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Archived questions from: 6 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

If my parents find out, that my bf and I are having sex, they may not let me see him! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - I gave up my virginity to my boyfriend and I don't regret it. We are always safe when we have sex and we love each other so much that we are hoping to spend the rest of our lives together. I'm just not sure what to do about my parents. They were 20 ...

I consider him the villain but I know she's not innocent! How can I forgive her and move past this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I met a girl a couple of weeks ago, and we've been seeing eachother regularly. Our usual evening plan is to go to her apartment, eat some food, watch a film, have sex, and go to sleep. They've really been wonderful evenings. When this starte...

Is what ever happens for the best or do I need to choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - right, im extremly confused at the moment. ive known this guy `stu` for nearly 3 years, and from about the 2nd day of knowing him i have fancied the pants off him, and over time learnt to love him. 1 year into knowing him he gets a girlfrie...

What would you say his intentions are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - I have been aquaintances with this guy for like 6 years or so though mutual friends, etc. I just moved about 7 hours south of home and found out he had done the same so I contaced him because I have NO friends down here. I never really looked at him ...

He dumped me because "I liked him too much." So how can I be a good girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - Boys are sometimes very hard to understand, especially my last bf. I am usually a pretty good reader of people but i could never read him. For instance, i couldn't tell if he was flirting or not, or if he was nervous. But the thing is, some months ...

One woman likes the idea of a relationship of three, the other wants a monogamous deal with maybe the occasional fun. Who do I pick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - I have a problem that i was hoping you could help me with. I am a man of 20 who has had a girlfriend 'Hannah' for the last 4 months. We agreed in the beginning that it was an open relationship and we have both dated other people throughout the ...

A day in the mind of an attention addict

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - A Day in the Mind of an Attention Addict It's morning, and time to put on my make up, fix my hair, and wear a new outfit. I'm thinking about the female friend I'll see today who'll comment on how nice it is and I feel an adrenaline rush, Now I'...

He says the chemistry just isn't there. Will this change in the future?

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6 September 2008 (F) - I dated this man, age 50, who was never married, for 3 months.We were very passionate and attracted to one another. We never had sex as he wanted it to be a "spiritual experience." However,when I asked him what direction our "friendship" was headed, ...

My boyfriend joined the army and I want to go with him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - hiya, ive been with my boyfriend for two years, and hes just joined the army, hes been in there for 5 months now, and i cant cope, im worried and scared and hurt that he will eventually be going to athganistan, im hurting so much you have no idea, ...

Are there any ways to comfirm that he likes me a lot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - I am a girl of the age of 16, wanting to go out with a boy of 25. We have flirted a bit, but i know if he likes me enough, will ask me out. The thing is, before we get too close to each other ( getting into a relationship), i want to know if it ...

He held my hand? What can this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - i need ur help... there's this guy i like very much, and i THINK he likes me back, since he recently started playing with my hair as a bunch of us were over a friend's house... and another time as we were giving a girl a ride home, me and 2 other ...

My mother in-law came onto me and I accepted. Now I don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - About three months ago I was visiting my wife's parents for her uncle's 45th birthday celebration. The party was a great time, and we were all taking advantage of the open bar. I don't want to go into too much detail, but what basically happen...

What was your first instinct when a girl wants/wanted you to "finger" her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - Hi preferably I'd like it if JUST THE MEN answer?.. What is/was your first instinct to do when a girl wants/wanted you to "finger" her?...

How do you get your man to love you again, without giving up who you are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - I have been having trouble with my boyfriend for a while now. We have been together for 3 years and it seems like everyday our communication and trust is decreasing. I have done somethings to show him how I feel about him but sometimes I feel they ...

Is it normal to be virgin at 18?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - I'm a male, 18, and still a virgin but all of my friends aren't. I'm afraid that i will be made fun of for being a virgin if they ever find out. Is it normal to be a virgin at 18?...

If he said that I was ugly, then why does he keep on staring at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - There is this guy in my class. He keeps on looking at me. Last week I heard him call me ugly to his friends. I was right there and heard him. When they look at me in class, I saw that they laughed and smile at each other. I don't even know or ...

My boyfriend is emotionally detached. I was raised in a loving home and I'm not used to this. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - Hello..my name is lisa..i am 40 yrs of age...i have been withmy partner for 8 years...the relationship has not been an easy one...in the beginning, he had a problem with jealousy (and of course it was me who paid), he also had a problem with alcohol ...

Why would he said I was stalking him when he was the one who called me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

6 September 2008 (?) - at the end of the school year last year my friends told this one guy i liked him. i was pretty sure he liked me too. so in the middle of the summer he called me. which means he must like me, right?. every time he called he was with his friends and ...

My girlfriend got sick after we had anal sex. What can I do to help her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - Hey everybody recently me and my girlfriend had anal and vaginal sex and she has been sick for 2 days straight and she says she feels as if her asshole ripped and her vagina is ripped also and when we were doing anal she was bleeding... She got a fe...

Is it wrong to have fallen for my (dead) best friend's girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - Just to start things off, my best friend went out with a girl for 2 years before coming to university. They broke it off in the first week of university. He then started going out with another girl, and they were going off and on for a year before ...

I like this girl but I think she doesn't like me back! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - Im asking people this because i need help. ok, i really like this girl. but she doesnt like me. i mean i guess she likes me as a friend cause we talk but only during our last school periods. anyway she is really popular. i really like her, i think i ...

Is this love, lust, or infatuation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - ok, iv been dating a guy for just over a month, we get on great, known each other for a while, i feel as though i love him , can this happen so soon? ive told him i love him to bits , and he has replied with the same answer, we can si...

Should I worry if I'm the one who usually calls first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I have been with for almost a month and called him on Tuesday wanting to talk to him since I started school the next day, I called while he was eating so I said "How about you call me when you're done?" he said "ok" and that ...

What does it mean when a woman makes the motion to touch you but then stops?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - I have a question about this female friend that I am attracted to, although I am already in a relationship with another woman. When she is talking to me, she sometimes goes out to touch me but then stops just before. In one conversation, this ...

What did she mean when she said this! I'm so confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - Ok im confused as to what she was saying by this. Basically i liked this lad for ages n he had this friend whos a girl that suddenly started talking to me after something very suspicious happened(as if she found out soemthing about us) and then we ...

My parents don't aprove of my boyfriend because he's a few years older than me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - Okay, so I went to this camp, Habitat for Humanity, and I met the greatest guy. He's sweet, caring, and we have ALOT in common. He really likes me, and he is dealing with my emotional baggage and all my other problems and faults. The only problem ...

My roomate's womanizing habits are affecting me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - I am a freshmen in college and my roommate is a womanizer. Within the past two weeks he has walked in the room with 6 different girls. I feel like this is going to be a problem later on in the year. I feel strangely guilty that I know he is going ...

I need to know how to ask this girl out before this other guy does!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - hello. i like this girl a lot and im pretty sure she likes me back but i cant think of how i should ask her out. any help? o and btw this other guy likes her too so i need it quick. plz?...

My man has lied a lot about his "hobbies" and I don't know what to do about this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - My man is not descriptive of his attraction regulars of women or new interests, he claims to be pristine as men go, he has lied alot and done repeated hidden female related actions (porn , small mistakes with othr women) I have found out on own or ...

At the beginning he put a lot of effort to see me but now he rarely does! Why did he change so suddenly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - im mad about this guy that i was seeing briefly a while back. we stopped speaking though really and would only see each other very occasionally. but the thing is i can't get him out of my head..and its been like this for a while now. i'll think he...

Am I right for wanting to lose weight before I meet him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - can someone please give me an opinion! i met this guy about 2 years ago through a friend, we only met like 3 or 4 times but i fancied the pants off him! then he randomly added me on msn about 2 months later and we got chatting! hes proper amazin a...

Is it considered cheating if I masturbate to porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

6 September 2008 (M) - I have a question for the aunts and uncles of DearCupid. I'm a 18 year old male starting university in a few weeks. I have a girlfriend, the same age as me, who is also going to uni, but its a 3 hour distance and i wont get to see her as much. The...

How can I ease my boyfriend's pain as his mother just died?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - Hello. Even though my boyfriend and I have been together for around a month, we have a strong connection. He lost his mother 5 months ago, and I do not know what to tell him to relief his pain. We keep telling him that she's in a better place now. ...

The problems in our relationship is making me think if I should terminate my pregnancy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend were together for 3 years ive been pregnant befor with him, i didnt keep the baby....later im now pregnant again....we were having some major problems befor we knew and he wanted to move far away, i found out i was pregnant and ...

I had a really weird dream about this guy. What does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

6 September 2008 (F) - Last night I had this realy wierd dream. It was about me and this other boy I have never seen in real life, and came into the room and we were about to have sex but then I had told him I was not ready. And it felt so real like it was it was ...