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writes:I can't get him out of my mind! The whole staring thing just won't let me. Right. Sorry about that. I needed to vent.Anyway, there's this guy at school, and I like a lot. My friends often thought that we were 'together' because of the way we acted, but we weren't. But then we had this fight and we fell out.When we fell out, he suddenly became close to this girl, and when she told him that she liked him, they started dating. But his gf is in love with a different guy and he KNOWS it. She doesn't even do anything for him! Its like he always has to do everything and she'll just sit there and wait for him. For example, if he's late at, she'll just leave. She wouldn't wait for him and it pisses me off.Anyway, I've been thinking if I should just tell him that I like him and get things all straightened out. But how do I say it? I just really want to know the truth on why he still keeps on staring at me and some others.So basically, how do I tell him that I like him and, most importantly, should I even tell him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Who +, writes (24 April 2009):
 "So basically, how do I tell him that I like him and, most importantly, should I even tell him?"
Well, I don't understand anything in your post except the part I quoted above. Considering I'm older than your grandfathers, I think I'm shooting better than par.
Should you tell him you like him? Everyone should tell someone this at least once in their life, and most people do it several times. (A few people do it once a week, but you don't want to be one of those people.)
How do you tell him? If you ask 10 different people you will get at least 11 different answers. I'm going to give you the old fashion answer. (Why? because I'm old.) Coyly tell him something that will get him thinking of YOU. That will get him thinking what and how he should tell YOU that he likes YOU. Something like:
"If you ever ask me out, I will say yes."
or
"Once your realize whats-her-name is treating you like dirt, you should come tell me. You don't need to tell me you deserve better; I already know."
Tell him something like this and suavely walk away. Stay away from him far enough so you won't be expected to talk to him, but not too far that he does not know where your are. Wait from him to come to you, and don't toy with him too cruelly when he does.
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