike it. I don't think it's that he doesn't trust me--he doesn't trust THEM. My ex and I are very close, and I know of a few of my friends that just bro...

Every time we have an argument he throws the past at me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend keeps bring up the past, what should I do?? Well I cheated on him one time and I know it was wrong but he told me he forgave me and he made me promise I wouldn't do it any more but it's making me mad beacuse every time we get into...

How do I ask her to marry me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - I'm in love with this girl--we're worlds apart (I'm more sheltered and grew up in a caring environment, she was abused as a kid and used to cut her wrists....) but I love her and she has admitted to loving me back. We've been taking a break, but we ...

Is he really in love with me or is he just wanting to be friends with benefits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - About a week ago, me and my boyfriend of almost eleven months, broke up. He gave me the "it's for good" speech when he broke up with me. Yet, on Friday he called me for the first time it happened. He told me he loves me and that he cares so much...

Boyfriend posts pictures from your joint vacation and leaves you OUT of the pictures?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Ok, I'm embarrassed to even have to write this -- because it sounds so juvenille, and I am 31 years old, but I want a sounding board, so please respond honestly. I just got back from a week in Italy with my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years. He was se...

What can I do to make sex more enjoyable for both of us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I have been having sex but for only a few months now. My boyfriend is pretty inexperienced as well only being with two other girls. Anyways he really likes doggy style, but I can't cum like that... is that normal or are we doing something wrong....

She cheated, and I left but now she will not leave me alone!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - I just recently broke up with my girfriend of 5 years. She had an affair with a co-worker last year, and I almost left her then. But I confronted her about it, and she begged me not to leave her. Well we worked things out, and I thought things were ...

My girlfriend's best guy friend trouble

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm new at this sort of thing and I'm not used to talking about my relationship issues but I have been having a lot of trouble lately and I need advice. My primary issue in my relationship is trustworthiness. I know I am an easy going guy a...

Why Doesn't he ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - There is this guy that I think likes me. He stares at me a lot and when I catch him he looks away really fast. He can't talk to me. His friends even ones I don't know are always whispering and pointing at me when I walk by. And some other things. We ...

Am I in the wrong for believing that we can spend the rest of our lives together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now and we haven't fought at all and we're always happy when we're together and we see each other every weekend. Since about 2 months into dating, He's always talking about us being together for the ...

Going out of my mind with worry!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Hello dear cupid Family, I have a lot to ask and to talk about. I am a 42 yrsr old going through a divorce have been living apart for more then a year with my hubby but met this man I fell madly in Love with, there is only a zillion things that ...

How do I get my Mum's permission to let my boyfriend stay at her house?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I am going to be 18 in 3 months and my bf 23 and my mum and little sister are going on holiday this weekend and i did ask if my boyfriend could stay over and the answer was no which i got quite angry about as she has meet him lots of times, i've ...

I'm the other girl in my Cousins relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (?) - okay im 16 and so is my cousin and we have a been very close friends since i was like 5 yrs old. and now for like two years we have been having realtions and we consider ourselfs as boyfriend, girlfriend now but the twist is he has a girlfriend and ...

School friends pressuring me to have sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Just began a relationship with my boyfriend to weeks ago. We were mucking around and he lay on top of me. I was fine with it when it happened. Afterwards, I started thinking that he might get the wrong idea. :S Everyone at school is trying to find ...

My girlfriend says she is looking to date other men but I am having trouble with this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - my girlfriend says she is looking to date other men but i am having trouble with this what should i do?...

What's going on in his mind? And who is to blame, him or her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - if a guy flirted with a girl non verbally. But she does not give in, after some weeks. they become friends. But he does not talk to her... only looks at her. So the girl ignores him. After a weeks he comes back all nonverbal. but she ignores him ...

5 months going out with him and now he says he doesn't like to be touched??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Alright, so here's my story. I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about five months now and he claims he doesn't like being touched by other people, sexually of course. I think he finds it uncomfortable. He likes it when I grind ag...

I'm getting sick of his games

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - dear cupid, robert and i were best friends for two and a half years. i decided i wanted to be more he had been wanting that for a while but didn't what he wanted right now(there was another girl) i waited for four months said i couldn't do this he ...

How do guys feel when a woman acts like she isn't interested anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I have a thing for this guy, and as far as what i'm getting from him, i think he had good intentions in the beginning, i missed a few signs, like him inviting me to party with his friends, him telling me personal info, just things like that, we ...

Why do I let him treat me like such a doormat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Gonna ask a stupid question and your gonna think im silly. My ex and me have been on/off 3yrs! Weve never lived together. Gone on on hol together! He has on two lads hols! Never seen each other more than 4 days wk! And yet he tells me he loves me ...

Is he taking it slow, or messing me about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - i've been on a couple of dates with a guy - i really like him. we're both in our 30's. i met him online and after some wonderful correspondence we started going on dates. he's everything i'm looking for and we have a lot in common. when we're ...

How do I get this boy to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I'm 19 and have been attracted to a 20 year old guy who is in one of my classes at college since the third week in. I've known we are pretty compatible since the fifth week in. I learned that we went to the same high school together for two years ...

How do I get close to the one I love the most?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - well, the title says it all... can you please, please, please, give me some helpful tips on how to get along with the one i love? i am asking this question because i'm getting so nervous and tensed when i see him. and that makes me go crazy i...

How do you get a girl to open up and get closer to you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - How do you get a girl to open up and get closer to you? I have been seeing this girl for a couple of months. I really like her and when i ask her in private she says the same but im getting frustrated because she never seems to show that to me...

Emotionally Hurt......should I send the letter?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - My man and I had an nasty breakup for reasons unbeknow to me. He just stated that I was very disrespectful towards his feelings. We are both adults, and I wanted to talk but I was blamed for something I never did, he went through a terrible event ...

I've been out of the game for a while. Is she into me? What to do next

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - Alright. Just a little background. I go to this gym frequently for the past year and a half. There is this pretty girl that works there, and I have had a huge crush on her since I saw her awhile back. Well, I finally decided to at least send her a...

Going out for a year..cheating on me with porn

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend n ive been going out for the last year and a few months. despite our young age, we really do have a fantastic sex life, or so i thought. few days ago i found a folder in his computer that was created a month after we started going out, ...

WTF is wrong with this dude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - A guy and I have been talking for about 7 months (I'm 21, he's 24 if that makes a difference.) We used to work together and flirted a lot. A few months after he left (we kept in contact) he tells me he's always been attracted to me and I ...

My partner fancies someone else and is constantly texting her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Hi, Right, my problem that I am struggling with at the moment is that my partner of 1 year who I love so much fancies another woman and yes I know this is normal for people to fancy others as long as nothing comes of it but my partner is constantly ...

I have very strong feelings for my son's teacher.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my partner for nearly 3 years and I do love him very much but he won't commit, but now I have really strong feelings for my son's teacher. I asked him for a drink he said no but every time I see him he gives me a certain smile and ...

Advice please to stop me feeling like crap!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I was living with my partner for 2 years and going out for 4 years. We broke up 4 weeks ago. The first week he stayed living in the house and the 2nd week I asked him to leave because I was so upset. We haven't had any contact since he has left and ...

How can I add some excitement to our conversations?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for a little over a year. At first everything was fine. We always talked and got along great but now he doesn't really talk anymore. He says there's not much to talk about since we are always together. We're together ...

My bf says he never masturbates...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says he never masturbates. Said he's tried it before when he was younger and it doesn't give him pleasure. But I'm very skeptical about that. We're both 27 and in a long distance relationship. I have to masturbate when I'm feeling...

He's torn between two lovers -- should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - hi. i have this problem. recently, i became addicted to some kind of online game here, i met many different people out there. until then, i fell in love with someone who's also playing that online game. he's the first one to say his feelings for me, ...

She's really independent -- should I worry that she doesn't want to hang with me everyday?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - When dating a girl who is really independant and likes doing her own thing how do you go about dating her? She likes to hang with her friends and do things on her own. She is a freshman in college I'm a junior in college. Is this just what young ...

Am I old enough for passionate kissing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I am 12 and I'm madly in love with my boyfriend- we'll call him Steve (not his real name!!). I am going to a dance with him and he said he was going to kiss me. I want him to, I want him to hold me tight and French kiss me all through the dance. I ...

Does the guy always have to make date plans?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - Should the guy always be making the move to make plans when dating someone or is it the girls responsibility too? I feel like sometimes I'm always the one asking if she wants to hang out and I don't want to come across as needing her. ...

Is it wrong to be clingy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - Hi, Im 16 and my gf is 14. This past weekend, over a kinda lame misunderstanding, she almost broke up with me and after that was cleared up, the next day, out of impulse, she was messin with me about leavin me. After i cried and over reacted both ...

Do I really love him? Should we be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Ok so I have a problem. I'm a straight female who I think has feelings for her male straight best friend. I think about pete* him all the time and we talk everyday, he's always been there for me and just recently I think i've realised that I may ...

Help me figure this guy out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - What the heck is this guy doing and what does he want from me?? Is he just playing games? Does he miss me? What is his deal? A quick bit of background info: I was seeing this guy from October last year to middle of January this year. Then we ki...

I am tearing my hair out trying to understand him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Help please I'm in a relationship with a guy but he is so hard to read when it comes to his feelings that i am always tearing my hair out trying to understand him. He always txts me in the morning but today he was late so i sent him a txt that said ...

He told me everyone is different and he had his own way of being nice to me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I had another discussion about our relationship with my new bf and now I am frustrated. I am not feeling too bad because I expected this to happen. I like my bf. He was really nice when he was flirting with me a couple months ago and he wrote me...

Are these signs that he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - There is this guy in one of my classes. Every time look up he is staring at me. When he sees me he looks away really fast or he pretends to look up at the clock or something. I was talking to his friend and he was going to come over to talk to his ...