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Dating: Help and advice

How much to spend on his birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Honestly, say that you've been dating this person for about (4) months now.. You're both planning to get away for the weekend. And his birthday is the following week. How much would you think of spending on his Big Day? Oh, and by the way, he's pa...

How can I get in touch with him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is in the navy and is currently away at sea! The only form on contact we have is through emails, and he only gets a chance to check his emails once a day. He doesn't have a phone with him. Does anyone have any idea how I would be ...

Advice needed... I don't know what to do, should I stay or get out of this stressful relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of almost 11 months now treats me like shit. She's controlling, demanding and takes me for granted... did I mention disrespectful... she insults me all the time and smacks me in the face or butt when she get's angry. Now I love her ...

I feel so boring...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year, and in all we've been pretty good together, up until recently I've been feeling that we've lost something between us, I love him so much and I don't know what I'd honastyly do without him, yet my own ...

Do we need to use protection and should I ask him to be tested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Do we need to use protection? Me and my boyfriend fool around, lately naked. We don't actually have intercourse, he just insterts his penis in the opening not inside, he doesn't ehh cum or anything, he has been sexually active before with at least ...

Taken girl with a lot of male friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I used to be friends with a ton of girls, but there was a bunch of stupid drama so I became friends with mostly males by the end of high school. I'd hang around them and just chill and play video games or eat or something. When I got to college, got ...

Do these things take time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I'm seventeen years old and have a boyfriend of 2 months who's a year older than me. We get along really well and I have strong feelings for him, but I'm one of these people who aren't really familiar with the sexual side of relationships, I've had ...

Follow up: I'm so confused and I'm just getting more and more upset about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - help is really needed here :( ummm well i havent spoken to my teacher for a year and then today i went up to him and spoke to him and i really dont know why :( i needed to ask him for these sheets to i did and then i asked him how he was as obviou...

Am I too weak for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - ive been going out with this guy for about 3 years,who is 8 years older than me,we have different worlds,which at first i was undenial of...) diff religion..diff culture diff family background and different social environment most of all diff lif...

I'm lost. Should I be happy I found someone who has an unconditional love for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Alright. I have been with my fiance for a year now. He asked me to marry him about 3 months ago and I said yes. I wasn't really initially attracted to him but he became a rock. My father passed away about two months after we started dating and he w...

Seems like were already going out, but should I go for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - so there's this girl... and shes really sweet and just perfect in my eyes and we've both started talking last year and now we talk alot but the problem is i have feelings for her and not sure about her... we talk about our love lives and who like...

I think I might be in love with my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - Where to start... well I think I might be in love with my best friend. lol how terrible isn't being so close to her mooning over her from so close. I feel almost shameful because where so close. I don't want to ruin our friendship. I've always had a ...

She used to be a HE! UPDATE

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - This is an UPDATE to my question yesterday, "She used to be a HE!" I read your responses. All of you, that replied to me, were right. I love her. She is everything I ever wanted, regardless of her past. I marched round there last night and told her ...

I'm 16, dating a 20 year old with a baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - hi my name is brian and i am 16 going on 17 i have a 20 year old girlfriend and my question is .. should i be dating her if she's 20 and has a baby boy?... and yet i still love her and her son?... so i am asking for your opinions so please send me ...

Waiting patiently

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We have known eachother for more than 4. He is 29 and I am 25. We live together, we raise his 2 children from a previous relationship and I also have a daughter who is 2 that he raises as his own ...

What's he waiting for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Ok so i've liked this guy for a while and i think he likes me. We flirt alot, he asked me who i would prefer to go out with out of 3 other guys and him i said him and he said that out of all my friends he would probably choose me. He asked me what ...

I think he's now using me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I've been in this relationship for a year now, I really love this guys problem is he doesn't know what he want's in life. On the other side his ex is busy abusing my rights and it also affecting our relationshit. Should I move on with the guy or ...

I dumped him but want him back... any thoughts on how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - here goes, I was going out with guy not too long ago and due to numerous different reasons we didn't tell anyone, he said that he loved me and I was special to him and meant alot, he also sent me lots of nice texts ect, and I really really liked ...

What did he mean by "You think you love me"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - After my bf left to go to his place, I couldn't sleep at all... because, when I said "I love you," he responded, "You think you do." What does this mean? That he thinks I really don't, that I am self deceiving, or that if I really knew him,...

Could I still have sex if on my period? And what could happen to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - well my boyfriends birthday is coming up and his gift i want it to be a night alone. and well been a night alone with your boyfriend things might happedn. the thing is that for that day i might be on the last days of my period. or maybe even a day ...

This texting lark is doing my head in. Should I dump her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - need advice girlfriend is texting 3 married men and its driving me mad sometimes its just conversation other times it has sexual references we have been going out over a year and are just about to build a house thing is she goes mad if other i even ...

A long story, and I need some advice on this love thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

1 April 2009 (?) - So here goes, Basically I met this girl whom I had a long distance relationship with. It was everything I ever dreamed of and we were gonna make our lives together.We talked for many hours a day, sometimes 5hours, sometimes 10hrs. We made it work ...

Do younger guys like older girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - is wrong to fancy a guy of 27 yaers old and i am 29 years old.its just a question.do younger guys like older girls.2 years is probably a huge age gap. i suppose younger guys don,t like older girls....

I'm mixed up! Am I just afraid of change or do I really want to stay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - ok, this is gonna be a long one! i have a choice to make and i'm going insane trying to figure out which is the best way to go. i have had depression for all my adult life (i'm 33) and i've always had trouble with self esteem. as a result i have go...

Why is this man playing games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I want to know why is this man playing games with me. We suppose to be in a relationship together we started off knowing each other very well . We even went out to eat on a date he us to give me money . We would go riding at night go to the club ...

What does "you are so sweet" mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - Can someone please give some input into this scenario? Especially can someone please advisie on what is meant by "sweet" I am from continental Europe and wondered what definition was meant by this? I've been chatting to this girl at the gym...

What are the chances I would end up with this girl again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - First off, I broke up with her like almost 3 1/2 weeks ago. I forced her into a position to get the divorce, but things came out that I didn't know about. At first I was upset about the whole situation, but then I realized that I have alot of gro...

What should I do? Stay away from guys for a little bit, or continue this one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - hey people. so... I'm just barly getting over this guy after 2 and a half years of crying over him. I know pretty pathetic right? but he was my first love so I guess I have a good reason. or maybe not. anyways. I've been through ALOT in the past two ...

Is it ok to be selfish in a relationship every once in a while?

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1 April 2009 (M) - hi guys just need some feedback to this question. Is it ok to be selfish in a relationship every once in a while?. Meaning that is it ok and normal to think about my needs and not just my partner's needs all the time....

How do you know if they really like you, or just want to sleep with you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - How do you know if a guy really likes you, or just wants some action? I refuse to be used. I need some advice, preferrably from males. Do you act a certain way, what goes on in your mind? Any signs to look out for.. Ladies, any past experi...

I'm not IN love with my boyfriend anymore & Not fully over my ex either...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I and 22 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. However I have been confused about my feelings for him. I feel that I love him, but im not IN love any more. I have wanted to break up many times but have never found the courage to do i...

Anyone's been in my situation??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - Ok usually i dont ask for help but I guess we could always use some good advice, so heres what i got, I guess you could call it a love triangle, thers this girl that's friends with my ex girl friend and I was friends with her ex, we dont really talk...

I need advice please. She is the one that I need!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - Alright, my name is "D". Me and this girl used to date a long time ago back when we first started talking everything seemed to be going fine and it was. After maybe a month of getting to know each other we started dating and i thought that she woul...

We're dating but I'm really wondering if she's over her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm currently in a bit of a complicated situation. I've been seeing a girl for the last few months who finished her 4 yr relationship about a year ago. When things started to get couply between us i could tell something was up and she told me ...

I cheated on him and he took me back but I wonder if hes trying to get back at me by his actions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - this is a long distant realtionship i have with my bf he lives 3hrs away frm me we have been going out for 5 months n some times i feel like he doesnt love me as much as he says he does idk if this matters but i feel like i tell him i love you more ...

How long should you wait to go on a vacation with your boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - How long do you wait to go on a (4) day vacation with your current boyfriend? Is there a time limit or just as long as you're comfortable with that person? ...

What is wrong with me? I've been single forever

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Why can't I find a boyfriend? I am almost 21 and I have actually never been in a real relationship. I feel like a loser because everyone else I know has been. The closest thing I got to one was with a guy who I was starting to see but slept with ...

I know I'm "ready" but I'm scared his penis won't fit in me...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have been dating for about 4 months and I'm still a virgin but he's obviously not. I really want him to be the one because I trust him fully and even if we do break up - I just know that he's the one. I'm only 14 but I know I'm read...