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writes:I was flirting with my boss leaving him hello notes and little candies now and then even jst stop by his office for innocent chit chat because I am attracted to him but I knw its wrong anyways my guy friend told me my boss told him about the notes and candy why would he tell anyone? I never speak of even our conversations to anyone else I feel betrayed and even embarassed. I don't knw if I can even talk to him anymore what if he tells more of what I say or do... do I ask why he told the guy?? Or jst let it go like I dnt even know he told. Im jst afraid he thnks its a cute lil joke to brag about idk why its bothering me my friend says I worry bout what others think to much and I am a great girl and have nothing to prove to anyone. I like being friends with my boss but Im still bothered and hurt he told. ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell thank u for ur advice and it was driving me nuts so I sent him an email letting him know I was aware he was telling other coworkers about the flirting and said I thought it was inconsiderate and kinda laughd it off and went into conversation so I saw that he read that email and the jerk never wrote me back what in the worl we had such good conversation talkn personal and family etc I hate to flush this friendship down like that maybe I will jst back away from it for awhile men!!! Thank u!!!
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 Sounds like your boss sees your attention as amusing. If he really fancied you he would make a move not discuss it with other co-workers. It also sounds like this boss does not take other's feelings into consideration so I would be very wary of getting involved with him. It would be horrible to have a date or sleep with the boss then find out that he has told your other co-workers all about it..... Rather back off from him and date someone who you do not work with.
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