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Archived questions from: 2 April, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My ex is annoyed that I didn't try to stop her leaving!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and my girlfriend broke up with me. Yeah, I am heartbroken and she didn't tell me why she wanted to leave and I didn't ask because there wasn't really any point. Well I didn't try to stop her from leaving because if she wants to do this ...

My girlfriend won't give me blowjobs any more...

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - Right I'm new to this but here goes. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years, we have regular sex (almost every day) anyway about a month ago she said she's no longer going to give me blow jobs, I asked why and she said she doesn't like it ...

How do I get over unrequited love that supposedly won't be unrequited in a matter of time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - How do I get over unrequited love that supposedly won't be unrequited in a matter of time? THe scenario is similar to a Romeo and Juliette Story but twisted. I am in love with someone that was also in love with me for a period of time. It turns...

Advice please... Does size matter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Do good looking guys fancy plain looking girls? Do tall thin guys fancy small heavy girls because I am 5ft2"....

Which one is the one for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - Ok, so, last october the girl i liked (lets call her X to make this easier) told me that she liked me too, but then three weeks later X said that things were too weird and that we should just remain friends. We both moved on, or so i thought, as i ...

Was he avoiding saying I love you back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 6 years in january we had an argument lots of shouting and things said i didn't mean. A few days later he said he wanted to end it cuz after the row his feelings towards me had changed he wanted to be with me but just ...

How can I ask him out he knows I fancy him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - helpp!! ok i used my friends bebo to tell this boy i rly like tht i fancy him so now he knows and its not awkward we still talk to each other normally but i really want to ask him out but im scared hes gonna say no n things will get awkward help...

How does he feel about me?

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2 April 2009 (F) - Helloooooooo :) There's this guy in my school, he's in the year above me but we go to a drama club together and we get on really well. I started liking him alot and decided to tell him since I couldn't really hold it in. He said he though I was amaz...

I love him..but I feel I'm waiting for nothing!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and i had real intense passion. I love him still . But as far as being together we never work because he isnt ready 4 commitment! Hes 30 im 26. Two years we were together and no one has made me laugh so much cos he so clever and ...

Kindred spirits? He's already got a g/f!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I am a bit confused after getting a telephone call out of the blue from someone I regarded as a friend . He called me from work to say " that he thought we were kindred spirits " and wanted to give me his mobile phone number . He has a girlfriend , ...

Family already doesn't like my guy..is the strain too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating a man, who is very business oriented, for about 2 months. We met completely at random and have an amazing chemistry. However, three weeks into dating I found out he is ten years older than me, a huge blow because I am in college. ...

Hugging someone from the opposite sex in a friendly way vs. more than friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I have heard that there are different types of hugs and kisses in terms of just friends or something more. That is understandable; I just never thought of it that way. How do you hug someone of the opposite sex in just a friends way? How do you ...

Waiting for the right one

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - i'm 18 and still a virgin. is that weird? my friends tell me it's weird, but i just want it to be with a girl i fall in love with and i'm getting really self conscious about because everybody i'm around seems to have lost theirs early-on in high ...

Am I boring because I don't like to go clubbing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i don't really like going clubbing but i do socialize alot in different ways i go to house parties and like meet new people quite often but clubbing just isn't my scene. because i don't like clubbing does this mean i am boring? ...

Is dating your ex's sister a total "NO"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - My partner left me about 18 months ago now for another guy and at the time her sister spent a lot of time at my place, helping me with childcare. I fell for her and a while after I'd split up with her sister, we started dating. We dated for about 6 ...

I like her but don't want her to feel pressure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - Hi, i got girl problems. ther is this girl i really like have dun for a while to be honest, to me she is perfect i know noone is perfect, she's a red head too and got deep blue eyes her eyes literally are amazing they are so pretty and twinkly....

I call him sometimes up to 16 times in an hour or send 60 text message...could I lose him because of this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Hi, this is my short story... I have been seeing this guy for about 11 months now, we get along and like being with each other, we spend a lot time together, even in his busy schedule he puts time a side for me, he has his own business and is ...

Nudes & videos of g/f & ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - I was using my girlfriends email (she knows i know the log in) because my email wasn't working. I came across something that hurt me deeply. When she was with her ex, they exchanged n'udes and videos. I have no idea what to think, and i can't get ...

Having trouble making the first move

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2 April 2009 (M) - I've never felt this way about a girl before. I've felt it for so long....5 years in fact. I do not know how to start this. Perhaps I will describe her appearance. She's shorter than me and very slender, not too fat, not too skinny. The perfect ...

What does"take care"mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I got in a lil argument with my bf he txt me 10 min later and said sorry i meant not disrespect take care.. does the "take care" mean hes breaking up with me?...

He doesn't see me as his girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i was just wondering, this guy i have been seeing, he is the best ever. He has been married although his wife left 3 years ago.... We would go away on weekends alone and so, although he does not see me as his girlfriend, he says 'you are my ...

Every time I talk to him my face gets all red

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Hey everyone!! I need help umm....I am like really shy but I want to ask this guy out but every time I talk to him or anyone for that matter I glow bright crimson! And I studder it's humiliating! I mean I can't even answer a question in class ...

Friends don't like my boyfriend but I feel hurt and in love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I need help! a lot of help. Well me and my x bf have been on and off for a year. my friends hate it but im really happy even though im hurt when we break up. He says the sweatest things and i feel like my friends dont see the side of him that i do. ...

I don't want to get violent but I don't like the way my girlfriend's friends treat her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriens friends are always making her feel like crap and i cant do anything to stop it. I love this girl with all my heart we have been dating this girl for three years and she has helped me through a lot. I used to get in fights almost with ...

I just don't think I can cope with just being his friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts, I really need some advice, as I think I am going crazy. I have just ended a three month relationship. I thought we were close, we went out numerous times a week, we were intimate, although we never had full sex, we did everything else ...

I don't want this to happen but I feel I've fallen for him all over again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, it's been ok, but not perfect as no relationship is. We've had our ups and downs (with him cheating etc) but over all it has been great. About 6 months into the relationship I felt as if I was IN l...

I need help!!! I'm on birth control but don't use condoms... is this bad!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Ok.. so my boyfreind and I have been together 7 months and we are sexually active.. I'm on birth control and we don't use condoms.... he cums in me every time. We are protected with the birth control but are we still at risk??? I need help!...

Help! I can't seem to trust my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy this for a week and 3 days. I cared about him and have known him for a year now but I really can't trust him even although I should. I mean the only reason why I can't trust him is because I got played in the past and I ...

I'm scared she'll change her mind about the abortion.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - ok I have a huge problem! My girlfriend is pregnant, we are both 16 and have both been responsible. I have no idea how it happened as we had thought about it before and she was on the pill and I wore a condom which didn't rip or anything. An ...

Is hitting a guy as bad as a guy hitting a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

2 April 2009 (F) - Is hitting a guy as bad as a guy hitting a girl? Sometimes my bf treats me really bad, especially when he has been drinking. So last time we went out he was flirting with a girl at the bar and I confronted him and he turned around and snapped at me. ...

Ideas on a gift for my girlfriend...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

2 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and my gf is amazing and spring break is in 2 days and I wanna get her something nice. We're spending spring break together but I'm not sure where were gunna go yet. Wherever she wants I guess and I wanna surprise her with something to ...