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Archived questions from: 28 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Do I forget this kiss even happened or should I talk to him about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - i've recently started a new job and there is this really nice guy ill call him james. me and james have been getting on great and we've been flirting and when we work together he always gives me a lift home from work, but the other day when james ...

What do these gestures mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - What does it mean if a guy you are dating but not in a relationship with, sometimes is looking at you in bed when you are a sleep and pushes your hair back from your face?...

My internet LD guy friend recently got a gf! I thought he was the right person for me, though...advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - One of my best friends lives in Canada, and I live in the US. We both have admitted to liking each other. He tells me the cutest things, things you wouldnt hear normally. He makes me feel like the luckiest person in the world. I dont get to see him ...

I don't feel his love anymore. May be I should give up. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I am 15 years old . My boy friend does not really like talking to me now like before. When I say that I like another guy but i already give up on that guy and now I only like him . A long time ago he cheat on me too, but i have forgiven him ...

Is a long distance relationship worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - About a year ago, this girl moved from LA and we've been friends since. We met at a church which we attend very so often. She is absolutly amazing. She has great personality, she's very cute and has an amazing body. The thing is, she lives too far ...

He's totally ready to take the relationship to the next level, but doesn't understand why I'm not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Im a 19 year old girl in the usa. I have recently become involved with a 39 y.o man who is from the U.K . I greatly enjoy his company and conversation but am afraid to commit. I feel we don't have a good chance because of the age difference. I have...

I confronted her about that secret and she said that she was NOT a girl at all...she is a transexual!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - I have a serious question that has been bothering me for a couple of days. I met this girl two months ago online and she and I were fully in love with each other. We always chat almost everyday and she has been sending me pictues of her. I thought ...

My best friend keeps asking me out, I've rejected him before, but he won't leave me alone.

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28 September 2008 (?) - My best guy friend keeps asking me out. I just want to be friends. I rejected him before, but he won't leave me alone. I'm trying to be nice and sweet but it's not working.I really don't want to hurt his feelings. Any ideas?...

Whenever we arrange to meet, he has to cancel at the last minute. Is he seeing someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hello, I met a guy about four weeks ago, we got on very well and have been texting chatting on the phone, but he never seems to be available to meet up, or else when we arrange it he has to cancel at the last minute. Is he seeing someone else?...

He picked me over her, now he's dating her. I still miss him. What do I do?

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28 September 2008 (F) - i'm pathetic. im still so in love with my ex, since we broke up in february we've been back and forth, and still having sex. we broke up cause he was trying to play me and talk to other girls, he even hooked up with one! the main problem we had was ...

I have these stupid obsessions, right now it's Richard Hammond.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Help! I am 14 and all my friends seem to have boyfriends. I am the only one in my year who has never had a boyf and it's really getting me down. I recently went through some points with my social life and I am too forward with people. Also, I have...

Am I reading it all wrong? Does she think we're just friends? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - I speak to this girl everyday and have met up with her numerous times for quiet drinks and a couple of days out mainly on her suggestion. Question is does she like me? i'm really into her- i feel comfortable and enjoy her company. but i can't tell...

How can I reclaim my life and feel better about myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, since I was a senior in high school. I have a complicated family life; my dad was mentally, physically, and sexually abusive and was kicked out of the house when I finally told my mom at age sixteen. ...

I'm young, I don't want to be trapped in a pointless relationship for the rest of my life, so please, help me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hi. this is actually weird and hard to type and to share with everyone, as i havent spoke about this to my best mates, or my family, as i know wht theyll say, but i dont know if i want to except it. I'm 17 and have been goin out with my bf, who is 2...

I think he is generally shy,please help!

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28 September 2008 (F) - I have been taliking to a boy i met at a party for about a month now. we have met a few times mostly with our mates with us. whenever we say bye we always hug, but nothing else has happend. im not sure wether he likes me but we were out once and he ...

Can I have my cake and eat it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hello, I've been in a relationship for nearly 3 years, is a long term friend that went further, she is married and has intended on leaving her husband but we have had set backs, we've had our ups and downs as any normal "proper" couple go through,...

I can't bring myself to ask her out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Ok,, I'm having a bit of a problem. Theres this girl I like and I think she does me, thing is, I can't bring myself to ask her out, or even ask for her number, I do talk to her quite a bit and I really believe that shes meant for me. Now, 2 th...

Why in the world won't he have sex with me? It's been a month!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Warning, this is a sexual problem with a little bit of graphic detail, hope it does not offend! I've been seeing this guy for over a month just now, and since we live 30 miles apart, every time we've got together we have also spent the night ...

Am I being unreasonable with my boyfriend about going out by himself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hello I have a boyfriend since almost 8 months ago, we really get along very well, and he is wonderfull with me and he does everything to please me. We both have very tight schedules so we normally see eachother 3 times a week. I know he has give up ...

Please help with my drunk, insecure boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I need some help, I hope you have time it's a long story. I just turned 28 I have been with a man for 12 years, he was my first everything and we have 5 kids together. Here is the problem, he drinks ALOT. At first it wasn't so bad but know it if ...

We were forced apart and now I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5688 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I were forced apart. During the first few months we were apart, she lied about me, lied to me, and was flirting with her ex boyfriend. Then when she said that we'd "never be allowed together again" she gave up and dated him, yet ...

I feel like I'm cheating again! Will someone please help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 September 2008 (?) - Im in love with my boyfriend of 1 month and my best friend of.....over a year. Im soo upset, because of everything thats been said between my boyfriend and I...things like...I'll always love you, your mine forever....ect. I always said i love you to ...

Dazed and confused....do I follow my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I'm very confused at this point. Here's the deal, I'm currently in a relationship that has been going on for just a month. 2 weeks before i got with this guy, my ex and I had just broken up. I would sometimes space out while talking to my current ...

Why is he not replying to my messages? Did I make him mad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I have a male friend who I made while he was serving duty here in TX. We only met twice but got attracted to each other. Unfortunately, there was no time for anything else. He left a week after to Korea (He´s military). We started to keep in touch...

Will this LDR work out or is my friend only asking for heartache?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I was wondering if my friends new relationship will work out? They've been dating for 1 month and the first week in September, she moved away for school and will be back at christmas. However, they will be spending 4 months apart at a time. She neve...

On having a bisexual boyfriend.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I am currently dating a bisexual guy. I know he loves me and would do anything for me - that's not what is in question here. I recently found out that he's been looking at pictures of naked guys. Fine- it's like how straight guys look at porn. Wh...

He's pushing himself away when I need him the most! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - i've been going out with my BF 4 7months now, its been great up till now, we've both said that we love each other which was true, i still love him. But near the start of the month i've started feeling off (emotionally, physically and mentally) my ...

He cheated but didn't go all the way with her. Should I be okay with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Well ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and around April he cheated on me with a girl.. he didnt go all the way with her. Well i forgave him and we've been fine ever since.. well the last week she text him for the 1st time in ...

Would it be acceptable for me to ask to visit her sometimes, to have dinner together? Her college is about 1.5 hours from my house.

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28 September 2008 (M) - My question is fairly simple, but requires some exposition. I just started freshman year in college. Throughout high school, I had feelings for a girl who was one of my closest friends. We started dating around middle of senior year, and had be...

I asked his friend if he was single, he said no, then returned to say that in fact he was single. He works near and I'm suddenly super shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I'm not an overly shy person, but this situation is making me feel incredibly timid, and I don't know how to go about it. I work at a mall, and from the entrance, I can see across to the other store. I'm not usually anywhere near the entrance, bu...

No commitment, and I think he may be controlling, should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 5 mths. He tells my straight up he doesnt want a girlfriend but on the other hand he says if i see anyone else, touch, kiss, etc. then its over between us.And he's not seeing anyone else.what does that mean? are there ...

Am I a chump? Why am I even thinking this stuff?

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28 September 2008 (M) - Here's my story. I did have sex until I was 25 with a girl who I had pined over for a LONG time. We then had a 2 year relationship which started off great- both in love, it wasn't just physical I think we clicked quite well. Going into the second y...

What could all these symptoms mean? I'm so worried and confused!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Alright, so I posted a couple of days back to get peoples opinions of whether or not I was pregnant. So a quick summary of that was - "I had sex with a boy, he had a condom, but I told him that he didn't have to wear it, and he said he would, b...

I like her and I want to be her secret lover for as long as she is here (she has a boyfriend back in her hometown). How should I go about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm confused, excited, nervous and thrilled at the same time. I feel overwhelmed. Yesterday night/Earlier this morning I slept with a beautiful woman that I meet last week. It wasent love at first sight, but more like ins...

He is ready to break up with his gf for me, but I'm worried about my reputation. I also need tips on how to react if he approaches me sexually, as I don't want him to break up with me if I reject him!

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28 September 2008 (F) - dear agony aunt, i have 2 problems and have no idea how to deal, first of all i like this guy who likes me back and he is prepared to brake up with his girlfriend for me but i am afraid of what others might think, lets put it this way; i always ai...

We like the same boy, but now she's getting competitive. Who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Ok so there is this guy that me and one of my other frends like. We both dont know if he likes one of us but we dont wont to ask him cuz we dont wont to hurt the others feelings. I flirt with him when i can but im always worrying about if she sees ...

She might be cheating, should I confront her or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - me and my girl have been dateing for 2 years now but people keep telling me she is cheating on me and she gos to college so she nevver has time for me i dont know if i should belleve them and brake up with her or to just dropp it what should i do ...

Is it wrong for me to date an 18 year old guy? I'm 14.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Ok so is it so wrong for a 14 year old girl who loves a 18 year old man be such a bad thing? I feel in love with a man named Daniel and he feel in love with me to, but my mom found out we were together and called him to "talk" to him. Now I am band ...

My soulmate is a gay male who's sending mixed signals. I fear I'm going crazy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Four months ago I connected with a co-worker. We began hanging out profusely shortly thereafter, with an unexplainable urge to be together every night. We would find ourselves talking until 3 am in parking lots in deep discussions that we never ...

We break up when we fight but get back together, then the cycle continues. Opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot this week. We have been dating for about 4 months and we live together. In the beginning of the relationship we had a fight in which he called me a fucking bitch. I told him we needed to just be friends ...

Can I date my ex-girlfriend's friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hey, I've been going out with this girl for couple of months but we broke up past summer. We broke up because she said she only wanted to be friends but she still had feelings for me. Since school stared, I've started to hang out with one of best ...

Is there a chance for us? I know I sound selfish but he was my first and only love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - i met this boy in 2006. He chased after me for one year and a half and we went out for a while. everyday he would call me and we spoke for 4 hours. he wanted to spend all the weekends with me. but i cheated on him with his friend. he caught m...

What do her words and actions mean? Friends or more? And what should I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - I need some help with this situation: FACTS: - We've known each other for about 2 months, met through a friend - We've spoken everday wether it be txt email or msn. But extensively -huge messages numerous times a day - We met up for a few dri...

My psychologist wants me to go out on a date, as I never have had that experience before. The problem is that I have a boyfriend who lives in another state....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - When I went to my pshycologist today, she told me that I need to go on a date with someone. She doesn't care if he becomes my boyfriend, she just thinks that the experience of going on a date with someone would help me, because I've never had that ...

Am I really his number one girl or am I blinded by love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - My ex and I have been broken up for about six months since april almost and now he has a new girlfriend after we broke up we were still dating on and off until the middle of july and we stopped because he found a new girl. now its september and she ...

I like my friend's boyfriend, he likes me too, now I'm wondering if I should tell her what happened or keep my mouth shut?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - ok heres my problem well my freind she has this boyfreind right so we were having this party and latley i have been having feelings towards her boyfreind but i figured that since she is dating him i keep my mouth shut so like were at the party an...