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Dating: Help and advice

Why did he last so long during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - my friend have a guy friend that have sexual inner course with for a long time (8 hours) and she is tired of him but scare to let him no. She don't no what to do. She think that he have a problem about how long he last. she ask him is he taking any ...

Do you think she would change after telling me this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - Hey, I'm the 15 years old guy with the immature girlfriend. Ok well, I'm sorry if this is too fast but I had to write this because I'm running out of time. She sent me an email and tomorrow I don't know if I shoul talk to her or ignore her. Here is ...

Are there any signs I can pick up to know if a girl would like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I'm not too sure whats going on... before i had told a friend and i said she hadn't accpeted me well we had a long talk and everythings okay..but that was a while I finally had come out to my best friend he had freaked out and said he doesnt h...

Is my girlfriend being unreasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - Here's a problem that's developed over the past month while my girlfriend and I have been apart... We have been together four months, and friends for two years before that. We both live in London, although not together. She went back to Spa...

My friend is ignoring me since I told her about her boyfriend's cheating. Wouldn't she want to know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (?) - I tried to tell a friend that her man had cheated on her and going around town trying to talk to everyone. She wanted me to tell her at first then said she didn't want to know then told me who ever he is sleeping with it won't be for long because ...

Isn't it wrong he emails his ex when we are in a personal relationship now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - hey Aunts Ok ive recently been seeing this guy and things r moving very quickly and we almost had sex last night. Ive known him for ages as i work with him and have liked him since i started working there.. I came across his bebo the other n...

My girlfriend believes marriages aren't happy. How do I change her opinion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - I'm currently with a woman who is in love with me, or so I believe, and yet is afraid to have children or get married. We've only been seeing eachother for 5 months, so I'm hoping she'll change in a year or so...depending on how things go. If ...

He's perfect but I think he's not right for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Ok im 16. A met a guy through a friend and he really liked me, i was unsure about whether i did like him but i met up with him anyway. True he's not great looking but im not shallow its not all about looks. Though little things annoy me about him ...

I feel as if I had to compete with the computer for her attantion...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - why does my fiance always go online and ignore me and then get upset with me when i say something to her about being online all the time ??? We both had yearbook and tagged and myspace accounts and always argued over them so i erased all mine but ...

Should I talk to this girl about my old guy or just leave it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Should I message a guy's old lover to find out the whole story of what happened? Im currently in the process of getting over a guy I've liked for a while. I found out he's a jerk and was seeing other women while we were a thing. He now has a new...

How long does a girl have to be on the pill for it to be fully affective?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - I was just curious?? how long does a girl have to be on the pill for it to be fully affective?? ...

Why did it hurt when we had sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - When I have sex and he thrust in hard it hurts really bad. I know that this can happen when he my hit the uterus or the cervix. But I have had a hysterectomy so why is this happening?...

How do I stop being horny all the time?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Ive been single for about 5 months, which has ment no sex, the problem is im horny all the time, its driving me crazy and its all im thinking about How do i stop thinking about it? and how do i stop being horny 24/7? Should i just go and have a on...

I want to start having sex with him, but I'm afraid of the idea because I'm a virgin and he's not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Guys, I need your help! I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months, I'm a virgin, he isn't. He is absolutely perfect and wonderful, a really nice person, caring and lovely and all of that, and before he asked me out we were pretty much best ...

Why did my boyfriend tell me I was too young to get married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I don't know where this question will fit in. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and everything seems to be going pretty good. He seems very happy, I'm very happy. I'm not expecting a marriage proposal anytime soon, he's looking ...

My boyfriend sent his ex an email. What's the best way to handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has sent an ex-girl friend a email reading "remember me? thinking of you" now this is making my skin crawl!!!! How should it be handled? fuming red...

How can I tell him that I feel he is smothering me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, So been with this guy nearly 4 months now. We get on most of the time apart from when we argue and that is quite a lot. He is going on saying Im the one and wants to move in together, get married and have kids yet when we kiss I d...

The guy who broke my heart came back into my life. Should I take him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - i went out with a guy last year and really fell for him..but he ended up hurting me real badly..i never forgot him.. and i still love him.. the thing is that he came back into my life again.. asking for a second chance and telling me that he has c...

I think he likes me but his actions sometimes confuse me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Well theres this guy and well basically i'm confused. We're mates and eveything but i like him and i mean i REALLY like him. ut anyway lately we haven't been talking much, we went back to school on the 1st and we barely spoke then but today [...

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend wants a DNA test, what should I do?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - im 5months pregnant in and i cheated on my boyfriend in i dont now what to do? I know if its not my boyfriend than im on my own and its going to be over because he already thinks its not his because i use to work in the strip club.and he wants a dna ...

Can it ever work with a guy who's best friend with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - The guy Im seeing still meets up with his ex girlfriend - they are really good friends. I think I mind a little bit deep deep down but purely based on my own insecurities and because I like him. Can smoeone who has been in this situation tell me ...

How can I find out if this guy likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - so there's this guy in my science class that asked if i could help him with a worksheet after class the next day and i obviously said yes. well come to find out, he already had just about all of it done and didnt really need help. then as we were ...

I think I'm falling for a much younger girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - Hello all. I have a very confusing situation that I need help with. I am currently married but we have been living together but separated for years. We stay together because of our kids and the lifestyle for them; but neither of us are happy. We ...

How can I tell if my girlfriend is pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - I have a slight problem. I am 19 years old and my girlfriend is 17. we just started having sex about two and a half weeks ago. the second time we had sex my condom broke and i didnt know it until we were done. then i told her what happened. she has ...

Why doesn't he talk to me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - why dosent he talk to me? ive been seeing this guy for about 7 months through college. we have recently got back together after i dumped him becuse i wasnt happy. when we are together he dosent no what to say and we never talk, i no hardly anything...

Did I do the right thing for breaking up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Yesterday i broke up with my first boyfriend because he didnt like my friends and i liked another boy. He asked me out on msn so i thought i'd break up with him on msn so when i started saying how im breaking up with him he started ...

I'm afraid that if I tell him the whole truth about my past that he will not want me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I have a special guy in my life that i have dated for a year now and i am so in love as he is with me...at least for now anyway. i have told him all about my past, guys i have kissed and slept with (all of whom i have dated) and other miscellaneous ...

What can I do to make my boyfriend call me more often?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - i jst wna knw how to attract my boyfriend towards m so dat he wants to toke to m mre n mre on phn as he hates toking on phn for long hrs...dosnt gift me preasants nor surprse...tell m smthng i can do so dat he miss m alot n gets attrcted towards m ...

Why doesn't he say "I love you" in public, only privately? Why does he not invite me to visit his family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about one year two months, now; he has been using the "L" word for a while, now. I can't remember who started it. At first, it was, "you know I love you". Since he would always say such a thing, I stopped ...

Is he being trained to play with minds and lie?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - He is working as an investigative service agent, i respect him so much. But the question is he's in this job why he's so very good in playing others mind and a very good liar?are they being trained for these? He cheated his wife and also me (i dont ...

I'm worried about my relationship and the direction it's going, can someone help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

2 September 2008 (?) - next year my boyfriend and i are taking a gap year together in europe. we are going to live together and i'm very excited because i've always wanted to live with him. the thing is i'm a very independent person who really enjoys being alone, he ...

I don't remember my boyfriend putting on a condom, could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - ohh dear where do i begin?! sorry if it sounds rude or dirty or such. back to skool thursday, but im wodering what people will say to me because basically, on the 2nd of august, it was my best mates party, me and my bf were there, who ive known ...

Do you think changing my facebook status will prove anything or was it a mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - hi all, just started a new relationship with a really nice guy..... the relationship didnt start well i was seeing someone casually which broke off and he flirted with a female friend to make me jealous. i went over his last night and as we...

Is it likely he broke it off with me because he was afraid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Can anyone explain something to me?... Is it possible that a man wants to break off a 4 month relationship with you because he is just too afraid to get hurt? He has been hurt on 3 other occasions by women he loved and trusted and was left feeling ...

Is my boyfriend just keeping me sweet only to dump me when he comes back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - hey there, my boyfriend is now workin away for a few months but unfortunately in his job contact is minimal cut a long story short i found out just before he was leavin via another source that my bf had told his mom that it felt like i had been...

He called me a tease even though I told him I wasn't ready to have sex! Now I'm having nightmares....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - About 4 or so months ago I was with my ex bf. One night i was over his place and he kept harrasing me to take my clothes off. I kept saying no because I didnt want to have sex- i wanted to wait until we were in love to have sex. He said 'we dont ...

My boyfriend's personality has changed and I find myself going off him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Right this might be long so il apologize now! Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 8 months, we never had a honey-mood period, i dont no why we just didnt. when we got togther we argued all of the time but something stopped me endin...

Two years, a ring and a break?? I don't get it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Ok so I have been dating this wonderful man for over 2 and a half years this last christmas he proposed on his leave he has been overseas twice and his most recent tour he just returned from in march. Tonight he told me he needs a break I am not one ...

I fell in love with my female teacher but I don't know what to do about this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Im 18 years old and i just graduated from high school in june. Im in love with one of my teachers. i had her as a teacher the 1st semester. She is 23 years old so there is not that big of an age difference. I have sepent a lot of time with her alon...

Is it considered cheating if she kissed another girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - Ive beeen dating this girl for over a year and we talk about getting married.So its serious.I know I love her.But something bad happened and it really has hurt our relatoinship. The other night we was drinking with a few friends and she kissed a...

What can I do to have an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - my name is fanny, my question is: i never feel a orgasm before, just if i do it myself.what i can do? i really want to know how that feels?i take birth control pills do you think this is why i cant feel one? i love my husband and i tell him ...

Why does she do this? Why after being so nice to her does she treat me like garbage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - She uses her friend to talk to me. Hi, you may have heard of me in previous posts. The 15 years old boy with the not so nice girlfriend. First of all, I would like to thank the people who have supported me and answered my previous questions, ...

Could I just give him a "sensual massage" through his boxers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Hi so last night me and my bf were making out and well it just naturally progressed to my hand being down his shorts, but still outside his boxers/briefs. Well while I was there (this is gonna sound extremely embarrassing and stupid)I wasn't really ...

I can't stand my highly immature boyfriend! Please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. He is 19 but acts like a 15 year old;he is childish,immature and downright annoying.I am 17 but have been through so much in life that I have taught myself to be logical,rational and unbiased. ...

She gets upset everytime we have sex. I've offered to stop but we start all over again. Why is she doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - I have been having an affair for the last 2 years now with a married woman. We love each other but know what we are doing is wrong. We have tried to cool things down more than once but our feelings for each other are too strong. Anyway when we are ...

I have a thing for the bridesmaid but I don't know what to do in this situation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - My best friend is getting married in 4 weeks. I have a bit of a crush on bridesmaid. She is brides cousin. Not sure how she feels about me. Been around her a couple times, but the last time is the 1st that I felt something back. I wanted to say ...

Does it mean I might be gay because I find this guy fascinating and good looking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - So I'm a teenage boy in high school and I think I'm gay. How can you tell the difference between lust and love? I'm focused on this guy, which is sorta weird, b/c it's not like I'm stalking him or anything, but I just find him fascinating. He's a ...

Unprotected Sex....never worth it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Almost every day it seems there is a post that pops up from someone who has had unprotected sex and is worried about the possibility of being pregnant or having caught a sexually tranmitted infection. Alot of the time, this is due to them being pr...

My ex had to break up with me for personal reasons. Now they're resolved and I still love him. But I've got a new boyfriend that I love too. Is it possible to love two guys at once?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - well i went out with (and fell in love with) this one guy for a little more then a year, and later had to break up with him due to problems he had at the time. since then his problems have been solved, but i have a new boyfriend (that i think im ...

The boy I think I love went to Afghan and said he wanted to see what happened when he got back. But since then I've ben with someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I think i love sum boy but not sure if he feels the same. his in afghan and bfore he went he sed to me i do like yuu but i want to wait till i get bk and since then i have slept with over boys i dunno wat to do? Help me !!! xXx...

Do you think he knows I was raped at 14, or is he wantin me to make the first move for sex? we've been together over a year now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - dear cupids. ive been with my amazin boyfriend now for over a year and i love him with all my heart, we havnt yet had sex but have recently started to talk about it, like he was rubbin down there a couple of nights ago and i really enjoyed i...

How can I stop my boyfriend from being so controlling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - so i have this boyfriend who i think is just amazing in everyway, int he beginning of our relationship i was kinda torn between him and my fiance who i was going to marry. i was completely honest with him about the whole thing and told him that i ...

I don't understand why he would want her email but swear he hates her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - My live in boyfriend of 4 years he has a daughter that just turned 7 and between his family and friend they have all asked me if he is still in love with her he says he is not and wishes her out of his life forever and that he does not have the ...

Would my boyfriend go to jail if I had a baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend is 16 and im only 15. would he go to jail if i had a baby? (but i would be 16 when the baby arrives)....

I don't want to take a break, but we have few solutions to keep our relationship intact!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Well i recently wrote a question about how my boyfriend's family and friends don't want us to date. well we talked last night and we made two choices date behind there parents back and let his friends go with not wanting us dating. we would...

Why am I coming second to his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

2 September 2008 (?) - Hi everyone and thanxs for any help. Let me start at the beginning I go to school with this amazing guy who asked me out after a year of becomin bezzies but we broke up coz other people we'r presuring us to snog and stuff n I was realy young an...

How do I set boundaries so he doesn't take advantage of my help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Please help!!! I met this man, he is 10 yrs younger than me, im 36. He was wonderful, he lived an hour away and we were together every weekend. His ex died and he got FULL CUSTODY of his 3 and 4 year old kids which he just began to see when i met ...

Why does he one day tell me he likes me and the next day he ignores me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - hello, i know this is gonna take some time as there is quite a lot to the story, but anyway moving on. I met a boy who lives a couple of doors away from me, we became friends at the start i did really have a big crush on him and i admit it i did...