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There are times when my boyfriend makes me feel so miserable, what do I do?

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Question - (23 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, *eka076 writes:

Me and my boyfriend are so happy when we're together. but when we argue, it's a whole different story, he takes things out of proportion, and starts blaming it all on me, which obviously makes me feel really low. He shouts at me, he insults me and I end up saying sorry even if it isn't my fault. I love him to bits, and I want to spend my life with him but there are times when he makes me feel miserable. I don't know what to do...

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A female reader, heyy United States +, writes (14 October 2009):

typical, he is immature and inconsiderate of your feelings... Tell him to grow a pair one time when youre fighting and see what he says to that! Lol people tend to think... "Oh he makes me my happiest but he makes me the most depressed too" And think that that is because he loves you... Well let me tell you thats false... A person that loves you cares through thick and thin and is there for you. A person that is willing to talks things out rather then fighting and turning the situation around on you making you feel bad. Im sure you are a great person, dont ever settle for less than you deserve! Do you like yourself with that person? Does he make you a better person? Ask yourself those questions.

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A female reader, Karma12586 United States +, writes (24 April 2009):

You really need to talk to him and let him know how you feel. If it dont work then you need to start considering if this is something you want to continue. My child's father used to say all types of bad things about me when we used to argue. After a while, I left him because it was breaking my self esteem down. Its not healthy at all.

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntTrust me...he is not going to spend your life with you! You are too young to say that! And he sounds like a horrible boyfriend! Dump him and find someone who really likes you. If you decide to stay with him then just don't apologise or speak to him, when you start to argue just stop speaking! X

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