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writes:I'm 15 and my girlfriend is 14 and we are seriously thinking about moving in with eachother when im 20 and she's 19 are we crazy? Are we going to last that Long? Reply to this Question
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reader, molly4  +, writes (24 April 2009):
 why plan that now? just enjoy the relationship, and when you get to that age if you want to move in with eachother, then do it. you dont have to make that decision now.
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reader, Roxy1989 +, writes (23 April 2009):
 Well I am 20 years old now ,and boy did life look different when i was 15 :D
I was madly inlove with this boy,he was also my age ,and i honestly thought he was the ONE.we were planning to move in with eachother ,have kids, get married ... well we broke up and i was still inlove with him until i was seventeen ... And then I found the next soulmate ... who i am still with , we also talk about moving in together in a couple of years, but hey ... NO ONE can predict the future :) I would recommend you to just enjoy everyday with her and to mostly just enjoy your youth and freedom ... those things are worries for later ;) Have fun.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (23 April 2009):
No one can tell the future.
You may live happily ever after and have 5 million children and breed kittens.
You may break up next week.
Making plans for the future is fun. My husband and I regularly plan how we are going to build a big house that looks like a castle.
Enjoy it all and make plans but remember fate is a funny thing.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 Well, stranger things have happened. My husband and I have been together since we were 17 and 18, 36 years ago. I'm sure that you will get a fair number of people that are going to tell you that most relationships between younger people don't last, but that depends on the two people. The odds are probably against you, but only the two of you know whether or not you have the where-with-all to weather-the-storms and go the distance.
It's hard to think about not being a couple when you are young, in love and together, but sometimes things don't work out. I would trust her and put my faith in her and your relationship. Even still, if you should break up, you have to believe that life is going to take you down the path that was intended for you and that things will work out for the best. That may sound like a bunch of useless platitudes, but I honestly believe that everything happens for a reason and I've certainly seen that in my own life, all 54 years of it... And I wish I had a crystal ball for you, but the rest is up to you two!
Good Luck to the two of you!
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reader, niki20 +, writes (23 April 2009):
 its hard to say, over time, people change. living w/someone brings their true colors out. if you two are really dedicated when your 20, you two could srill be together but when high school comes new people come and you meet new people be confident in your relationship, and keep the bond between you two strong. it could work.
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