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Can't let him go, but he has a g/f

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Question - (23 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi, i have a crush on this guy, i practicly love him, for 3 years but he has a girlfriend. He knows that i like him by some messages i sent him on myspace. The problem is that i can't let him go. Whenever i see him i can't stop staring at him but when he looks i get embarrassed and look away. Even when he passes by i stare at the floor because i get too embarrassed when he looks at me. But whenever he looks at me he's smiling. Why is that? And why can't i let him go?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009):

yes let him go...just because he looks at you it does not mean that he likes you...you are showing the easy side and guys like it when girls look at them it makes them feel like they have pride...he has a girlfriend..i dont know how long they were together, but it seem like he really likes his girlfriend and if he wanted you he would ask you out by now..its okay that you look at him and he smiles but that is all you are getting from him...you seem like you have a problem with obsession and when someone is obsesses you have to break that addiction..trust me there are more cute guys out there and you will find a boy that will like you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009):

he may be looking at you,not caus he likes yu but caus you make it ok to cheat.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009):

sweetie, let him go. your flirting with hurting someone innocents heart here. he has a girlfriend and you are well aware of that. he may be smiling back, but thats all. let it go. this girl would be crushed, and you wouldnt like some girl fancying how to "let go" of your guy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009):

leave the guy alone- he has a gf. of course hes looking at you- your throwing off the easy im into you, but bashful, not too bashful to flirt/ want someone elses man. not only that but you want advice on how to ruin another relationship not how to let him go... otherwise you would have expressed remorse. not joy and hope that what you said about his response would be validated by someone else that its not just in your head- hes smiling at you. way to go you.

your young, find someone who isnt taken and try not to do harm to this relationship. you could end up with the guy, but if he leaves her for you, better believe he'll dicth your ass too!

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