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writes:So there's this guy I've know sine I was 4, really close friend, looked out for me, talked to each other about problems and he was really sweet and cute.afew years ago I found out that I kinda liked him...I didn't tell anyone coz I thought it was just gonna blow over but it didn't...Acouple of months later we all moved up school . I was a bit gutted that we didn't have any lessons together and we lost contact for a few months then we started seeing eachother again.I knew now that I really loved him, unconditionaly too.Then I found out he liked one of my mates and I was a little upset but not too discouraged. I decided to tell my friends I liked him and one of them told him and asked him out for me.I was a bit annoyed as I didn't want him to know... If I did I would have told him myself.He said no but I wasn't too upset. As long as he was still my friend...Well after the holidays he changed. He was moody and was a bit upset I kept asking if he was alright but he kept snapping at everyone... I knew it was about my mate though...He doesn't talk to me much now and kinda treats different and it makes me feel really depressed that I might have lost him as a friend I cry allot and still can't get over him... what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): thanks the advice really helped and he has also started speaking to me again saying that he really wants us to be friends :)
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reader, Who  +, writes (24 April 2009):
 "He doesn't talk to me much now and kinda treats different and it makes me feel really depressed that I might have lost him as a friend I cry allot and still can't get over him... what do I do?"
Well, for a few years, you cry a lot. I'm not trying to be flippant or cruel, but this guy you like, if he is in your same grade in school, and you are in the 13-15 age range you listed, then this guy is a teen age boy. All repeat all teenage boys are immature, by definition. This immaturity of his and all guys like him is going to make you and all your girl friends cry off and on for a while. I know this is hard on you, but I didn't invent this system.
Have you ever been to the beach? Have you every seen the tide go out? When it does, there is nothing any one can do to stop it. Likewise when the tide comes in there is nothing any one can to do stop the raising water.
Right now, at your age, the tide is going out on any chance of a decent relationship with a guy. But in a few years the tide will change. The guys will change and they will be obsessed with getting you girls to like them. You will be able to sit back and pick the one you want. Try to pick the most mature ones, and try not to be too cruel to the ones you don't pick.
Best of luck.
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