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Archived questions from: 21 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Was I just a rebound to her? She now has a new man, how do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - I met my ex about 3 years ago, we were introduced by a mutual friend. The 3 of us would meet and play pool and have a few drinks a couple times a week when I was back in town from work. This went on until the start of this last summer. Now during ...

I want 'revenge'.....What can I do to prove my point?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, My problem isnt that significant, but any advice possible would be extremely helpful to me in many ways. Me and my boyfriend of a couple months broke up recently because i guess he didnt like me anymore and wanted to go out with t...

She wants him to give her money, if he doesn't - he doesn't get any sex either.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I met a 40yr old man that had been living with a 19 yr old and he was gaga over her. she decided to call it quits. Though it boosted his ego 'cause of her age, said he probably would not ever get it again {the age thing}. He has been married to an a...

I found out that he likes someone else, I'm completely crushed, because I am hopelessly in love and I don't know why.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I am confused because this guy has been my friend for a while but the flirty type of friend. me and him had a lot of jokes, but when anyone asked him if he liked me he would say, I'm waiting for freshman year to see if i like anyone, i had been ...

Did he really understand that he may have made a big mistake!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - hello. i love my boyfriend so much. we are not from the same country and we are both foreigners in the country we live. he doesnt have a family he grow up with facing every problem by himself. he realized that first time in his life someone is ...

She asked one night if I wanted to kiss her, I said yes, and we did. Then she says she's not okay with it. I need some answers please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I have a friend who Ive fallen for, and when I told her she ignored my comment. One night after another conversation she asked if I wanted to kiss her and I said yes, so we did. It was the best ever and I never felt complete. After that night she ...

Since the first day back at school he keeps staring at me and blushes when he see's me. I really like him, but don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Well there is this guy who i really really like and ive liked him for a few years now. Anyway last year he found out i liked him and stopped talking to me. In may/june my friend Hannah got us to sort things out and we did. He started going out with ...

I'm 14, he's 16, and I really don't care what people in school say, we just really want a baby.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I am 14 years old and my boyfriend is 16. we really want a baby. we have picked out a baby name and everything. i know my mom and dad would be really upset with me, but i really want this, so i dont know what to do. I mean everyone is always t...

I have felt from the start that he is the one, but I don't want to get my heart broken again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 3 weeks now and I have felt from the start that he is the one. He says I love you to me and I know it's really soon and new into the relationship, but I just can't shake the feeling that he is the one. How can I go abou...

What does this body language mean?... I am constantly bemused and curious by the way he moves his legs...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Hi, There is this boy I like at school, we talk alot and I THINK he might like me. the thing i dont understand is, he does this weird thing sometimes - if we are talking and are getting abit flirty or jokey with one another, and he is sitting do...

He seemed interested at first but recently he's gone very quiet, I don't understand!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Hiya, For the last few weeks i have been getting to know a guy, who i have been liking more and more. I'm a little confused as he seemed very interested about a week ago now hes gone very quiet, do you think hes losing interest? A couple of my ...

When guys notice me I get scared and push them away, may be because I am a virgin and experience pain while masturbating (fingering) - hence I am very worried about my first time! Tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I'm 20 years old and have never had a real relationship. I have only dated one guy and it was for a month. (This didnt really count though as he had just broken up with his gf of 3 years, and I was his rebound). I can like a guy for months, but as ...

As soon as I notice someone likes me, I immeddiatley get scared and run off, thinking they only want sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Hi im a 19 year old girl probably uv heard the same problem from other people like me. The thing is iv only dated like one bloke, ok its not much but its what ive done,and he stopped liking me. Anyway when i go round pubs with my mates i get a...

Did he want me to check his messages?? He forgot his mobile at my house. I panicked and deleted new messages. Tell him the truth or play dumb, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Hi all, Ive been having a casual relationship with someone at work,he says he wants me to be his girlfriend but im not so sure if thats what i want. he left his mobile with me over the weekend - did he want me to read his messages from other girls...

Does it sound like he might be attracted to me, and what should I do (other than smiling) to let him know I'm interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I started a job a few weeks ago and there's a guy there who I'm attracted to. I think he likes me, because once he joked with me about something I did, saying "You must think you're special." I responded that I was glad he noticed that I was ...

Am I sick and digusting to have feelings for my ex brother-in-law? My ex husband was abusive, his brother's the opposite.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - recently devorced from husband. have never cheated on him not once. what ended our marriage was I descovered he had and was cheating on me. for a few Years I had a secret crush on his brother. I never told anyone. My x husband and his brother ...

What should I do? Tell him the truth or pretend I don't feel anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Well, my ex boyfriend tells me he still loves me and then ask's me how i feel, i just say, dno. The truth is i still love him loads. But i dont no wether to tell him that because then he might think i wont to get back with him, or there could be s...

What can I do to know if she truely loves me or she is after my money as I use to give her money?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - i have a girl friend i loved her so much but she hasnt show me that she loves me though any time we are together its allways lovely and she always act good and that makes me feel good but immedaitly she went out of my side she dont use to call...

Help! She blocked me and changed her number!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - hi .. my name is manas ...a fashion design student from india...last two months back we had a workshop where we were working with students of turkey,izmir. we were made into groups and there was a girl name Begum who was my workshop partner .we ...

Is he scared to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Hi Evreyone heres a thing 5 months ago i went on a date with this bloke anyway we had a nice time but he ended it suddenly, Anyway we became friends so that was ok. Heres the thing hes a barman so when i go out with my friends i see him we talk...

He cheated and doesn't want my autistic brother to be a big part of my life! Can this still work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Dear Aunts, I've been dating this wonderful guy for over 2 and a half years. He is my best friend, and he has always treated me amazingly. Recently we had sex for the first time and lost our virginities to one another, and we've talked about ...

He hates one of my children for no reason! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my partner for 4 yrs and have 2 children from a previous marriage.Two years ago i left my home to live with him some 60 miles away. All was well we get on just slendid but he hates one of my children. A few months ago he ...

I feel I would look stupid kissing guys. How do I take the edge off so I can actually date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm in high school but am worried about the way i look,like every other girl i guess.Most of my friends have boyfriends or have recently been in a relationship.I have not been in a relationship for over three years. ...

Have I ruined my chances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - I have posted on here before about a girl i really like and we have talked every day wether it be text, email, or msn and i am starting to fall for her i think. It's only been about 6 weeks that i've properly known her (she's a friend of a friend) ...

Is this just a hopeless relationship or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - im so confused over this guy!! we were seeing other briefly for a while a few months back and then it got very brief..such as seeing him once every couple of weeks. i went to see him a week ago and since then we havent spoke. i saw him out last ...

She told me she met a friend to tell him not to contact her, but I discovered they are still talking. Any thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - hi. my girlfriend kept a secret meeting from me a while ago. she says she was visiting an aunty. so i thought nothing of it. then i found out it was some guy. not a date, friends. i didnt believe her. she told him not to contact her. this was in ...

We discussed marriage but I have second thoughts as I don't want to feel tied down, I do want to be with her though and am worried about hurting her feelings!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm in a situation where i really don't know whats going on/gone on in my head recently. I'm in the forces and based in germany, i went home for a bit of summer leave at the beginning of august this year and met an amazing girl who lived in...

Do males find red hair a turn-off?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

21 September 2008 (?) - Just a quick question, because I'm beginning to get paranoid: Do males find red hair a turn-off? Will he reject a red-head if she asked him out, because of her hair colour? And if you have been asked out by one, did you oblige, and were, or cur...

What are the rules of a casual relationship?? We connect intellectually and will provide comfort, intimacy and attention to each other, but neither of us is ready for a serious deal!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - what are the rules of a casual relationship? Hi all, I'm in a 'contractual' relationship with a guy. He's 10 years older than me, divorced and is not looking for a serious relationship. Plus he's not local. I just got out of a messy relationship as ...

Is he asking me to coffee because he's being 'nice', or is he asking me on a date? He's married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I've known this guy for about a year now. He's 11 years older than I am, married, and I'm confused about his intentions. I always made sure that we only interacted at work. I'm not going to deny that there is an attraction there, but I'm not that...

Do you think he really likes me or he just took me for granted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - so everything started in the bar. this guy is the brother of my friend's boyfriend. we danced and got drunk. i'm not totally drunk so im still aware of whats going on that night. he's trying to kiss me but i always ignore it. but after a couple ...

Don't know how to tell him that it is really his brother that I like and not him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - ok there is this guy who i really like, and he kind of likes me also. but the bad thing is his brother is one of my best friends and he also likes me. well his brother asked me to date him and i said no that i wasn't wanting a relationship at the ...

I like to masturbate but once I got a urinary tract infection and I'm afraid to do it again... any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Okay i have a bunch of questions might as well put them in one thing! Do guys like Pubic hair? If not how do you take it off without those lil' hairs sticking up? (yes iv shaved it before!) How do you tell a guy you like him when you have hi...

Do you think he let me down gently by saying he was going out of town?? Should I go over to his house since he invited me?? He is 10 years older, by the way...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I have a really big crush on my neighbor. It all started about a month ago when we started talking outside and we realized that we had a lot in common. He gave me a few signs that he was interested in me so I decided that I would ask him out. I saw ...

I know can't MAKE him like me, I just want to know, what would be the best way to try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - okay well i'm thirteen and i really like a guy but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still like him tons and i like his cuzin more cause his cuzins way cuter, but thats not the point, anyways. i dont ...

How do I show him I like him without telling him so...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - im a 13 year old girl. I have a crush on someone, and i am really desperate for a boyfriend. I dont know if he likes me because sometimes hes sending me lots of messages by myspace, he laughs at my jokes but sometimes he completely ignores me. How ...

I feel gross and trashy after my girlfriend told me how 'going down' on her is so disgusting!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have oral sex. I know that she really enjoys it when I go down on her. This morning I wanted to arouse her so I started talking about eating her pussy. She went on and on about how disgusting eating pussy it. How it’s so gross...

I want to seduce my 30 yr old teacher for fun. Any tips on how?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Ok, how can i tell if my male teacher is interested in me? Like what signs should i look for? How do i seduce him? Im 17, a highschool senior, and he's in his 30's. So I want 2 seduce him for fun. what way can i do that? Me and him get along like...

I'm truly willing to wait as long as I have to for her. I guess my question is - how do I keep myself sane in the meantime?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - I'm a recently divorced 29 yr old male with a HUGE issue. I'm in love with someone elses wife! After my marriage ended close to two years ago I approached relationships in a whole new way, overcautiously. I "played the field" for a while trying t...

At first we couldn’t keep our hands off each other, but now he doesn't even want to be alone with me. I need advice please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend doesn’t seem to like being alone with me anymore. Most of our pastimes now always seems to involve friends and family. We both developed sexual problems and I wonder if it is to do with that. He told me right from the start he can ...

Will I be better off hurting because I broke up with him, or hurting because he doesn't love me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half. we both lost "it" to each other. i was pregnant once and lost the baby. my point is we've experienced a lot together. we were in love for the first year. we were planning to get married as ...

Every time I'm about to get over my ex, he tells me loves me and I fall deeply in love with him again! Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - What should I do? Every time i think im starting to get over my ex b/f, he tells me he still loves me, and that makes it hard for me to move on. I know i still love him but don't want to get back with him, cos of what he did, and when he says 'i-m...

I found out he was meeting his ex behind my back, now I want to know if I did the right thing....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - So I really need help on this one.... I just broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half. The woman he dated before me he dated off and on for about eleven years and I know that he still has a lot of feelings for her. We shared cell phones and ...